‘can u tell [the father’s wife] to send me back she just tried to start an entire state police search now she’s tryna send me to a boarding school it’s her that won’t let me leave not daddy he doesn’t rlly care’. 38. On5 September 2024 G reported to her mother that she had called the police who said that ‘it didn’t sound right what daddy was saying to me’ and that they would send an officer round. That same day, the mother was herself in communication with the Westport police about her daughter’s situation. 39. In an exchange of messages between G and the father on or around12 September 2024 he wrote ‘if Mummy says you are to return to the UK, it is she that has to make the application. I can’t fly to the UK to make the application (or for any other reason). She needs to attend court, which I cannot do’. 40. Throughout September 2024 G continued to make it clear to her mother that she wanted to return to England. For example, on20 September 2024 she wrote: ‘tbf what else could go wrong there’s literally nothing.. cos when I get back ill have my [best friend] my [other best friend] theres literally nothing that can go wrong’
‘he’s so mad… he knows there’s nothing he can do about it n he actually shit himself when I said police r gunna help me get to the airport n stuff I was just like u can either support me or I’ll do it alone..’
‘Before my current move to the United States I was led to believe that I would be living in an apartment with just the three of us (my sister, my father, and I). I was aware we would be living with [the father’s wife] eventually once we got to know her and where (sic) more comfortable around her.’
‘[the father’s wife] and her family made no effort to welcome me, instead made it clear I was not welcome. Throughout that time I was experiencing intense withdrawal symptoms such as migraines, depression, paranoia, anxiety and throwing up blood…’
‘I have previously attempted to run away since being in the United States due to neglect I was previously and currently experiencing. I rarely get fed, and I only eat when I cook for myself which I have to do at night so no one sees me (fear of getting into trouble) I get so scared to the point I have started experiencing hearing voices/noises and seeing things that aren’t there like shadows, just scared that I will be stuck here alone for the rest of my life’
“I have felt many emotions these past months they have only gotten worse When I first arrived I felt betrayed guilty hopeless and insane Those feelings have never left me except sometimes I just feel numb now I get headaches/migraines stomach ache achy muscles from stress and paranoia that something will happen to me every day Those feelings get deeper and deeper. I have written so many statements these past months putting my entire heart on the table just to have it crushed every single time So please if you took the time to read this I am forever thankful to you for giving me one last hope Please help me reunite with my family my home my education my country and the people I love and care deeply about thank you for your time.” 47. It is clear from the evidence I have seen that G’s unhappiness about being in the USA was not a passing phase. The mother asserts that in January 2025 G made a further suicide attempt although I have not seen evidence to corroborate this. There is, however, evidence that G has set up a ‘Gofundme’ page seeking to raise funds to assist her return to the UK. Since September 2024, she has also sent further worrying texts to her mother about her situation. In one message she said that she would kill herself if not back by Christmas. 48. I have also been provided with a record of a meeting convened on28 February 2025 by the Westport School District Planning and Placement Team. I do not think that this was provided to HHJ Raeside, but I consider that I should take it into account. This document records the father telling the meeting that ‘the first 2-3 months were challenging for G to integrate at home and school’. He had, however, seen marked improvement and ‘overall she seems happier’. One of the teachers present at the meeting, Mrs F, noted that ‘G always knows what she wants to work on but is not working on [school] assignments. She is trying to do work she thinks will transfer to the UK. She is following online guide for UK curriculum so looks engaged but is not on task with her current work.’ The father stated that ‘G is focused on returning to the UK but she does not know there are barriers to her returning. Her mother in the UK is giving her the message that she can return’. The school counsellor reported to the meeting that G attends weekly counselling but also ‘stops in at least two other times’. During those sessions, G ‘is preoccupied with wanting to return to the UK. She can be emotional about it. She talks quickly and her speech is pressured’. 49. I have also seen a report from the Westport Police Department dated30 March 2025 in relation to a call out they received to the father’s home on that date. This was not available to HHJ Raeside, but again I consider that I am entitled to take it into account. It appears that G had become upset after being told by the father that she would not be able to travel to England for some considerable time due to an issue with her passport. G responded by damaging the father’s laptop with a knife. She yelled at her father and step-mother before running to her room. The police officer observed G to be crying hysterically. She said to the officer that her father had told her that she would have to wait until she was an adult before applying for a passport. The officer calmed G down and gave her advice about managing her anger. The officer then spoke again to the father and his wife who stated that their preference was for G to be sent to hospital for an evaluation. When asked for their reason they stated ‘to get a break from her’. When the officer informed them that committal was a serious process to be used only for individuals requiring immediate medical assistance due to safety concerns, the father and his wife asserted that they did not feel safe with G and wished for her to be transported to hospital. The report states that the officers assessed the situation and ‘determined that G’s parents’ (sic) request for a hospital transport was not based on a genuine desire for safety but rather a desire for a temporary separation from G’.”