“7. The father has sexually assaulted S. (a) He has moved his hand backwards and forwards over S’s penis. (b) He has kissed S’s penis. (c) He has bitten S’s penis. (d) He has said he loves and wants to eat S’s penis/testicles.”
“I don’t wanna take my pants off at the doctors.”
“I don’t want he touch, it make me angry … Daddy touch my willy”
“would you like to tell me about that?”
“he kiss it, he bite it, I don’t like.”
“I told S that it was good that he had told me this, he hadn’t done anything wrong, nobody should touch his private parts like that so it was good that he had told me about it, I told him that I would have to tell C [the social worker] what he had told me …. I explained that if he had a poorly or a sore winky and he needed to show me or Mummy it, it was okay for us to take a look to see if we could make it better. S said he had had a really sore willy before, it got sore when he went down down down fast and it really hurt and it hurt in a fast car too. S then said that he touched me like that … he demonstrated this by touching the underside of the worktop in the kitchen with the tips of his fingers on his outstretched hand with his palm facing upwards.”
“… after a while he asked, why is it bad people touch private parts, I explained that it was okay if he has a poorly [sic] for the doctor but other touches were not good, he said so not good that my Dad likes to eat my willy, I said No, that was wrong, that was naughty, nobody should touch your winky in that way. Reassured again that he had not been naughty, just the adult, it was good that he had told me.”
“C: Can you tell me about daddy? S: Daddy says he likes to eat my willy, Daddy says he loves my willy. C: What happened next? S makes a fist with his hands and puts it to his willy (over his trousers) then starts making a fast back and forth motion with his hand. S: It makes me feel sore. C: Did you tell Daddy it felt sore? S: No I didn’t tell him. C: What did Daddy say? S: I love your willy, I want to eat your willy. C: Did he eat your willy? S shakes head. C: When Daddy touched your willy, where were you? S: At Daddy’s house. C: Was anyone else there? S: No just Daddy. C: Can you remember when it happened? S: A long time ago. The social worker’s note continues by recording that S “dropped to the floor on all fours and pretended to be a dog, he crawled around the room on all fours making very loud yelping noises and panting like a dog.”
“D [the father] was then made aware of the actual allegation that S has said that he has touched his willy. D said that of course he touches his willy as he is his father and he has to give him a shower. D was asked … was there any other time when he would have touched his penis and he said no. D was also told that S had alleged that he had kissed his penis and that he didn’t like it. D denied that this had ever happened. D said that traditionally they use something as Kurds that they say to their children, ‘let me eat your penis/willies’. They say that to the boys or they say ‘I eat yours’. D was asked in what context this is said. He said it was when you cuddle or hug or are really happy together that you say it to that person. When asked what it meant, D said it was a joke. I said to D that for someone not from his culture it would sound like a very odd thing to say and he agreed. When D was asked where this had come from, he said that it was just very normal on the streets and has been around forever. When asked if someone else from his country was spoken to about this they could confirm, D said that 90% of people from his culture would know this. He also confirmed that this is said with children that you know. He also confirmed that it is only male children. When asked if there was anything with the same context said to female children, D confirmed that you would stop saying this to children around the age of eight years, before puberty … D … confirmed that he didn’t bite his son’s penis but that he had said about eating his son’s penis but that it was said as a joke and it is part of his culture.”
“S was then asked to tell me about his dad to which he said that his dad touched his winky. When asked when he had done this, S said that it was a thousand, thousand, thousand years ago. He also said it happened a long time ago.”
“S was then asked when his dad had touched his willy if he had clothes on or no clothes on to which he said no clothes on. When asked why he didn’t have any clothes on, S said that his dad didn’t let him have his clothes. When S was asked how had dad had touched his willy, S moved his open hand over where his willy was and moved it backwards and forwards as if tipping it with his fingers. S said that he couldn’t remember if his dad had said anything at the time. He also confirmed that his dad had only done it once. S was asked if he had told anyone that his dad had done anything to him to which he said that he had told [his foster carer], C and another police officer. He said he told three people. S was then asked how he felt when his dad had touched his willy and he said that he laughed. When asked why he laughed, S said that it was funny. S said that playing with it had made it funny. When asked if his dad had played with it for a short time or a really long time, S said a short time. S wasn’t able to remember what happened afterwards. The best thing about S’s dad he said was that he bought him toys and that he wanted him to get a million, million, million pounds and dollars, in America. S said the worst thing about his dad was that he touched his willy.”
“S said that there are private parts and other parts. He said that his dad touched his private parts. With gentle questions, he said that this happened when he was five years old and it made him feel sad.”
“Child rearing practices in Kurdish society involve a great deal of physical affection between parents and children. The parents and their close kin hug, cuddle, and kiss all over a baby’s body, except for the orifices of the mouth and anogenital region. Some parents also kiss and touch [a] young boy’s penis gently or just say ‘I want to eat your penis’. Parents stop such behaviour … when the child reaches a certain age, usually before age 5. However, this can vary from one family to another. While such behaviour in other cultures might be misconstrued as erotic and sexual and the parents suspected of child sexual abuse, in Kurdish culture such behaviour is not considered erotic at all. By kissing a boy’s penis, the parents grant it an innate supremacy over the vagina and hence reinforce men’s superiority over women. In other words, some parents kiss and touch a baby boy’s penis as they view it as a symbol of power, as something which secures him a privileged place in the patriarchal structure of Kurdish society.”
“30. Moving on … S was spoken to by the same police officer on the 21 February. We have an audio recording of that. I have listened to it more than once and I have a note of it in summary. I should say that I take into account the submissions made to me by father’s counsel, particularly in relation to the comments by MacDonald J in AS v TH, and I have also been referred to the cases cited at p.555 of the 2018 Red Book. This was not an ABE interview, they did not follow the proper procedure for an ABE interview, and I take all of that into account. It was not a flawed ABE interview, it was a different sort of interview and it’s not clear to me or to anyone else why there never was an ABE interview. 31. So, setting in its context of a chat between a police officer and a little boy and it is recorded, I give it slightly different weight to the weight I would give if it was a proper ABE interview with all the right introductions, following the right procedure through, and properly filmed and recorded. On the other hand, having heard it, I have an articulate little boy, able to answer questions, able not to agree to matters put to him, seemingly understanding the difference between truth and lies, and giving factually accurate information about non-sexual matters, and then when dealing with such matters he was able to demonstrate it. The fact that he laughed at the time doesn’t assist me a great deal because of course at that time he would not necessarily have known what was wrong.”
“I do have to consider how … an immature six-year-old child was able to provide the level of detail about something which would usually be outside his knowledge.”
“It seems to me that he is describing something that he has actually experienced rather than something that he has been told to say. He could give a clear description of it.”
“My view is that S was describing events that had actually happened to him. He was giving a clear description. He was able to demonstrate what had happened and he was describing something he had actually experienced in his father’s care. When it came to the contact being face-to-face in the May, he repeated the allegations then to make it very plain why he did not wish to see his father. When I take the context of S as an honest articulate little boy and the description he has given, I reach the conclusion that the local authority … have made out their case in relation to paragraph 7 of this document …. In my judgment from the descriptions of the experiences of S this did amount to a sexual assault by his father.”
“This document describes good practice in interviewing victims and witnesses, and in preparing them to give their best evidence in court. While it is advisory and does not constitute a legally enforceable code of conduct, practitioners should bear in mind that significant departures from the good practice advocated in it may have to be justified in the courts.”
“This document considers preparing and planning for interviews with witnesses, decisions about whether or not to conduct an interview, and decisions about whether the interview should be video-recorded or whether it would be more appropriate for a written statement to be taken following the interview. It covers the interviewing of witnesses both for the purposes of making a video-recorded statement and also for taking a written statement, their preparation for court and the subsequent court appearance.”
“Interviews with significant witnesses should usually be video-recorded because they are likely to: • Increase the amount and quality of information gained from the witness; and • Increase the amount of information reported by the witness being recorded.”
“Video-recorded interviews with significant witnesses can also have the additional benefits of: • Safeguarding the integrity of the interviewer and the interview process; and • Increasing the opportunities for monitoring and for the development of interview skills.” • Increase the amount and quality of information gained from the witness; and • Increase the amount of information reported by the witness being recorded.” • Safeguarding the integrity of the interviewer and the interview process; and • Increasing the opportunities for monitoring and for the development of interview skills.”
“A well-conducted interview will only occur if appropriate planning has taken place. The importance of planning cannot be overstated.”
“Any initial questioning should be intended to elicit a brief account of what is alleged to have taken place; a more detailed account should not be pursued at this stage but should be left until the formal interview takes place.”
“… any early discussions with the witness should, as far as possible, adhere to the following basic principles: a) Listen to the witness b) Do not stop a witness who is freely recalling significant events c) Where it is necessary to ask questions, they should, as far as possible in the circumstances, be open-ended or specific-closed rather than forced-choice, leading or multiple d) Ask no more questions than are necessary in the circumstances to take immediate action e) Make a comprehensive note of the discussion, taking care to record the timing, setting and people present as well as what was said by the witness and anybody else present (particularly the actual questions asked of the witness) f) Make a note of the demeanour of the witness and anything else that might be relevant to any subsequent formal interview or the wider investigation g) Fully record any comments made by the witness or events that might be relevant to the legal process up to the time of the interview.” a) Listen to the witness b) Do not stop a witness who is freely recalling significant events c) Where it is necessary to ask questions, they should, as far as possible in the circumstances, be open-ended or specific-closed rather than forced-choice, leading or multiple d) Ask no more questions than are necessary in the circumstances to take immediate action e) Make a comprehensive note of the discussion, taking care to record the timing, setting and people present as well as what was said by the witness and anybody else present (particularly the actual questions asked of the witness) f) Make a note of the demeanour of the witness and anything else that might be relevant to any subsequent formal interview or the wider investigation g) Fully record any comments made by the witness or events that might be relevant to the legal process up to the time of the interview.”
“For all witnesses, interviews should normally consist of the following four main phases. 1. Establishing rapport 2. Initiating and supporting a free narrative account 3. Questioning; and 4. Closure”
“The planning phase, which will have occurred prior to the interview, should provide guidance to the interviewer about what might be achieved in each of the four main phases of the interview …. No interview should be conducted without prior, proper planning. While research has found that the accounts of some types of vulnerable witnesses are less complete than those of other witnesses, these are not necessarily less accurate if the interviewing is conducted appropriately.”
“Some vulnerable witnesses may be under the false impression that the interviewer already knows much or all that happened and that their role, being eager to please, is merely to confirm this. It is crucial that interviewers inform witnesses, in ways that the latter understand that: • they were not present at the event(s); • they do not yet know what occurred; • supplying detail is important.” • they were not present at the event(s); • they do not yet know what occurred; • supplying detail is important.”
“Toward the end of the rapport phase of an interview with a child witness … the interviewer should advise the witness to give a truthful and accurate account of any incident they describe. There is no legal requirement to do this, but since the video may be used as evidence, it is helpful to the court to know that the child was made aware of the importance of telling the truth….”
“Some form of active listening is necessary, letting the witness know that what they have communicated has been received by the interviewer. This can be achieved by reflecting back to the witness what they have just communicated …. The interviewer should be aware of the danger of subconsciously or consciously indicating approval or disapproval of the information just given.”
“Some vulnerable witnesses may be particularly compliant in that they will try to be helpful by going along with much of what they believe the interviewer ‘wants to hear’ and/or is suggesting to them. This is particularly so for witnesses who believe the interviewer to be an authority figure ….”
“34. … Painful past experience has taught that the greatest care needs to be taken if the risk of obtaining unreliable evidence is to be minimised. Children are often poor historians. They are likely to view interviewers as authority figures. Many are suggestible. Many more wish to please. They do not express themselves clearly or in adult terms, so that what they say can easily be misinterpreted if the listeners are not scrupulous to avoid jumping to conclusions. They may not have understood what was said or done to them or in their presence. 35. For these and many other reasons it is of the first importance that the child be given the maximum possible opportunity to recall freely, uninhibited by questions, what they are able to say, and equally it is vital that a careful note is taken of what they say and also of any questions which are asked. All this and many other similar propositions, most of them of simple common sense, are set out in nationally agreed guidelines entitled Achieving Best Evidence…”
“40. There is no question of this evidence being inadmissible for failure to comply with the ABE guidelines, and that has not been suggested in argument for either parent. In a family case evidence of this kind falls to be assessed, however unsatisfactory its origin. To hold otherwise would be to invest the guidelines with the status of the law of evidence and it would invite the question: which failures have the consequence of inadmissibility? Clearly some failures to follow the guidelines will reduce, but by no means eliminate, the value of the evidence. Others may reduce the value almost to vanishing point.”
“52. … the Guidance makes it clear that the interviewer has to keep an open mind and that the object of the exercise is not simply to get the child to repeat on camera what she has said earlier to somebody else. We regret to say that we were left with a clear impression from the interview that the officer was using it purely for what she perceived to be an evidence-gathering exercise and in particular to make [the child] repeat on camera what she had said to her mother. That, emphatically, is not what ABE interviews are about and we have come to the view that we can place no evidential weight on it. 53. … [I]t is not sufficient for a judge to rely primarily on the fact that the child is able, when being interviewed, in a thoroughly unsatisfactory manner and contrary to the Guidance, to make a number of inculpatory statements. A clear analysis of all the evidence is required and the child’s interview must be assessed in that context.”
“the departures from the ABE guidance require the judge to engage with a thorough analysis of the process in order to evaluate whether any of the allegations the children made to the police could be relied upon.”
“[the] judgment wholly fails to acknowledge and then analyse the numerous and substantial deviations from good or acceptable practice which are evident at every stage of the police interaction with the three complainant children, [including] during the ABE interviews.”
“I have sympathy for officers and social workers entrusted with the difficult task of speaking to children about allegations of this sort. The ABE Guidance is detailed and complex. But those details and complexities are there for a reason. Experience has demonstrated that very great care is required when interviewing children about allegations of abuse. The Guidance has been formulated and refined over the years by those with particular expertise in the field, including specialists with a deep understanding of how children perceive, recall and articulate their experiences. It would be unrealistic to expect perfection in any investigation. But unless the courts require a high standard, miscarriages of justice will occur and the courts will reach unfair and wrong decisions with profound consequences for children and families.”
“he kiss it, he bite it”, and later added “so not good that my dad likes to eat my willy”