“1) The relationship between M and F is a volatile and unstable [one] characterised by domestic abuse and violence, examples of this include: a) On17th September 2019 , an ambulance was called by a third-party (M’s aunt). M was assaulted by F and had a cut to her head. [C64; H57, [H216, H218 - H227; H233] b) On19th February 2020 , Police were called by a third-party as F grabbed M to her left side of the neck causing injury. [H73- H81, H86-H97] c) On22nd March 2020 , police attended the property. M reported that the relationship ended mutually on21st March 2020 . F attended the address to collect his belongings and an argument occurred. M tried to convince F to leave and he grabbed her by the neck through clothing pushing her backwards. No visible injuries observed. Police took no further action as M did not want support [ H56, H113, H120 - H124] d) On29th January 2021 , M was subjected to numerous assaults throughout her relationship with F. M has been kicked, punched and strangled. M fled the address in fear of further violence from F. M stayed with her Aunt. F was arrested and released on bail with conditions until03/03/2021 including not to go to [address] and not to contact M in any way. On1st February 2021 , M reported to [name] Housing she had been assaulted by her partner, F over the weekend and the Police had arrested him and he was in custody. Police agreed to support a house move on the basis that M presented as scared to return to the address. [C3; C5; C65; H1, H7, H12, H17-H20, H23, H27-H37; H59-H64; H234 – H235] e) M reported to [name] Housing on25th February 2021 , that she fled the property the day prior because F beat her up. She left in a taxi whereby F chased after her [C4-C5; C66] f) On27th July 2021 , M reported to [name], Social Worker, that F spat at her and also bit her. [Social worker] observed injury to M to be a large circular bruise on M’s right forearm. M made a subsequent disclosure to Midwife, and injury was observed. [C6; C13; C47; C68] g) On8th October 2021 , M left the property and F due to his aggression; C49; C69;C70 h) On8th December 2021 , Police attended property. F was found throwing a suitcase full of M’s clothing and items onto the street, whilst shouting “F**ing Wh***; F***ing B**h”
“M ended the relationship and was requesting refuge accommodation as well as asking her solicitor to obtain a Restraining Order against F. M stated to children’s services that there were arguments all the time, F kept ‘kicking her out’ of the home and was aggressive. F was abusive shouting at her in the street and has left abusive messages on her phone.” “M and F had a brief separation as recently as8th March 2022 . M denies this incident having anything to do with her relationship with F, explaining “I’d had enough, everything was getting to me, all the assessments, contact, appointments, I have no time to chill out, so I decided to go to my Aunt’s”. … M was unable to provide a clear rationale for requesting her solicitor to apply for a Restraining Order against F following this incident, stating that she just wanted to be left alone.”
“There was another argument in March and I did leave the house for a couple of days. I think at that time that everything had really got on top of me and I needed some space and time to think. These proceedings have been really stressful. We were coming to the end of the parenting assessment sessions which I had found quite hard and I was constantly thinking about whether C would come home. There was an argument and I did go to push F and he did push back. I left the house so that I could calm down and I went to my aunt’s house for a few days. I did tell the team manager that we had separated but this was said in anger and I just needed to be by myself for a bit.”
“40. … F found it extremely hard to keep his emotions under control throughout the hearing. When other witnesses said things with which he disagreed, he tutted, huffed, or shouted out from the back of Court (e.g. “that’s a lie” during the SW’s evidence), to the extent that the SW appeared intimidated and distracted by him on occasions. During M’s oral evidence, F shouted out to provide the answers he thought she should give, such as when M was asked if she was making up the allegations to get a joint house move for both she and F together, she said “yes”, but F shouted out “No it wasn’t”, and M then changed her answer saying the move was intended to be for: “Just me”
“I have had a long discussion with my client. She has spoken to [the team manager] today. I can confirm she has separated from father and is in urgent need of help. Please could the local authority assist her with getting a place at a refuge in the first instance? She is currently at her aunt's house, but father is aware of this address, and she does not feel safe there. She also has no money at all and only the clothes she is wearing. I have said that I will contact you to ask that the social work team help her get to a safe place and that I will call her back later. Someone at my office is looking into getting a non-molestation order as well. She is due to have contact tomorrow but apparently father has convinced himself that this is a joint contact, and she is frightened that he will turn up. I understand that [the team manager] is looking into changing the dates and times of contact, but mother also would like to know if it can be moved to another venue as she is worried that father will just wait around the building for her. Many thanks”
“I gave an ex-tempore judgment giving permission for the LA to adduce email correspondence as my priority was to have the fullest, most accurate and contemporaneous evidence before me, on which to decide C’s best interests for her long-term future. I made clear that I understood that the emails were hearsay evidence, somebody else’s record of what M had said, so I would hear whatever the Ps had to say in response (via their oral evidence), in order to consider what weight if any should be given to them.”
“13. … After lunch, I heard submissions on behalf of all parties regarding M’s application to adjourn the final hearing part-heard to allow her to get alternative legal representation (F supporting the application, the LA and CG opposing it). M was assisted in making her submissions by her advocate, who had remained to assist her throughout the hearing despite her legal team leaving Court, because the advocate was funded by HMCTS. I gave another ex-tempore judgment refusing M’s application to adjourn the final hearing for a number of reasons. It would take some time to be listed again by which time the initial evidence would be stale and we might need transcripts of the first few days. There was no guarantee that new representatives would be happy to continue a final hearing when they had missed the first half so there was a risk of a further application to adjourn and start the final hearing from the beginning (something which all parties including the Ps vehemently opposed). There was a real risk that new representatives would also have to withdraw professionally embarrassed as a result of similar difficulties taking instructions. Any disadvantage to M was limited, as the major cross-examination of the ISW and SW had already been completed, she was running the same case as F so was unlikely to wish to challenge his evidence through cross-examination, and F’s counsel could cover the majority of cross-examination of the CG first with M asking any additional questions afterwards. M could be offered additional breaks to consult with her advocate, convey her position and cross-examination via written notes to the Judge rather than having to speak in Court, and could give her closing submissions last so she would know what to respond to in all the other submissions. In fact, M managed extremely well for the remainder of the hearing, passing notes to me when she wished to ask a question via me.” 14. The power to grant an adjournment stems from r4.1(3) of the Family Procedure Rules, so whilst C’s welfare is one of the factors I had to consider, it was not my paramount consideration in this decision, although it was of course very important. I also had to consider the wider objectives within Rule 1 of the FPR. Looking at the issue in the round, considering the advantages and disadvantages, fairness and unfairness, to all parties, as Re L[2013] EWCA Civ 267 requires that I do, I found that any disadvantage to M was less than the disadvantage to all the parties, including C, of adjourning the final hearing. I therefore refused M’s application to adjourn the final hearing, and it continued with M acting as a litigant in person supported by her lay advocate, and we proceeded to hear F’s oral evidence. There is no presumption that an adjournment must be granted to avoid M becoming a self-representing party even when she does not want to be, not even when M’s limited cognitive functioning is taken into consideration, and not even when it is a contested placement application.”
“94. On the basis of the written and oral evidence, I have been forced to conclude that a placement with either or both Ps would come with a very high risk indeed. It would place C at high risk of emotional harm from witnessing the volatile and abusive relationship between the Ps. I have already made the point that whilst there are positive changes exhibited by the Ps, e.g. F conquering his cannabis addiction, both maintaining appropriate home conditions, and a significant reduction in police call-outs and separations/reconciliations, those changes are vulnerable, and particularly the cessation of cannabis use is still in its infancy. There is limited evidence that the Ps would act differently in future to the way they have behaved during these proceedings in relation to DV. I have concluded that there is a likelihood that the relationship between F and M would continue to be abusive and volatile in future. I have no confidence in the Ps’ assertions in oral evidence that their relationship is healthy, given they do not see the significant danger to C inherent in their previous relationship. 95. There is little or no improvement in the working relationship between F and the various professionals, with F criticising the current social worker and guardian, albeit he has now got a good working relationship with his new probation officer. However, given my findings that both Ps lied in oral evidence and to numerous professionals, on balance, I am overwhelmingly satisfied that there is no realistic prospect of an open and constructive working relationship being built between the Ps and the local authority or other key agencies/safeguarding professionals.”
“69. Taking all of the above into account, I have no hesitation in finding that on the balance of probabilities, all the incidents took place as set out in paragraph 1 of the threshold document, i.e. that M was telling the truth then, but is lying now. I also make the linked findings set out in paragraphs 2 and 3 that the parents have remained in a relationship with one another despite the occurrence of domestic abuse and that neither parent sufficiently understands the impact that their domestically abusive relationship might have on their child (with all the examples also found proved).”
“89. M’s lack of insight was again demonstrated via her closing submissions. Whilst I recognise that she was by that stage unrepresented, and she has cognitive limitations, her submissions focussed largely on the couple’s finances: “I disagree that the Ps aren’t financially stable. We have kept receipts for shopping, which we showed the ISW at assessment, and I also have them today if you want to see them. We are financially stable. We can manage our money, and pay our bills. We claim benefits together, and the bills are in our joint names.”
“5. I queried whether M’s application was more of the nature of an appeal, but M’s new counsel explained his intention was to avoid criticism from the Court of Appeal for not having given the first instance Judge the opportunity to rectify the situation first, before resorting to an appeal.”
“Looking at the issue in the round, considering the advantages and disadvantages, fairness and unfairness, to all parties, as Re L[2013] EWCA Civ 267 requires that I do, I found that any disadvantage to M was less than the disadvantage to all the parties, including C, of adjourning the final hearing.”
“42. … All of the authorities make clear that each case should be determined on the basis of its own facts. Comparing the facts in this case to the facts in the various authorities, the arguments against adjourning mid-trial, and against re-hearing now, far outweigh the arguments of unfairness to M. The facts in this case are analogous to (or even stronger than) those cases where the Court of Appeal upheld the initial Judge’s refusal to adjourn to allow the parent(s) to obtain alternative representation. I made the decision to refuse to adjourn midtrial without having the case of Re A before me. However, my decision would have been the same had I been aware of that case then. I apply the Re A case to my decision-making now when considering whether there should be any re-hearing of any part of the trial, and I find that there is no proper basis for re-opening the final hearing and listing the case for re-hearing, even when considering the factors set out in Re A.”
“64. … M’s current account is inconsistent with the contemporaneous records of what she said to the team manager and to her own solicitor. …”