“ “domestic abuse” includes any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. This can encompass, but is not limited to, psychological, physical, sexual, financial, or emotional abuse. Domestic abuse also includes culturally specific forms of abuse including, but not limited to, forced marriage, honour-based violence, dowry-related abuse and transnational marriage abandonment; … “coercive behaviour” means an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten the victim; “controlling behaviour” means an act or pattern of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour; …”
“14. The court must ascertain at the earliest opportunity, and record on the face of its order, whether domestic abuse is raised as an issue which is likely to be relevant to any decision of the court relating to the welfare of the child, and specifically whether the child and/or parent would be at risk of harm in the making of any child arrangements order.”
“must consider the nature of any allegation, admission or evidence of domestic abuse, and the extent to which it would be likely to be relevant in deciding whether to make a child arrangements order and, if so, in what terms;”
"Having considered the documents, received the representations of the parties, and the safeguarding report, a separate fact-finding hearing is not necessary in this case."
“The parents make allegations and counter allegations about each other which are remarkably similar; they both say the other is manipulative and has bullied the other during and throughout the breakdown of their relationship… In my view they are both still caught up in the breakdown of their relationship and their experience of the other.”
“It continues to be my view that there are no current safeguarding concerns regarding the care of D in either parents care.”
“Part of the background to these proceedings is that both parties have made allegations of emotional and financial abuse against the other. These allegations relate to the period of their relationship breaking down and, as noted by Ms Brown in her reports, are strikingly similar. I agree with her assessment that they are largely evidence of the parties struggling to cope with the breakdown of their relationship and the subsequent shock and sense of loss this has entailed. The District Judge who previously dealt with this case did not consider that a separate fact-finding hearing was necessary and recorded this on the face of his order dated1 June 2016 . He also did not order any schedules in respect of the allegations and his directions in respect of the parties’ evidence for the final hearing (set out at A45-46) focused on the welfare checklist considerations in respect of the relocation proposal rather than the standard directions potentially available to him in relation to disputed allegations in respect of which the Court would need to make findings at this final hearing. I also made it very clear at the commencement of this final hearing that I did not consider it necessary to conduct a detailed forensic examination of the parties’ respective allegations as I did not think that they were directly relevant to the issues in the case about where and with whom D should live. Put bluntly, there are no safeguarding issues established in relation to either parent’s ability to care for D or make arrangements in relation to his having contact with the other parent. This is confirmed by Ms Brown’s appraisal of the situation as set out in her evidence, and as I have already noted. I have therefore approached my findings by considering the welfare checklist as follows: … ”
“In relation to the mother, there is evidence before me that she has undergone counselling and has clearly had difficulties coping with the parties’ acrimonious relationship breakdown. She has provided a letter from her counsellor at B32-34 dated26 June 2016 . It is also clear from Ms Brown’s evidence to me that the mother told her clearly how unhappy she was. However, the mother also told me that she is not currently having to see her counsellor regularly, though she has seen her once since the letter of26 June 2016 . The mother also told me that she is not currently prescribed any medication such as anti-depressants or sleeping tablets. The father told me that he did not accept that the mother’s support network was as limited as she sought to portray and referred to various friends which they had had in common, prior to the break-up and who had offered support to the mother since. I would note that it is not at all unusual for one party to a relationship breakdown to feel differently about friends who are friends of both parties prior to the relationship ending. I can therefore understand that the mother may not necessarily want to continue such friendships at this point. However, it does seem apparent to me that the mother is capable of making new friendships, despite the limitations that working and caring for a child may place on her. I also note and accept that the mother has no family in the UK as all of her family are based in Italy. This is also true for the father. I have no doubt that if I refuse [the mother]’s application she will be distressed and this will potentially have an impact upon her care of D. However, I am not persuaded that this will be a long-term impact upon either her or in turn upon D. She has made sufficient recovery from needing counselling to currently not requiring medication and not needing ongoing counselling. She also has a good job and is clearly therefore not so adversely affected by her current situation as to be unable to work. From seeing her give evidence, I conclude that she is a thoughtful and intelligent person who will no doubt seek to do the best with the circumstances in which she finds herself. That is, after all, what she has been doing to date. Equally I have no doubt that ideally she would benefit from having the support of her family immediately available to her. I suspect that is true of many families, barring some exceptional unsuitability on the part of the family concerned (and which is not the case here). However, as the father told me in his evidence the couple did make the choice to have a child at some distance from their respective families. Of course, a lot has changed since that decision, and in particular the parties have separated so the mother now finds herself parenting D on her own. Despite this, I do not find that she is as isolated as she sought to suggest to me. It is also clear from her evidence to me that she will stay in England if her application is refused, so this is not a case where she will have to move regardless of the outcome.” • The Judge then dealt more shortly with the impact of the decision upon the father. • Concerning the advice of the Cafcass officer about the effect of a move on D, the Judge said this: “The evidence I heard from Ms Brown was to the effect that there was no reason for D not to move to Italy and that any loss arising from not seeing his father as frequently would be ameliorated by using indirect forms of contact and D being able to have a greater relationship with his wider family. I’m afraid that I do not agree with her welfare analysis in this respect. I was much struck by her inability to list any other positives beyond that it would address the unhappiness of the mother. I find that D’s welfare requires that he maintains a relationship with both of his parents and that the quality of his relationship with his father will inevitably suffer significantly if D were to move to Italy. This loss would not be sufficiently ameliorated by indirect contact because D is so young and indirect forms of contact have already been problematic for him during these proceedings.… A closer relationship with D’s wider maternal and paternal family would no doubt be a benefit to him, but it is not such a benefit that it outweighs the loss which I find he would suffer if he were not to have as much contact with his father as he does now. In terms of D developing his sense of identity and cultural heritage, I do agree with the submissions made by [counsel for the father] that this can be achieved through his parents, who are both Italian. It can also be achieved by trips to Italy during the school holidays, I find. There is no evidence before me to the effect that the mother or the father would not be able to take D to Italy to stay with their respective families for such trips.”
“In light of my findings, the lack of detail in her plans, coupled with the impact upon D of losing regular and frequent direct contact with his father, when balanced against the impact on D of his mother remaining in England, leads me to conclude that the balance tips against her application.”
“As noted by Ms Brown, both parties agreed that the current arrangements are not working for D. D needs there to be fewer handovers and that is accepted by all concerned. Ms Brown recommended that D should live with his mother and spend time with his father. Her reasoning for this, as amplified in evidence to me, is twofold. Firstly, she has concluded that D needs to be with one parent rather than the other due to the parents’ inability to effectively communicate with each other at present. Secondly, she preferred the practicalities of where the mother lives in terms of size of accommodation and proximity to D’s school. I’m afraid that again I do not accept her recommendation this regard. In relation to whether D should live with one parent rather than the other and spend time with the parent with whom he is not living, there is clear authority that a failure to be able to communicate effectively is not a bar to shared care arrangements. I have looked at the actual facts of this case before me. The shared care arrangement has been in place for some months now for D and he is thriving despite the niggling, petty issues that each parent has at times taken with the other over parenting practices. The only major problem with this shared care arrangement, I find, is the frequency of handovers that promotes instability. … Frequent handovers can also lead to greater opportunities for conflict between the parents until they are able to move on. Ms Brown is confident that they can make the necessary progress to achieving effective communication, it is just that they are not there yet. I agree with her analysis in this respect. However, that also serves to underline that failure to communicate is seemingly a temporary issue for these parents. This case is not one that has all the hallmarks of a chronic inability to communicate and I am confident that both parents are capable of putting D first and achieving effective communication as a result of the desire to do what is in D’s best interests. Whilst there is a degree of inability to communicate, I find that a shared care arrangement actually neutralises any opportunity for one party to seek to exert greater rights than the other party. It also minimises change for D as that is the reality of most of his life, both before and after the parents separated. The parties and Ms Brown have told me how child focused each of their properties are. Both are in rented accommodation, which inevitably brings a risk of tenancy being terminated earlier than anticipated in certain circumstances. It is true that the father’s accommodation is less ideal in that he has to sleep in the lounge on a futon when D stays with him.… However, I do find that his accommodation is good enough at present for D to continue living there some of the time. I also note that it is by no means certain that the mother’s finances will enable her to maintain her current accommodation. So to make a decision that is predicated on her having a two bedroomed property does not seem sensible. [In relation to schooling], the journey time is a method of travel which he has to use from his father’s address are not exceptional, and many thousands of children of his age have to endure far lengthier and [more] awkward journeys than his. In light of this, I cannot accept Ms Brown’s recommendation for D to live with his mother and spend time with his father. I will make a child arrangements order for D to live with both of his parents. I do think that a two weekly cycle, which both parents propose, is suitable for D as that minimises handovers. I am told that both parents can arrange their work around D’s schooling as their employers are flexible. I am not persuaded that an arrangement whereby D spends significantly more time with one parent than the other, even under a shared care arrangement is in D’s best interests. That risks creating a perception in favour of one parent over the other. In these arrangements, while they are still learning to move on and communicate effectively, that is clearly not in D’s best interests. It seems to me that the best arrangement for D would be one where one week and weekend he lives with one parent, and the next he lives with the other.”
“Introduction 1. … 2. … Permission was granted and the court heard the appeal. The appeal was allowed as the trial judge had made a fundamental procedural error in failing to resolve the issue of the future care of the child prior to considering the application for relocation. 3. In addition, the judge failed to consider or make any finding in respect of complaints of controlling and coercive behaviour on the part of [the father] alleged by [the mother]. The effect of all forms of domestic abuse on children and their welfare has long been recognised by the Family Court. Background 4. … 5. … Hearing and evidence 6. … [The mother] had made numerous complaints about [the father]'s controlling and emotionally abusive behaviour, which if true would be capable of amounting to the coercive behaviour set out ins77 (1) of the Serious Crime Act 2015 and would have fallen within the Statutory Guidance from the Home Office which followed the enactment of that legislation. The Family Court should be familiar with the guidance and take it into account when reaching any conclusions about conduct amounting to domestic abuse. 7. As it was, in this case the decision of the judge not to carry out any fact-finding meant that there was no consideration of potentially abusive and controlling behaviour, its effect on the child's mother and ultimately on the child himself. It is questionable whether a decision about his care and the continuance of a shared care regime could have been properly informed and such ignorance is likely to have been antipathetic to his best interests. Law 8. In considering this application to appeal I have in mind ofCPR 1998 r52.11 and consider that there has been a serious procedural irregularity in the proceedings principally because the judge failed to approach the case as she should have done by considering and deciding the question of the child's main carer and child arrangements, prior to considering the application to relocate. It is well established law that when the future care of a child is in dispute this must be resolved before an application for removal from the jurisdiction can be considered. The case law on relocation applications, going back over fifteen years and more, commencing with the case of Payne v Payne[2001] 1FLR 1052 (see Butler-Sloss P at [80]), makes it clear that the welfare of a child is best served by considering issues of care, and who can best provide that care is an issue that is to be decided in advance of considering relocation. 9. It is abundantly clear from her judgment that the judge, who had correctly identified the case law in respect of relocation cases and set them out at the beginning of her judgment, started where off where she should have concluded. It is not until the end of her judgement that the judge considered what arrangements there should be for the child and her analysis and reasoning for that, most fundamental, part of her decision is dealt with barely any reference to, or analysis of, the s1(3) welfare checklist; or of the issues directly connected with the care of the child, which had concerned the Cafcass Officer. 10. The judge's belated, deferred analysis of the future care of this child, who is best able to meet his needs, both at present in and in the long term and what arrangements would meet his best interests as set out in her judgment, is flawed; not only because it was carried out after she had decided on the issue of relocation, but also because the judge's consideration of this child's overall welfare needs were considered within the context of relocation not as part of the necessary primary analysis of which parent was best placed to meet those needs. While there have been instances where a child's welfare has required that the court consider future care and relocation at once this is not [such] a case (see in Re J (Leave to Remove: Urgent Case)[2007] 1 FLR 2033 ). 11. Secondly, the judge was wrong not to have considered and made findings in respect of the complaints of abusive and controlling behaviour on the part of [the father] as alleged by [the mother]. It was the Cafcass officer's view that the child was living between, "what must be [an] incredible strain that both parents are clearly under". The judge simply split the child's time between two homes in what may seem to be an even-handed approach to a difficult and all too common problem. This is unsophisticated, over-simplistic approach, all too often taken by the Family Court when making child arrangements orders, to attempt to adhere to the amendments to the CA brought in by theChildren and Families Act 2014 by making an order for shared care which is an even split of time and to compel parents to co-operate. Splitting a child between two homes which are antagonistic and unsupportive of each other is not consistent with the best interests of a child nor congruent with that child's welfare. 12. Further, in this case, the judge's consideration, and dismissal of the Cafcass officer's recommendations, and her reasons given for the latter, as set out in the very last part of her judgment was at best superficial. Even if the judge's reasons for not following the Cafcass officer's recommendations could be considered sufficient (applying the dicta in Re J (Children) (Residence: Expert Evidence) [2001] 2 FCR 44) in this case, as it is clear from the structure of her judgment, the judge had, and was, considering the recommendations of Ms Brown primarily within the context of relocation. 13. It is not clear from the judgement why the judge considered it appropriate not to carry out any fact-finding, as if there was any basis for them, [the father]'s behaviour towards [the mother] is ultimately likely to have an effect on D. The judge did not apply, make reference to, or consider in her judgment, FPR 2010,PD12J nor why it would not have applied in this case, as allegations of coercive behaviour had been raised. Instead she relied on previous case management decision by a District Judge that a separate fact finding was not necessary as a justification for carrying out no fact-finding at all in respect of [the father]'s conduct during co-habitation and in its aftermath, and of the parties' ability to work together for the benefit of D. This will have a direct impact on D; the probable ability of [the father] to care for D on his own cannot be divorced from the effect on the child of the hostility between his parents, distress caused to his mother and the longer-term impact on the child of being split between two disparate households which are in conflict. It is questionable whether it is in any child's best interests to become or grow up in a milieu part of which is one parent's (or carer) controlling behaviour in respect of that child's co-parent (carer). Conclusion 14. The appeal is allowed. 15. Remitted to a different circuit judge for re-hearing in the first instance of the arrangements for D and, thereafter, of any renewed application by [the mother] to relocate to Italy. The case is to be listed before the designated Family Judge for case management and allocation in the first instance. 16. In addition, this court will order that D is to be separately represented and made a party to the proceedings under FPR 2010, r16.2 (1) as it is in D’s best interests to do so. There are arguments that should be put forward on behalf of the child in respect of his long-term welfare and location, and his heritage. This child is of Italian heritage and most of his extended family live in Italy, while not a deciding factor it is one which should command some consideration by the tribunal deciding his future. The fact that as EU citizens his parents' residence and their status in the UK no longer has the certainty it previously had, and the possibility that relocation to Italy may become a necessity is a factor that should, properly, have been considered by the trial judge. As such this child falls within FPR 2010;PD16A paragraph 7.2 (b) and (g). 17. Subject to any representations to the contrary from Cafcass, [the Cafcass officer] is appointed as his guardian. 18. No order as to costs.”
“Each realistic option for the welfare of a child should be validly considered on its own internal merits (i.e. an analysis of the welfare factors relating to each option should be undertaken). That prevents one option (often in a relocation case the proposals from the absent or 'left behind' parent) from being sidelined in a linear analysis. Not only is it necessary to consider both parents' proposals on their own merits and by reference to what the child has to say but it is also necessary to consider the options side by side in a comparative evaluation. A proposal that may have some but no particular merit on its own may still be better than the only other alternative which is worse.”
“… I would not expect to find cases bogged down with arguments as to whether the time spent with each of the parents or other aspects of the care arrangements are such as to make the case “a Payne case” or “an In re Y case”, nor would I expect preliminary skirmishes over the label to be applied to the child’s arrangements with a view to a parent having a shared residence order in his or her armoury for deployment in the event of a relocation application. The ways in which parents provide for the care of their children are, and should be, infinitely varied. In the best of cases they are flexible and responsive to the needs of the children over time. When a relocation application falls to be determined, all of the facts need to be considered.”
“The judge simply split the child's time between two homes in what may seem to be an even-handed approach to a difficult and all too common problem. This is unsophisticated, over-simplistic approach, all too often taken by the Family Court when making child arrangements orders, to attempt to adhere to the amendments to the CA brought in by theChildren and Families Act 2014 by making an order for shared care which is an even split of time and to compel parents to co-operate. Splitting a child between two homes which are antagonistic and unsupportive of each other is not consistent with the best interests of a child nor congruent with that child's welfare.”
“The fact that as EU citizens his parents' residence and their status in the UK no longer has the certainty it previously had, and the possibility that relocation to Italy may become a necessity is a factor that should, properly, have been considered by the trial judge.”
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