“(1) An application for an adoption order may be made by— (a) a couple, or (b) one person, but only if it is made under section 50 or 51 and one of the following conditions is met.”
“50. Adoption by couple (1) An adoption order may be made on the application of a couple where both of them have attained the age of 21 years. (2) An adoption order may be made on the application of a couple where— (a) one of the couple is the mother or the father of the person to be adopted and has attained the age of 18 years, and (b) the other has attained the age of 21 years. 51. Adoption by one person (1) An adoption order may be made on the application of one person who has attained the age of 21 years and is not married. (2) An adoption order may be made on the application of one person who has attained the age of 21 years if the court is satisfied that the person is the partner of a parent of the person to be adopted…” (1) An adoption order may be made on the application of a couple where both of them have attained the age of 21 years. (2) An adoption order may be made on the application of a couple where— (a) one of the couple is the mother or the father of the person to be adopted and has attained the age of 18 years, and (b) the other has attained the age of 21 years. (1) An adoption order may be made on the application of one person who has attained the age of 21 years and is not married. (2) An adoption order may be made on the application of one person who has attained the age of 21 years if the court is satisfied that the person is the partner of a parent of the person to be adopted…”
“For the purposes of this Act, a person is the partner of a child’s parent if the person and the parent are a couple but the person is not the child’s parent.” 15. Section 144 (4) states: “In this Act, a couple means— (a) a married couple, or (b) two people (whether of different sexes or the same sex) living as partners in an enduring family relationship”
“(5) Subsection (4)(b) does not include two people one of whom is the other’s parent, grandparent, sister, brother, aunt or uncle. (6) References to relationships in subsection (5)— (a) are to relationships of the full blood or half blood or, in the case of an adopted person, such of those relationships as would exist but for adoption, and (b) include the relationship of a child with his adoptive, or former adoptive, parents, but do not include any other adoptive relationships.”
“(1) An adoption order may not be made if the child has a parent or guardian unless one of the following three conditions is met; but this section is subject to section 52 (parental etc. consent). (2) The first condition is that, in the case of each parent or guardian of the child, the court is satisfied— (a) that the parent or guardian consents to the making of the adoption order, (b) that the parent or guardian has consented under section 20 (and has not withdrawn the consent) and does not oppose the making of the adoption order, or (c) that the parent’s or guardian’s consent should be dispensed with. (3) A parent or guardian may not oppose the making of an adoption order under subsection (2)(b) without the court’s leave. (4) The second condition is that— (a) the child has been placed for adoption by an adoption agency with the prospective adopters in whose favour the order is proposed to be made, (b) either— (i) the child was placed for adoption with the consent of each parent or guardian and the consent of the mother was given when the child was at least six weeks old, or (ii) the child was placed for adoption under a placement order, and (c) no parent or guardian opposes the making of the adoption order. (5) A parent or guardian may not oppose the making of an adoption order under the second condition without the court’s leave.”
“ (1) The court cannot dispense with the consent of any parent or guardian of a child to the child being placed for adoption or to the making of an adoption order in respect of the child unless the court is satisfied that— (a) the parent or guardian cannot be found or lacks capacity (within the meaning of theMental Capacity Act 2005 ) to give consent, or (b) the welfare of the child requires the consent to be dispensed with.”
“67 Status conferred by adoption (1) An adopted person is to be treated in law as if born as the child of the adopters or adopter. (2) An adopted person is the legitimate child of the adopters or adopter and, if adopted by— (a) couple, or (b) one of a couple under section 51(2), is to be treated as the child of the relationship of the couple in question. (3) An adopted person— (a) if adopted by one of a couple under section 51(2), is to be treated in law as not being the child of any person other than the adopter and the other one of the couple, and (b) … but this subsection does not affect any reference in this Act to a person’s natural parent or to any other natural relationship.” (a) couple, or (b) one of a couple under section 51(2), (a) if adopted by one of a couple under section 51(2), is to be treated in law as not being the child of any person other than the adopter and the other one of the couple, and (b) … but this subsection does not affect any reference in this Act to a person’s natural parent or to any other natural relationship.”
“28. The effect of an Adoption Order underSection 46 of the Adoption and Children Act 2002 is that it would confer parental responsibility upon the Applicant, but it would do more than that because it would extinguish the parental responsibility of a birth parent with parental responsibility. It would mean in effect that the children within the domestic law of England and Wales would be treated in law as if they were the natural children of the adopter, Mr TMI. The making of an Order would be accompanied (obviously) by a change in the children’s name, in particular the children’s surname which would denote the change in their legal status and it would be an Order which would not be easily set aside. By that I mean it would continue not only during the children’s minority but way beyond their minority into adulthood and for the remainder of their lives. 29. That is why potentially it is such a significant Order, and it is potentially the most significant erosion in the rights of a birth parent which can be imagined. Therefore, that is the reason why the requirements for such an Order are so strict. 30. Before I can make an Adoption Order the Court must be satisfied in this instance that the first condition underSection 47 of the Adoption and Children Act 2002 has been met; namely that either I have the consent of the birth parent or that consent should be dispensed with. In the case of a dispensation, I can only dispense with the consent of a birth parent if the welfare of a child requires that dispensation underSection 52 of the Adoption and Children Act 2002 . 31. The words ‘require it’ has been decided in a different context by higher Courts than this Court and has the connotation of the imperative; it is what is required, not just what is desirable. For the welfare of the children to require a dispensation is quite a high hurdle to overcome. It is not simply that this outcome would be a better one for the children than others but that their welfare would be prejudiced significantly if the Order were not made. 32. So far as D is concerned, since I do have the consent of the one birth parent who has parental responsibility for him (given in accordance with the statute and the regulations) prima facie the first condition underSection 47 of the Adoption and Children Act 2002 in his case has been established. 33. In A’s case of course, dispensation is required.”
“41. That, of course, is not the same situation as private law adoptions. Private law adoptions in general are provided in circumstances where very often the children do have some knowledge of their family of origin. That is particularly so in this case where the children are eleven and thirteen respectively and are somewhat older than children who are normally subject to Adoption Orders. They are aware of their origins in Poland, they are aware of the true circumstances of their paternity. 42. It seems to me, therefore, that the underlying decision of the Supreme Court in the case of Re B that I have mentioned, means that I should view adoption as being an absolutely last resort, and only the most extreme option. Does it apply in precisely the same way in private law adoptions as it does in public law adoptions? 43. These children will continue to live with their mother; there is no severance of the birth tie there. They have had only limited past contact with their birth father (in one instance) and no contact for a number of years with the second birth father (in the second instance). The adoption in this case is sought as a means to consolidate ties which already exist and I am reinforced by the decision of the European Court itself in the case of Soderback v Sweden[1999] 2FLR 250 which does provide some judicial support for a contention that different considerations should apply in the case of public law and private law adoptions. 44. Therefore, whilst I accept that adoption always marks an interference with family life, it does not have precisely the same effect in private law adoptions as it would have in public law adoptions, and the particular circumstances of these two cases means that the complete severance of links with the birth family would not be achieved if the adoption applications were to be granted. 45. That being said, it is right that I do consider (so far as the child’s welfare is concerned in one instance) whether the consent of the birth father should be dispensed with, and more generally the welfare of the children throughout their lives respectively. 46. These are older children (as I have mentioned already). They are aware of their origins in Poland and of the true circumstances of their paternity. The application is sought as a means to consolidate ties which already exist, and these Orders will indeed provide stability and security for the two children concerned. As I have said already, they are not being adopted as infants and the traditional argument which favours adoption by way of the provision of security and stability does not apply in precisely the same way for children of eleven and thirteen as it would do if the children were two or three years old. They have lived with the applicant for six years, who has provided for them, and there will be no change in that outcome (I am told) whether the Orders are made or are not made. This is a family which views itself as a family and the making of the Orders themselves would not prejudice that position at all.”
“62. Am I able to say in this case that A’s welfare requires me to dispense with the birth father’s consent as an imperative consideration and that her welfare throughout her life means that I should make the Order today? 63. That is quite a difficult hurdle to overcome. I have given it a considerable amount of anxious consideration, because I have read these papers on more than on occasion and I can see how important this decision is for Mr TMI and also for A’s mother. But I am constrained by the words of the statute, and I am afraid I am not satisfied that within the meaning of the statute that A’s welfare requires me to dispense with the consent of her birth father to the making of this Adoption Order. It is a significant intrusion into his right as a birth parent. I am not satisfied (because of the terms of the statute underSection 1 of the Adoption and Children Act 2002 ) that indeed A’s welfare throughout her life would be promoted by the making of this Order. Her family life will continue in much the same way without the Order being made and there are other ways in which Mr TMI can acquire parental responsibility. They may be viewed by him as being second-best methods, and I sympathise with him and I appreciate why he has now left Court because he is disappointed by the decision that I have reached.”
“In my judgment cautionary dicta are still apt since applications for step-parent adoptions may be driven or complicated by motives and emotions derived from conflict within the triangle of adult relationships. They may also be buoyed up by quite unrealistic hopes and assumptions as to the quality of the marriage replacing that into which the children were born.”
“31. The Court considers that the present case falls to be distinguished from the Johansen case in the following respects. While it is true that the adoption in the present case, like the contested measures in the Johansen case, had the legal effect of totally depriving the applicant of family life with his daughter, the context differs significantly. It does not concern the severance of links between a mother and a child taken into public care but, rather, of links between a natural father and a child who had been in the care of her mother since she was born. Nor does it concern a parent who had had custody of the child or who in any other capacity had assumed the care of the child. Accordingly, in the Court's view, it is inappropriate in the present case to apply the approach employed in the Johansen judgment. 32. The Court further observes that, during the period under consideration, the contacts between the applicant and the child were infrequent and limited in character and when the adoption was granted he had not seen her for quite some time ... 33. Moreover, the child had been living with her mother since her birth and with her adoptive father since she was 8 months old. He had taken part in the care of M, who regarded him as her father. Thus, when the adoption was granted b the district court in December 1989, 'de facto' family ties had existed between the mother and the adoptive father for 5 1/2 years, until they married in January 1989, and between him and M for 6 1/2 years. The adoption consolidated and formalised those ties. 34. .... Given the aims sought to be achieved by allowing the adoption to go ahead, it cannot be said that the adverse effects it had on the applicant's relations with the child were disproportionate. 35. Accordingly, there has been no violation ofArt 8 of the Convention in the present case.”