“They would spend time in their father's sole care during school holidays and at weekends. The extent of the time spent with the father is disputed.”
“When I made plans in October 2021 to travel to England with the children to obtain my BPR, I had not planned to stay. Almost immediately, however I felt an enormous sense of relief and independence; the children and I left behind the toxic world that we had accepted as normal. No one shouted at us, we had independence … The life we had led in Dubai was emotionally damaging for us all and I had pretty much given up on any real quality of life. With my arrival in England, everything changed. I felt the ability to be free and independent for the first time since our marriage and cannot contemplate being compelled to return to Dubai.”
“Physical, verbal, emotional and financial abuse had become a part of my life from the time I was newly married. Our children have unfortunately both witnessed the abuse since they were young”
“iii) A woman would not be able to establish allegations of domestic abuse unless there had been police involvement, abuse had been witnessed by reliable witnesses, there was clear medical evidence, or the court could see injuries for itself. Photographs or other evidence will not be relied upon to establish such allegations. Hence, in the present case the mother's allegations of past abuse will not be established in the courts in E. iv) Allegations of abuse against children would be referred to the criminal justice system in E and would not be dealt with in the civil system. v) The mother would have no chance at all of securing permission from the court to relocate with the children abroad if the father did not agree and he was living in E. This would "never ever" happen.”
“Their terms can include custody, guardianship and visitation rights. The parties could agree that the mother shall have custody of the children with defined contact with the father. Settlement agreements can include pledges or undertakings including that the father will not instigate criminal proceedings against the mother. However there are no sanctions for breaching an undertaking although Ms Hamade's evidence was that a financial imbursement can be requested amounting to large amounts of money.”
“When the family were together they were well housed, financially comfortable, went on a number of holidays abroad, and the children were well-educated. Upon separation the mother and children lived with the maternal grandparents. The mother did not work and, it appears, was financially supported by the father and her parents.”; and “The children attended a fee-paying, English school where reports show that they were both excelling and achieving high grades.”
“There is no evidence that the children showed any signs of distress or behavioural issues during the period of separation prior to October 2021. Indeed their school reports suggest that they were well-adjusted children who fitted in well. The father has exhibited text exchanges with A which are funny and affectionate, and cordial exchanges with the mother, most of these being after the separation.”
“the mother says, “the life we had led in E was emotionally damaging for us all and I had pretty much given up on any real quality of life”
“The approach I take, borrowing from the approach in Hague Convention cases in accordance with In re E (Children)[2012] 1 AC 144 , is that I should make a reasonable assumption in relation to the maximum level of risk to the children arising out of any domestic abuse perpetrated by the father. I should, in particular, consider the risks to the children in the context of a return to E, with any undertakings or pledges offered by the father being formalised in the courts in E, and bearing in mind the enforceability of those undertakings in E.”
“I do not believe that further detailed investigation of the allegations of abuse by the father will assist the court in making the decision about return. Even assuming the allegations of abuse of the mother are all true, there are no incidents since 2019, and the mother would be in a more supportive environment in E that in England. On the mother's own case, there was not much contact between her and the father. I do not see her allegations as making out a case that the children were being significantly harmed by any ongoing abuse of her by the father after the separation. The extent and impact of the father's abuse of the children is also quite limited when objectively examined. Again, the mother says that they did not have very much contact with the father. Most of what A alleges is that the father is unkind to her and has smacked her by way of chastisement. B says he has been smacked too. They say the father has been nicer to them on calls recently but put that down to him being "fake". However, whilst not condoning physical chastisement, the father's treatment of his children is not so concerning that it would preclude return. If the allegations of abuse of the children are all true, then they do not give rise to a significant concern that return to E would in itself put them at risk of harm in the future. It has not been suggested that contact with the father should cease, indeed the mother complains through counsel that he has not visited England more often. The father will have contact with the children whether they are in England or E. Similarly, the father has accepted at the hearing before me that the children should continue to live with the mother. The allegations of abuse are an important element of this case but they are not so significant as to be determinative. Whilst the father disputes the allegations, I do not believe that making findings about the allegations is necessary.”
“The effective inability of the mother to apply for relocation upon return to E does indeed do more than give the court reason to pause. It is a factor that weighs against summary return. However, in my judgement the mother's application would, even applying principles that would be applied in this jurisdiction, be very likely to fail. The children's strong connections in E, the relatively slight connections with England, the close family networks in E, the father's presence there, the mother's retention of the children against his will after October 2021, would all weigh against granting relocation in the children's best interests. Of more concern is that if circumstances changed so that it did appear to be in the best interests of the children to relocate, the E courts would still not countenance it if the father objected and lived in E.”
“The court has to consider all the circumstances and balance them. The allegations against the father, the wishes and feelings expressed by the children, and the E courts' approach to relocation applications, the voice of the child, and allegations of past domestic abuse, weigh in favour of refusing the father's application for summary return. The children's strong connections to their home country, E, the damage caused by their retention in England which is likely to deepen the longer they remain here, the protective factor of the wider family and their school in E, weigh in favour of ordering summary return. These are some of the key relevant matters, but all the matters set out earlier in this judgment must be taken into account.”
“The approach of the courts in E to a relocation application by the mother gives me most reason to question whether summary return is in the best interests of the children, but in the circumstances as they would be on return, I would regard such an application as being without substantial merit in any event. The allegations against the father, at their highest, are not a determinative factor in this case. The children's wishes and feelings have, I conclude, been heavily influenced by the circumstances of their retention in this country, their isolation from the father and the wider family and their emotional reliance on the mother as the only person close to them with whom they now have regular contact. Their wishes and feelings are taken into account but their weight is reduced by the circumstances leading to their expression. Weighing all the evidence and considerations together, in my judgement it is in the best interests of the children to be returned now to E.”
“The purpose of this Practice Direction is to set out what the Family Court or the High Court is required to do in any case in which it is alleged or admitted, or there is other reason to believe, that the child or a party has experienced domestic abuse perpetrated by another party or that there is a risk of such abuse.”
“Domestic abuse is harmful to children, and/or puts children at risk of harm, including where they are victims of domestic abuse for example by witnessing one of their parents being violent or abusive to the other parent, or living in a home in which domestic abuse is perpetrated (even if the child is too young to be conscious of the behaviour). Children may suffer direct physical, psychological and/or emotional harm from living with and being victims of domestic abuse, and may also suffer harm indirectly where the domestic abuse impairs the parenting capacity of either or both of their parents.”
“The extent of the court's enquiry into the child's welfare will depend on the circumstances of the case; in some cases the child's welfare will be best served by a summary hearing and, if necessary, a prompt return to the State from which the child has been removed or retained. In other cases a more detailed enquiry may be necessary (see Re J (Child Returned Abroad: Convention Rights)[2005] UKHL 40 ;[2005] 2 FLR 802 ).”
“There is no warrant, either in statute or authority, for the principles of the Hague Convention to be extended to countries which are not parties to it”; (ii) at [25]: “in all non-Convention cases, the courts have consistently held that they must act in accordance with the welfare of the individual child. If they do decide to return the child, that is because it is in his best interests to do so, not because the welfare principle has been superseded by some other consideration”; (iii) at [26]: “the court does have power, in accordance with the welfare principle, to order the immediate return of a child to a foreign jurisdiction without conducting a full investigation of the merits”; and (ii) at [28]: “It is plain, therefore, that there is always a choice to be made. Summary return should not be the automatic reaction to any and every unauthorised taking or keeping a child from his home country. On the other hand, summary return may very well be in the best interests of the individual child”
“In a case where the choice lies between deciding the question here or deciding it in a foreign country, differences between the legal systems cannot be irrelevant. But their relevance will depend upon the facts of the individual case. If there is a genuine issue between the parents as to whether it is in the best interests of the child to live in this country or elsewhere, it must be relevant whether that issue is capable of being tried in the courts of the country to which he is to be returned. If those courts have no choice but to do as the father wishes, so that the mother cannot ask them to decide, with an open mind, whether the child will be better off living here or there, then our courts must ask themselves whether it will be in the interests of the child to enable that dispute to be heard. The absence of a relocation jurisdiction must do more than give the judge pause (as Hughes J put it in this case); it may be a decisive factor. On the other hand, if it appears that the mother would not be able to make a good case for relocation, that factor might not be decisive. There are also bound to be many cases where the connection of the child and all the family with the other country is so strong that any difference between the legal systems here and there should carry little weight.”
"The return of the child under the provisions of article 12 may be refused if this would not be permitted by the fundamental principles of the requested state relating to the protection of human rights and fundamental freedoms."
“If we were, therefore, to be applying the spirit of the Hague Convention in a non-Convention case, there would be no reason not to apply the whole of the Hague Convention, including article 20. Any discrimination in the foreign country which was contrary toarticle 14 of the Convention on Human Rights would allow, but not require, the court to refuse to return the child. This consideration serves to reinforce the view that the legal system in the foreign country cannot be irrelevant to the issue of summary return.”
“the practice direction explains that harm is suffered not only by children who are the direct victims of domestic abuse but also by children who live in a home in which it is perpetrated. When disputed allegations of domestic abuse are made, the practice direction makes detailed requirements of the court, in particular to consider whether to conduct a fact-finding hearing in relation to them (paragraph 16), whether to direct the preparation of a report by a CAFCASS officer (paragraph 21) and whether to order a child to be made a party and be separately represented (paragraph 24).”
“Nevertheless, as in relation to the welfare check-list, a court which determines such an application is likely to find it helpful to consider the requirements of the practice direction; and if it is considering whether to make a summary order, it will initially examine whether, in order sufficiently to identify what the child's welfare requires, it should, in the light of the practice direction, conduct an inquiry into the allegations and, if so, how extensive that inquiry should be.”
“The court will carefully consider the totality ofPD 12J , but to summarise, the proper approach to deciding if a fact-finding hearing is necessary is, we suggest, as follows: (i) The first stage is to consider the nature of the allegations and the extent to which it is likely to be relevant in deciding whether to make a child arrangements order and if so in what terms (PD 12J , para 5). (ii) In deciding whether to have a finding of fact hearing the court should have in mind its purpose (PD 12J , para 16) which is, in broad terms, to provide a basis of assessment of risk and therefore the impact of the alleged abuse on the child or children. (iii) Careful consideration must be given toPD 12J , para 17 as to whether it is “necessary” to have a finding of fact hearing, including whether there is other evidence which provides a sufficient factual basis to proceed and importantly, the relevance to the issue before the court if the allegations are proved. (iv) UnderPD 12J , para 17(h) the court has to consider whether a separate fact-finding hearing is "necessary and proportionate”
“Domestic abuse is often rightly described as pernicious. In recent years, the greatly improved understanding both of the various forms of abuse, and also of the devastating impact it has upon the victims and any children of the family, described in the main section of this judgment, have been most significant and positive developments. The modern approach and understanding is reflected in the “General principles” section ofPD 12J , para 4. As discussed at paras 36-41 above that does not, however, mean that in every case where there is an allegation of, even very serious, domestic abuse it will be either appropriate or necessary for there to be a finding of fact hearing, so much is clear from the detailed guidance set out in paras 16-20 ofPD 12J and, in particular, at para 17: “(g) whether the nature and extent of the allegations, if proved, would be relevant to the issue before the court; and (h) whether a separate fact-finding hearing would be necessary and proportionate in all the circumstances of the case.””