“To be driven to jettison the principles in G v G in this context is not to say that the factors which often vitiate the exercise of a discretion – namely that the judge considered an irrelevant matter, failed to consider a relevant matter, erred in law or applied a wrong principle – becomes irrelevant. On the contrary they may well generate a conclusion that the determination was wrong and should be set aside and either that it should be reversed or that the application should be remitted for consideration afresh.”
“M variously ignored C, failed to interact with the children and failed to place boundaries upon their behaviour. In contrast the children appeared to have a good attachment to F, although he too failed to place boundaries upon some aspects of V’s behaviour.”
“there are the concerns in relation to M’s past threats of physical harm to the children, her displays of both verbal and sometimes physical aggression with F, her ill-treatment of the children by way of physical chastisement, her frankly bizarre interactions with various agencies and her often volatile and critical attitude to offered assistance by the Social Services.”
“F’s failure to accept any responsibility for the situation in which his children found themselves and his consequential failure to care for them, was not that which could be considered to be reasonable to expect a parent to provide for his children.” and he was satisfied that: “as matters progressed through to September of 2011, his neglect of his children’s welfare placed the children at considerable risk of significant harm by way of impairment of their physical health and was impairing their emotional, intellectual and social development.”
“it is apparent from [C’s] letter that her real and present wish is to be raised in a safe, loving and secure family environment which would be afforded by two parents living together; a situation which she realistically appreciates that neither of her parents can provide for her and V.”
“Overall F has appeared to be far more engaged with the children in these sessions, whilst M has on many occasions appeared to be less inclined to do so. Not infrequently M has given priority to V over C. Moreover throughout this period there have been times when M has expressed views and displayed behaviour which are of concern to a number of agencies.”
“I have studied the contact notes contained within the Trial Bundle and although it is apparent that there have been many occasions when M’s behaviour during contact sessions has been inappropriate, there have been a significant number of others when it is clear that the children have appreciated their contact with her and benefitted from it. On these occasions she is able to play with them and interact both verbally and physically with them in an appropriate manner. Albeit on some of them M has either tended to baby the children ….. or been critical of them …..”
“….during the vast majority of the contact sessions with F, he has interacted well with them and they appear to have fully appreciated their time with him. He appears to be genuinely interested in their lives outside the contact sessions, asking appropriate questions of the children, to which they eagerly respond. He plays games with them either of their own choosing, or appropriately suggests games which they can play together. Most of these sessions ending with the children informing F that they love him. This is not to say that there have not been some concerns, such as his apparent difficulty in placing boundaries on the children’s behaviour (e.g [dates of nine sessions between November 2011 and July 2012 quoted]). However, overall it is clear that his contact with the children during this period has been of positive value to them. The current contact regime is that both each [sic] parent has twice weekly contact with the children.”
“It is apparent from the history of this matter that over a significant period of time whilst the children were being cared for by M, she appears to have prioritised her own concerns over those relating to the welfare of her children. Leading [sic] to the isolation of these children both from socialising and being appropriately educated outside the home, and from any emotional warmth and stimulation from M. Unfortunately during the course of the assessment, M’s frequent lack of interaction with the children, particularly C, appears to have confirmed this situation as one that is likely to persist, rather than improve. Furthermore it is apparent that M shows little if any insight into the harm that this has already caused to the children and the further potential harm to them from its continuation in the future. The only parenting error which she conceded in the course of the assessment being [sic] to have allowed her children to be removed from her care.”
“the prospects of M accepting and maintaining any safe level of medical treatment of her mental health are poor and are certainly insufficient to justify any delay in the making of any orders for the benefit of either of these children.”
“M would not presently nor in the foreseeable future be able to provide the consistency of safe and secure care which both of these children need both now and throughout the remainder of their childhoods. Moreover if returned to her care, it is likely that the children would, at the very least, once again become isolated both from social interaction and appropriate education outside the home and from emotional warmth and stimulation within it. In my judgment the nature and extent of the harm to which this would be likely to expose these children is such that, despite the normally undoubted benefits of being with one or both birth parents, their welfare at this stage and in the future dictates that neither of these children should be returned to the care of M.”
“F was fully aware of M’s erratic and bizarre behaviour, and the abusive and unpredictable caregiving that the children were receiving. He chose to place his need for sanctuary away from such conflict and erratic behaviour above the need for him to protect his children. C and V have suffered prolonged feelings of fear, anxiety and stress as a result of F’s unwillingness to protect them. ”
“Indeed where continued contact with the birth parents is considered to be in the interest of the child both during his childhood and beyond, then it is of less weight still and may indeed provide a contrary indication to adoption itself.”
“Such an approach will also have the advantage that as the children will not cease to be members of their birth family, they are more likely to retain a more meaningful tie with their cultural heritage. Although this is a matter which has not been at the forefront of the decision making process in this case, it will be a beneficial incidence of it.”