"Nothing about the future is certain. The Court does not have a crystal ball and it is unreasonable for any case to be put in terms of 'certainty' or 'guarantee.' The essential element of care planning is the balancing of risks and differing options for children. No option of care planning offers certainty and no option is perfect. The main conclusion in the Care Enquiry 2013, funded by Nuffield Foundation is at R356: 'From all that we have learnt - is that 'permanence' for children means 'security, stability, love and a strong sense of identity and belonging'. This is not connected to legal status, and one route to . . . permanency is not necessarily better than another: each option is right for some children and young people. Adoption, although right for some children, will only ever provide permanence for a small number of children in care.' Notably the report went on to conclude that: 'A core principle of the care system should be that relationships are a golden thread running through a child's life'.In the Care Planning and Fostering Miscellaneous Amendments England Regulations 2015 , parliament specifically introduced long term foster care as a legally defined permanence option for looked after children. 40. The amendment of Regulation 28 of 2010, allows for the frequency of visits to a child to be reduced to intervals of not more than six months after a child has been in a long term looked after placement for at least one year. The care planning and placement care review of July 2021 provides that where a child is placed in a long term placement, which has been for a year, the IRO should consider whether it is necessary to hold a meeting as part of that review. 41. In relation to the Nuffield Foundation document at R343,: 'Research evidence suggests that long term foster care can work well as a permanence option for children, but success relies upon appropriate care planning. Multi-agency support. High quality care giving. Achieving stability and enabling children to feel part of the family.' Long term foster care is therefore a permanence option for children, crucially alongside adoption and it is no lesser an option to be considered for permanence, albeit it has different advantages and disadvantages." 42. The Nuffield report also refers to some historic studies. The Biehal report from 2010. 44. What the data suggests is that age is a key factor in breakdowns for long-term fostering, and emotional attachment is a key reason why placements do not breakdown. 45. In the article entitled 'Keeping Secrets: How children in foster care manage stigma', dated March 2019 in a Saga Journal by Dansey et al., it is noted there is a potential future risk of stigma becoming an issue. 47. The article also emphasizes that children need to be helped to build and develop their resilience and sense of identity and self-esteem to recover from those difficult experiences. Positive relationships with their foster carers, their peers, teachers, therapists and birth families, where possible, will be key in helping children to rebuild their resources, identity and self-esteem. The article ends by saying that in fact more direct research is needed about this area."
"We have never used respite due to needing a break or being overwhelmed by caring for the boys. Yes, they are a lot and sometimes it is chaotic, but we have adapted, and love every minute of it. We are never shy of admitting that it's hard work having three boys so close in age at one time. However, we have worked hard as a family to have a routine that works for us, all in the chaos of having three toddlers. From taking turns sleeping on their bedroom floor to ensure they would sleep, to where we are now and where they put themselves to bed, lie down and sleep for the night. The boys are a part of our family life, and we love to include them in everything. Not only do we have an amazing and solid bond with the boys, so does our son. He sees them as his little brothers, and they all look up to him in awe, and just love being around him. I don’t know what more I can say to prove our long-term commitment to the boys. We love being their caregivers and providing them with all the love, safety and security they deserve. We love our career as foster carers and support and training is what makes us know we will be able to provide the best care for them as they grow. We know in our heart of hearts we would be there for the boys forever, not merely until eighteen or twenty-one, but forever. Yes, we cannot predict the future or what is to come, however, we have overcome some of the biggest challenges since being foster carers, both within fostering and with our own son and together as a family, and remain not only together, but stronger. We love these boys and want nothing but the best for them. We hope to have the boys reunited as a sibling group, and after watching them grow and bond together for the last eighteen months has been incredible. We believe that this is how it should remain."