“7. It is also a highly significant feature of the case that the girls have a close relationship with each other. Unpacking that, what is really meant is (i) that G feels very attached to N; (ii) dreads separation from her; but also, (iii) has in the past adopted the role of a carer towards her little sister; and, (iv) there is a sense that N has relied on her relationship with G. On this last point, N is described as presenting as rather ‘out of it’ when first in the foster home – rather lost in her own world rather than relating to those around her; but also as lighting up when G was in the room. The conclusion is that N – who also has some catching up to do in terms of her development - was under-stimulated by her ‘lost’ mother, but not by her older sister. 8. What is abundantly clear is that G dreads losing N. She has written me the most touching of letters telling me so. She has gone out of her way to tell anyone and everyone who would listen that this is her worst fear. She has been given a ‘worry monster’ by her foster carers and the loss of N is the worry which, for months on an almost daily basis as I understand it, she has physically (i.e. on a piece of paper) deposited with the monster before leaving for school as a way of defusing her fear. The worry has ‘disappeared’ on her return home – but only to be posted again the next day. More than this, there is to my mind a quite remarkable analysis of her fears for an 8 year old, in the context of the adoption care plan for her sister. G has told her guardian that what she fears is that N will, first, be a long way away and, secondly, will forget her. It is indeed the evidence before me that there is no local adoptive placement for N at the current time (and thus N could be placed for adoption anywhere in England) and, of course, it would be usual in an adoptive placement for a young child not to know, and so to forget, its birth family. 9. This touching but troubling concern of G’s has been a feature of this hearing, but the guardian rightly reminds me that it is but one consideration. That said, the situation is such that both [the allocated social worker] and [the guardian] elevate the need for ongoing sibling contact post-N’s adoption to the level of essential….”
“I can make a placement order in N’s case only if I am satisfied that her welfare requires that I do so. The word ‘requires’ carries a connotation of an imperative – that “nothing else will do.”
“The need which neither the father nor the grandparents can meet is the need for the girls to be together if possible. There can be no criticism of the paternal family for their approach in offering a home to G alone. They were clear that N would be a welcome visitor to both of their homes – welcome for stays short and long – a week’s holiday was mentioned. Thus if N were with her mother or in a foster home she could spend at least a reasonable amount of time with G. If she were in foster care some creative thinking around visits to the North would be required, but I can see no reason why this should not take place on a regular and generous basis. If N is adopted, I find that borders on the impossible. At best there would be a limited, occasional visit.”
“The current foster home seems to meet all the girls’ needs for the time being. The arguments against the girls remaining in foster care were the usual ones advanced: they would be subject to continuing professional involvement and the prospect of moves in future – frequent or otherwise. The age of the current foster mother – 61 – is against her. All this evidence was given before the current foster mother was approached late in the trial and asked if she could keep N alone. The unexpected response that she could keep one or both girls is not tested as it undoubtedly should be.”
“32. An adoptive placement is likely to be found for N, albeit that it is unlikely to be local. It is likely to meet all of her needs except her need to be in touch with her sister (regarded, it will be recalled, as essential by the mother, local authority and guardian alike). Before turning to that, it is worth stating that although I find N is developmentally behind where she should be, I find myself with all due deference not quite as pessimistic as [the social worker] and in particular [the guardian] as to the level of reparative parenting which she is likely to need in future…. However, if I am wrong about this, it would in my judgment be an argument not for adoption, but for foster care and in particular for N to remain where she is. Adoptive parents are unlikely to be experienced and would probably not come with any particular expertise in dealing with a child bearing the scars of past failures in parenting. It is also important to point out, bearing in mind the history of the mother, that an adoptive placement would not come with any guarantee of success. I find that in almost all cases the professional approach is to favour adoption over long-term fostering for any child under the age of around 5 or 6 (this is not as I understand it the law, but it continues to be the all too common professional approach and I intend no criticism of the individuals in this case). It is normal for me to find very little in the way of a “Re B-S Analysis” of adoption: the process seems to be to consider parents first, wider family next and then if they are ruled out the assumption seems to be that long-term fostering is ruled out on the grounds of age - and that adoption is ruled in as almost a panacea. The history of the mother is a reminder that this is not so. [The mother’s counsel], armed with the mother’s history and the need to keep the children together if possible, was robust in her cross-examination: why is it thought that foster care is so bad in comparison if adoption means losing your sister? And if it has worked so well to date? To these I would respectfully add: and if ‘reparative care’ is needed? I record there were no persuasive answers to these questions. Again, I intend no criticism. This is a particularly nuanced case. Both the local authority and the guardian recommended only a time-limited search for an adoptive placement. Neither seemed entirely wedded to any particular outcome or order.”
“33. These considerations bring me to a, perhaps the, key concern about adoption. If on-going sibling contact is essential then can adoption for N meet that need? There was much talk about finding adopters willing to accept up to 4 meetings a year – which in the professional mind would be short encounters, perhaps by videolink in some cases. Even if achievable it would be a far cry from the kind of arrangements which would be possible from foster care. Moreover - and this for me is a key point on which the professionals did not touch in their written material - any prospective adopters would have to be told not just that sibling contact was required but that the sibling in question would (this is common ground in the case of G) also be seeing her mother and thus the usual seal between adoptive and birth parents could not be maintained in the long- or even the medium-term. The professionals accepted that the need for sibling contact would in itself narrow the pool of adopters.…[T]he team manager, told me that locally there was a large surplus of children waiting to be adopted over adoptive parents waiting for children. He believed the national picture was patchy. In these circumstances I find myself unsure as to whether adopters could be found for N who would permit sibling contact in these circumstances. I am satisfied that not enough thought has been given to this question before trial.”
“35. The existing relationships held by N (and of course G, but ‘existing relationships’ is a specific factor in the 2002 Act checklist which applies to N alone – see sub-section 1(4)(f)) are relevant in the context of the mother as well as G. This is not a case in which I can rule out with certainty the mother’s ability to care for N (or G) in future. Moreover, the mother will continue to spend some time with G and it may be a future source of confusion and concern for N to know that she has a half-sister who continues to see her birth mother when she herself does not. 36. Looking at N’s welfare throughout life, I can acknowledge that adoption is likely to provide her with a ‘forever family’ in a way that long-term fostering would not. (That said it is worth noting that I was told about the wall of photographs of past foster children found within her current foster home.) Care by her mother in future would provide her with a wider maternal but not paternal family. “37. The character and personality of the children plays out in particular in terms of their relationship with each other, and G’s desire to be with N. This needs to be analysed in a little more detail. The major loss if they were to be separated would be to G, rather than to N. N is of course much younger. She has looked to her older sister in the past for care and she clearly means something to her. It is G, however, who in the words of [the social worker] would experience the loss of her sister as a “bereavement”
“How then to weigh these various factors within the checklists against each other in the context of the various options available?”
“47. Thus the options for N come down to adoption or long-term fostering. Viewed at present it seems to me that long-term fostering is the better option. First, as indicated above, I doubt that a placement would be found which could tolerate on-going sibling contact. Secondly, the option of N remaining where she is at present is attractive. She has done well there and she is settled. If she is losing the companionship of her sister, she does not need any more change. The state of the evidence is that the foster mother can offer this long-term placement. I agree that the issue will have to be explored but the circumstances are such that the offer should not be discouraged. I was told on behalf of the guardian that, at 61, the foster mother would be regarded as too old to pass approval by the fostering panel. I think this would be a mistake, but it does not alter my conclusion. Any long-term fostering placement is bound to be able to offer on-going good quality contact to both G and the mother. Whilst I acknowledge that such a regime would run counter to a traditional local authority approach to contact within a foster placement, I believe a much more creative, flexible and broader approach to N’s time with her sister is possible and desirable in this case. I cannot see any good reason why there should not be holidays spent together and other regular meetings. I invite the local authority to consider this specifically. On this evidence, I am unable to say that “nothing else will do” other than a placement order. Far from it. My conclusion is that long-term fostering is a better option. It is available and it better meets N’s needs whilst keeping her safe from harm. 48. Whilst I acknowledge that both the local authority and the guardian are of a different mind, make powerful arguments and gave evidence well, it may be some indication that both are alive to the difficulties in adoption (and perhaps to the positives in long-term fostering) that both have indicated that any search for an adoptive placement should in any event be time-limited to 6 months from the date of the placement order. 49. I acknowledge that there is no perfect solution; that each of the options before me has significant disadvantages. I also emphasise that having decided the preferable option for each child individually, I have revisited my conclusions in respect of one child in the light of my conclusions in respect of the other. Specifically, if N is remaining in foster care, then might it not be best for G to remain there as well? It is an arguable case. Nevertheless, I conclude that the advantages of family care overcome G’s obvious and clear desire to remain with her sister. If G is to leave the current placement, might that not favour adoption for N? I do not believe so.”
“I believe the judgment sufficiently explains my reasoning and does not require elaboration pursuant to the principles in English v Emery Reimbold & Strick Ltd[2002] EWCA Civ 605 . I would, however, briefly comment as follows. As the judgment seeks to explain, no adoption plan or order would be likely to provide the level of contact required between the girls and no sufficient thought has been given to the effect on potential adopters (and therefore on the plan) of the inability to keep the “seal” from the birth parents. The impact of a move of foster carers for N is unpredictable and would depend on the circumstances of the time. It is to be hoped that she can remain where she is – which the evidence indicated was not just possible but likely – at least so far as the foster carer is concerned. The judgment makes clear that the impact of the loss of G upon N is likely to be less than the loss of N upon G. I do not believe it is possible to elaborate further.”
“(1) Adoption makes the child a permanent part of the adoptive family to which he or she fully belongs. To the child, it is likely therefore to "feel" different from fostering. Adoptions do, of course, fail but the commitment of the adoptive family is of a different nature to that of a local authority foster carer whose circumstances may change, however devoted he or she is, and who is free to determine the caring arrangement. (2) Whereas the parents may apply for the discharge of a care order with a view to getting the child back to live with them, once an adoption order is made, it is made for all time. (3) Contact in the adoption context is also a different matter from contact in the context of a fostering arrangement. Where a child is in the care of a local authority, the starting point is that the authority is obliged to allow the child reasonable contact with his parents (section 34(1) Children Act 1989 ). The contact position can, of course, be regulated by alternative orders under section 34 but the situation still contrasts markedly with that of an adoptive child. There are open adoptions, where the child sees his or her natural parents, but I think it would be fair to say that such arrangements tend not to be seen where the adoptive parents are not in full agreement. Once the adoption order has been made, the natural parents normally need leave before they can apply for contact. (4) Routine life is different for the adopted child in that once he or she is adopted, the local authority have no further role in his or her life (no local authority medicals, no local authority reviews, no need to consult the social worker over school trips abroad, for example).”
“(a) the child’s ascertainable wishes and feelings regarding the decision (considered in the light of the child’s age and understanding), (b) the child’s particular needs, (c) the likely effect on the child (throughout his life) of having ceased to be a member of the original family and become an adopted person, (d) the child’s age, sex, background and any of the child’s characteristics which the court or agency considers relevant, (e) any harm (within the meaning of theChildren Act 1989 ) which the child has suffered or is at risk of suffering, (f) the relationship which the child has with relatives, with any person who is a prospective adopter with whom the child is placed, and with any other person in relation to whom the court or agency considers the relationship to be relevant, including – (i) the likelihood of any such relationship continuing and the value to the child of doing so, (ii) the ability and willingness, of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, to provide the child with a secure environment in which the child can develop, and otherwise to meet the child’s needs, (iii) the wishes and feelings of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, regarding the child.” (i) the likelihood of any such relationship continuing and the value to the child of doing so, (ii) the ability and willingness, of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, to provide the child with a secure environment in which the child can develop, and otherwise to meet the child’s needs, (iii) the wishes and feelings of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, regarding the child.”
“is a balancing exercise in which each option is evaluated to the degree of detail necessary to analyse and weigh its own internal positives and negatives and each option is then compared, side by side, against the competing option or options.”
“In a case where the judge has adopted the correct approach to the issue of necessity and proportionality, the appellate court’s function is accordingly, as explained in In re B, to review his findings, and to intervene only if it takes the view that he was wrong. In conducting that review, an appellate court will have clearly in mind the advantages that the judge has over any subsequent court - see Lord Wilson in In re B at para 41 and the earlier decision of the House of Lords in Piglowska v Piglowski[1999] UKHL 27 , [1999] I WLR 1360.”