“The local authority recognise that H and J if placement orders are granted would experience the loss of their birth family and the current level of contact would be severed as the prospective adopters would only support indirect contact in the first instance but are open to reviewing this in the future we consider the boys right to a family life balances the loss that will be experienced.”
“27. I have carefully considered the risks and benefits of long term foster care and adoption for H and J, and considered all of the available evidence, and made my own enquiries. I recognise the profound impact that adoption would have upon H, J and their family; and that I need to be satisfied that in their circumstances, nothing else will do. 28. On careful balance, it is my unequivocal view that H and J should have a care plan of adoption, because the opportunity for achieving a sense of permanence, stability and security outweighs the benefits of maintaining direct contact with their parents and siblings. H and J are 4 and 5 years old, and their life has been featured by adverse childhood experiences, and further instability because of the long running proceedings. H and J continue to experience emotional and behavioural difficulties, and for them it is important that they can build secure attachments that will influence their development through childhood and beyond to adulthood, and it is my professional opinion that this could not be achieved in long term foster care. H and J need the stability, security, commitment and emotional investment that they would much more likely find in an adoptive placement. H and J need sense of belonging to a family that only a Care Plan of adoption could properly provide them, based on their individual needs and circumstances. It is my professional opinion that this cannot be realistically achieved with a plan of foster care in respect of their unique needs and circumstances; a plan of long term foster care would not meet H and J’s needs. 29. I do not underestimate the emotional harm that not having contact with their parents and siblings will have on them, and it is important that the risks are mitigated for them. Their familial relationships have been limited since April 2022 when they were separated from their parents and siblings, however, they have maintained direct contact and will experience a significant sense of loss.”
“The guardian agreed that H and J firmly identified as members of their birth family and that adoption and separation from the family would cause emotional upset to the parents, the siblings and to H and J. She further agreed that adoption is not a panacea and that long-term foster care can offer stability and security for some children in the long term. H and J have waited a long time for permanency consequently, she thought any search for adopters should be limited to six months and if the search were unsuccessful, the matter should return to court to address their long-term placement.”
“I conclude that the impact of the separation will be felt by all the sibling group, no doubt for the rest of their life, and it is not to be lightly disregarded. I accept the guardian's evidence that the loss of the relationship would have to be managed and mitigated through clear, thought-out, therapeutic work and life story work for H and J. The siblings' views are, however, just one of the factors that I have to weigh into the balance, and they are not, I remind myself, determinative.”
“I do find, however, that H and J would feel the emotional impact of the cessation of contact with their siblings and parents, particularly as arrangements have been going on now for in excess of 20 months.”
“40. The guardian accepted that this comment was spontaneous and unsolicited, and clearly shows how H and J identified in their family. She did not consider that the sibling bond had increased or diminished since the sibling assessment in 2022, and I accept her evidence on that point. She gave evidence that the bond remained constant throughout the proceedings, but she also reminded the court that the children have not lived together since April 2022 and will not do so whatever the outcome of today’s hearing. 41. To conclude, therefore, although the guardian and [the team manager] have not observed sibling contact, I am satisfied that I have the siblings' and the parents' views. The evidence shows that H and J clearly identify as belonging within the family and their position within the family. The sibling contact has been good and consistent, and the local authority and the guardian do not underplay the strength of the connection that H and J have with their siblings and parents.”
“While H and J have a sense of identity and belonging within their family, they have not lived within that family for almost two years. Their siblings are placed separately and there is a wide age gap between them and [their two elder siblings]. I do not underestimate the emotional effect on the other siblings when learning that the court has approved a plan for adoption, but I have to look at H and J’s needs individually and distinct from their siblings throughout their lifetime.”
“While the foster care can offer stability and permanence, I am not satisfied that in these particular circumstances that long-term foster care can offer the permanence that both boys need. Having regard to H’s and J’s needs throughout their lifetime, I am satisfied that any risk of harm to the children by severing the family ties is outweighed by the permanence, stability and security that will be achieved if the boys were adopted. The boys need a forever adoptive family. I do not underestimate that this may require extra time and support to adjust to a new placement. However, this is unavoidable, as the alternative plan for long-term foster care is uncertain and falls short of what they need.”
“64. I therefore make the care order. I find that the parents' refusal to consent to adoption is unreasonable, I dispense with the parents' consent and I make the placement order as sought by the local authority, with recordings to the order that, firstly, if a suitable match can be made with adoptive parents that support sibling contact (and that can be safely put into place), that should be prioritised. The search is limited to six months, after which, if the boys have not been placed, the local authority must return the matter to court. The existing contact arrangements to remain in place while a placement search continues. The local authority agrees to put in place therapeutic work for all the sibling group and, if the boys are successfully placed, life-story work for H and J. Finally, consideration of the siblings being part of the letterbox contact that the parents will engage in.”
“4. The Court stated that if a suitable adoptive match could be made that supports sib contact, that should be prioritised. 5. The search for an adoptive placement should be limited to a 6 month search and if no match is found by10th July 2024 , the Local Authority should make an application to revoke the placement order. 6. The existing contact arrangements should remain in place until matching takes place. 7. There should be therapeutic work undertaken with all siblings and detailed life story work. 8. Once placed, consideration should be given to siblings forming part of letterbox contact.”