‘(i) On [date] 2022, Joshua witnessed a significant verbal and physical altercation between M and F. During the incident, the following has been reported: M alleges F strangled her; M took a kitchen knife from the knife block with the intention of stabbing F; M suffered a large and deep cut to her forearm from the knife; It is reported by health professionals that the cut was 1 inch long and was deep enough to expose fat tissue; M subsequently required 6 stiches at the hospital for the injury; Three out of the four walls in the kitchen were splattered in blood; Joshua was in the property during this altercation and is reported to have said “my mummy is covered in ketchup” and M reports she keeps having flashbacks of Joshua “shrieking”; M also had multiple other visible injuries which included two lumps and a bruise to the back of her head, a cut and a bruise to her cheek bone, a bruise to her spine, and the bruise around the size of an adult hand on the back of her calf; Upon police attendance, F presented as irate and was shouting and swearing at the police; F was arrested for causing ABH with intent; At no point during this incident was Joshua removed from the situation by the adults in the home. (ii) The police log relating to the above incident reports that both F and M were “extremely drunk” and in their view “incapable of caring for Joshua”. F accepts that he had consumed alcohol and cannabis as well as cocaine. M accepts she had been drinking. (iii) The Local Authority were notified on the [date] 2022 that M had withdrawn her statement against F for the above incident and subsequently the bail conditions which were in place in respect of F were then dropped and the police took no further action due to M’s refusal to pursue the matter. (iv) Immediately following the incident, despite being offered tangible safety measures to help her separate from F in a way which would keep her and Joshua safe e.g. non-molestation order/move to a refuge, M declined, and indicated a plan for reunification in the future. (v) F has an extensive criminal record which includes multiple domestic violence incidences. F served a custodial sentence in January 2019 for ABH on his ex-partner.’
'What the Strasbourg jurisprudence requires (and, I would have thought, what the rule of law in a modern, democratic society would require) is that no child should be adopted, particularly when it is against her parents' wishes, without a judge deciding after a proper hearing, with the interests of the parents (where appropriate) and of the child being appropriately advanced, that it is necessary in the interests of the child that she be adopted.'
'… adoption of a child against her parents' wishes should only be contemplated as a last resort – when all else fails. Although the child's interests in an adoption case are 'paramount' (in the UK legislation and under article 21 of UNCRC) a court must never lose sight of the fact that those interests include being brought up by her natural family, ideally her natural parents, or at least one of them.' 22. Baroness Hale said at paragraph 198 of Re B[2013] UKSC 33 : '
“Long term foster care was also considered; however, this would mean Joshua would need to constantly balance a relationship between his parents and his carers which means he will not fully settle into his placement. Due to possible placement changes, particularly given Joshua’s young age, this option does not offer stability to Joshua. Joshua is of an age where he is fortunate enough to be able to form attachments with new carers, and adoption would offer an opportunity for him to have a fulfilling family life. It is vital that adopters are found at the earliest opportunity as any delay could impact on his ability to form new attachments with any prospective adopter/s and that adopters are aware of Joshua’s individual needs. The Local Authority is mindful that decisions regarding the care of Joshua must be made within his timescales. He needs consistent, safe, and emotionally attuned parenting. He needs to know where his permanent home is within a stable family environment so he can settle, continue to thrive, and receive emotional support for the experiences he has been through.”
“Joshua's behaviour suggests a sense of happy anticipation on arrival and pleasure in being with his mother. Joshua looks forward to family time and said he enjoys spending time with his mother…. engaging and responding well to Joshua`s needs during family time.”
‘Long term foster care was also considered; however, this would mean Joshua would need to constantly balance a relationship between his parents and his carers which means he will not fully settle into his placement. Due to possible placement changes, particularly given Joshua’s young age, this option does not offer stability to Joshua.’
‘Joshua is currently within a foster placement where he needs are being met by carers who are aware of his history and trauma and they are able to skilfully meet these needs with reparative care and empathy, meaning Joshua has already settled in their care and has acclimatised (to a degree) to being apart from his mother. A future move to any adoptive placement may undermine the progress that has already been made as well as risking adding another layer of trauma through the loss of the (multiple) positive relationships Joshua has built whilst in foster care. Joshua needs understanding carers who can appreciate that the past will have an impact on Joshua, but this can be overcome through reparative parenting. In my view Joshua is already benefitting from such a placement and is settled there.’