"The driver was very calm and approached the defendant. The defendant was very angry and wound up. The driver told him to calm down, but he wouldn't. The driver said again, 'Calm down, get in the car, I'll take you home. You just need to calm down'."
"Just don't do it again."
"... it is now clear that the propositions in Hume and Macdonald that the accused must not have started the trouble, or provoked the quarrel, are stated too broadly. It is not accurate to say that a person who kills someone in a quarrel which he himself started, by provoking it or entering into it willingly, cannot plead self defence if his victim then retaliates. The question whether the plea of self defence is available depends, in a case of that kind, on whether the retaliation is such that the accused is entitled then to defend himself. That depends upon whether the violence offered by the victim was so out of proportion to the accused's own actings as to give rise to the reasonable apprehension that he was in an immediate danger from which he had no other means of escape, and whether the violence which he then used was no more than was necessary to preserve his own life or protect himself from serious injury."
"... you must first ask whether the defendant honestly believed that it was necessary to use force to defend himself at all. This would not be the case if he was the aggressor or if he knew that he did not need to resort to violence or if he successfully and deliberately provoked a fight."
"He tried to hit me. He spat on me. I didn't know what to do."
"It has happened to me before with another man and I didn't know what to do."
"I took a knife from the drawer. He bit my thumb. I don't know what I was stabbing at."
"My initial thought was to pull out a knife and scare him away."
"May we have further guidance on whether taking the knife in self-defence was proportionate to the threat as she perceived it?"
"That is precisely the question on self-defence which you are here to decide, members of the jury. You are the judges of whether it was reasonable to respond as she did or not."
"If you are sure that the force she used was unreasonable then she cannot have been acting in lawful self-defence, but if you think that the force used was or may have been reasonable you should acquit her."