“If an adult, I just beat them up to be honest, take them out of the situation. If a child, I usually raise my voice, then break down and cry to be honest. I'm such an emotional person as a result of my childhood. I tell myself I'm stupid afterwards, but at the time I just do it”
“I struggle with my emotions massively. I struggle massively with life, to be honest, from day dot to now. Do you know what I mean? Like, my past was just, my past haunts me and just the simplest of things can trigger the past and I do struggle, erm, and it just comes out in anger. So, yeah, I mean, do you know what I mean? I’m an angry person. After I’ve been angry, I realise what an absolute idiot and I couldn’t see what my head tells me.”
“We thought nothing of it, and for whatever reason which ... I can’t understand why cos we never do, W picked S up out of his Moses basket, after seeing that his back was not breathing. I was back laid down with L …”
“L had laid down like she usually does, gets what she wants and then goes straight back off to sleep. I’d done the same thing but I don’t think I was fully asleep but I was, I was going and W screamed saying S wasn’t, erm, from what she told me, her hand on the back and then lifting his bum...”
“well, I stared at him… for a second or two and normally you can see, like, their chest and stuff moving up and down. Erm, and I didn’t know if it was just because I was tired, but I couldn’t see that happening so I just placed my hand on top of him, and my hand wasn’t moving up and down. So then I, I knew something was wrong so that’s why I’ve lifted his legs to drop his legs a little bit to see if that would startle him. It didn’t, and I was shouting, “S” at the same time. I was going, “S. S,” and he still wasn’t, er, responding or anything like that so I’d took him out of his Moses’ basket and said to R, I was like, “R, he’s not breathing.”
“...she was itching her bum sort of thing, so changed her bum and put cream on her and sorted her bottle out. I put her back to bed the right side of me … and something just told me to check on S as he’d not woken up during the night.”
“It is well recognised that it [is] possible to fatally suffocate a baby with little or no evidence of trauma. I think it was John Emery who coined the term ‘the gently battered baby’. Another difficulty is that some sudden infant deaths are the result of accidental suffocation, such as overlaying in bed or when an infant sleeps on a settee also occupied by an adult.”
“Meadow’s publication on unnatural sudden infant death, though the subject of several methodological and statistically (sic) difficulties which unfortunately infected most of his publications on inflicted injury, was (unexpectedly) particularly helpful in the case of S”
“For me the major factor in medical terms in order to make a diagnosis there needs to be positive evidence and there is an absence of any positive evidence of that. ‘Could not be excluded’ is not positive evidence. Really medical diagnosis has to be based on facts and evidence and that is absent in this case from perspective of medical science.”
“...having analysed the problem as best one can the final task has been to see if there is sufficient medical evidence to assemble a coherent conclusion that is supported by the medical evidence. If there is insufficient medical evidence to complete the jigsaw or join the dots there needs to be a willingness (on my part) to admit defeat. By being able to take many other factors into account the Court may well be far better placed to complete the jigsaw”
“There is only one rule of law, namely that the occurrence of the fact in issue must be proved to have been more probable than not. Common sense, not law, requires that in deciding this question, regard should be had, to whatever extent appropriate, to inherent probabilities. If a child alleges sexual abuse by a parent, it is common sense to start with the assumption that most parents do not abuse their children. But this assumption may be swiftly dispelled by other compelling evidence of the relationship between parent and child or parent and other children. It would be absurd to suggest that the tribunal must in all cases assume that serious conduct is unlikely to have occurred.”
“Some seriously harmful behaviour, such as murder, is sufficiently rare to be inherently improbable in most circumstances. Even then there are circumstances, such as a body with its throat cut and no weapon to hand, where it is not at all improbable. Other seriously harmful behaviour, such as alcohol or drug abuse, is regrettably all too common and not at all improbable. Nor are serious allegations made in a vacuum. Consider the famous example of the animal seen in Regent's Park. If it is seen outside the zoo on a stretch of greensward regularly used for walking dogs, then of course it is more likely to be a dog than a lion. If it is seen in the zoo next to the lions' enclosure when the door is open, then it may well be more likely to be a lion than a dog.”
“[7]... (3) the court takes account of any inherent probability or improbability of an event having occurred as part of a natural process of reasoning. But the fact that an event is a very common one does not lower the standard of probability to which it must be proved. Nor does the fact that an event is very uncommon raise the standard of proof that must be satisfied before it can be said to have occurred. (4) Similarly, the frequency or infrequency with which an event generally occurs cannot divert attention from the question of whether it actually occurred. As Mr Rowley QC and Ms Bannon felicitously observe: “Improbable events occur all the time. Probability itself is a weak prognosticator of occurrence in any given case. Unlikely, even highly unlikely things do happen. Somebody wins the lottery most weeks; children are struck by lightning. The individual probability of any given person enjoying or suffering either fate is extremely low.”
“The credibility of a witness depends on his knowledge of the facts, his intelligence, his disinterestedness, his integrity, his veracity. Proportionate to these is the degree of credit his testimony deserves from the court or jury. Amongst the more obvious matters affecting the weight of a witness’s evidence may be classed his means of knowledge, opportunities of observation, reasons for recollection or belief, experience, powers of memory and perception, and any special circumstances affecting his competency to speak to the particular case—all of which may be inquired into either in direct examination to enhance, or in cross-examination to impeach the value of his testimony.”
“[100] One highly important aspect of the Lucas decision, and indeed the approach to lies generally in the criminal jurisdiction, needs to be borne fully in mind by family judges. It is this: in the criminal jurisdiction the ‘lie’ is never taken, of itself, as direct proof of guilt. As is plain from the passage quoted from Lord Lane's judgment in Lucas, where the relevant conditions are satisfied the lie is "capable of amounting to a corroboration". In recent times the point has been most clearly made in the Court of Appeal Criminal Division in the case of R v Middleton [2001] Crim.L.R. 251. In my view there should be no distinction between the approach taken by the criminal court on the issue of lies to that adopted in the family court. Judges should therefore take care to ensure that they do not rely upon a conclusion that an individual has lied on a material issue as direct proof of guilt.”
“To be capable of amounting to corroboration the lie told out of court must first of all be deliberate. Secondly it must relate to a material issue. Thirdly the motive for the lie must be a realisation of guilt and a fear of the truth. The jury should in appropriate cases be reminded that people sometimes lie, for example, in an attempt to bolster up a just cause, or out of shame or out of a wish to conceal disgraceful behaviour from their family. Fourthly the statement must be clearly shown to be a lie by evidence other than that of the accomplice who is to be corroborated, that is to say by admission or by evidence from an independent witness.”
“...the inescapable conclusion is that there was an undefined period of time when the oxygen supply to S's brain must have been impaired.”
“...highly probable that failure to maintain adequate respiration led to an inadequate supply of oxygen to his brain, causing both immediate neurological symptoms (for example being apparently unconscious and unresponsive) and also delayed symptoms in the form of seizures.”
“...having analysed the problem as best one can the final task has been to see if there is sufficient medical evidence to assemble a coherent conclusion that is supported by the medical evidence. If there is insufficient medical evidence to complete the jigsaw or join the dots there needs to be a willingness (on my part) to admit defeat. By being able to take many other factors into account the Court may well be far better placed to complete the jigsaw.”
“This is a lesson on why research studies should be prospective rather than retrospective, you could not have a better demonstration.”
“...the chance of a parent finding a child dying a natural death a few seconds before stopping breathing is very small. If the parent is on the scene at that time it must raise the possibility that the parent has been responsible for the child not breathing. Natural cot deaths are more likely to be associated with a child being found dead, rather than moribund.”
“I have no recollection of S’s mother telling me about this incident whilst in the Emergency Department. However, it was during acute admission so it is possible that she did tell me. However, it would have been potentially important clinical information that I would have expected myself to have documented and remembered.”