"harassment, mother reporting further incidents of harassment, investigation ongoing."
"Mr S is therefore currently on bail to attend court on certain dates as instructed by the court. The bail includes conditions for him not to contact Mrs S and not to attend her home address..."
"I have read the reports by WPC Wong, Slough Domestic Violence Unit, which indicate that both Mr S and Mrs S had reported incidents of domestic violence to the Police. I understand from WPC Wong that charges of harassment have been made against Mr S who is due to appear in Court on14th September 2004 . Mr S has vehemently denied these allegations and claims he is being prosecuted on the grounds of his racial origin."
"In the past the children have received physical and emotional abuse from Mr S as well as frequently being exposed to the physical abuse and constant denigration I received from Mr S in their presence. Mr S has hit the children and would verbally abuse them. This was initially directed at my eldest son but then became directed at S and L on his visits to our home. As a result the children have always been very frightened by Mr S. Mr S is currently on police bail pending criminal charges against him for harassment towards me. I believe that the criminal trial is due to take place on14th September 2004 ."
"The CAFCASS officer and her report are currently the nature of a complaint by myself. I am unhappy with the way Ms Y conducted herself and her investigation. I would ask the Court to bear in mind that, until the final hearing, I will not be in a position to challenge that report and thus I ask the Court not to accept the contents of that report at face value."
"There is no truth to the allegations that Mr S has been regularly violent or at all to Mrs S."
"Mrs S and Mr B refute the evidence of Mrs Y. Her report was co-written by her colleague from whom I did not hear, but I was concerned by [the mother's] evidence in court that Mrs Y had given untruthful and a deliberately biased report. On the contrary, I was impressed by Mrs Y's clear and objectively balanced evidence. I am satisfied that Mrs Y carried out an entirely professional investigation, untainted by bias."
"There is a high level of disagreement between Mrs S and Mr S over past arrangements for contact and the parties' history generally."
"Mr S claims Mrs S has made allegations [against her husband] concerning domestic violence to support her application to remove the children from the United Kingdom."
"A number of issues have been canvassed before me - many going to the credit of the parties. Whilst I bear all these points in mind in coming to my decision, I cannot make definitive findings in respect of each and every one. Time would not permit. Nor would it be useful for me to do so."
"I cannot make findings of fact in relation to Mr and Mrs S's past marriage difficulties; nor even the date of their separations and reconciliations."
"(2) the effect of children being exposed to domestic violence of one parent as against the other may up until now have been underestimated by judges, and advisers alike; (2) it follows that alleged domestic violence is a matter that ought to be investigated, and on which findings of fact should be made because if it is established, its effect on children exposed to it, and the risk to the residential carer are highly relevant factors in considering orders for contact and their form; (3) in assessing the relevance of past domestic violence, it is likely to be highly material whether the perpetrator has shown an ability to recognise the wrong he ... has done, and the steps taken to correct the deficiency in the perpetrator's character."
"(d) the capacity of the parent seeking contact to appreciate the effect of past and future violence on the other parent and the children concerned; (e) the attitude of the parent seeking contact to past violent conduct by that parent; and in particular whether that parent has the capacity to change and/or to behave appropriately."
"341. There are however a number of general comments I wish to make on the advice given to us. The family judges and magistrates need to have a heightened awareness of the existence of and consequences (some long term), on children of exposure to domestic violence between their parents or other partners. There has, perhaps, been a tendency in the past for courts not to tackle allegations of violence and to leave them in the background of the premise that they were matters affecting the adults and not relevant to the issues regarding the children. The general principle that contact with the non-resident parent is in the interests of the child may sometimes have discouraged sufficient attention being paid to the adverse effects on children living in the household where violence has occurred. It may not necessarily be widely appreciated that violence to a partner involves a significant failure in parenting - failure to protect the child's carer and failure to protect the child emotionally. In a contact or other s 8 application, where allegations of domestic violence are made which might have an effect on the outcome, those allegations must be adjudicated upon and found proved or not proved. It will be necessary to scrutinise such allegations which may not always be true or may be grossly exaggerated. If however there is a firm basis for finding that violence has occurred, the psychiatric advice becomes very important. There is not, however, nor should there be, any presumption that, on proof of domestic violence, the offending parent has to surmount a prima facie barrier of no contact. As a matter of principle, domestic violence of itself cannot constitute a bar to contact. It is one factor in the difficult and delicate balancing exercise of discretion. The court deals with the facts of a specific case in which the degree of violence and the seriousness of the impact on the child and on the resident parent have to be taken into account. In cases of proved domestic violence, as in cases of other proved harm or risk of harm to the child, the court has the task of weighing in the balance the seriousness of the domestic violence, the risks involved and the impact on the child against the positive factors (if any), of contact between the parent found to have been violent and the child. In this context, the ability of the offending parent to recognise his past conduct, be aware of the need to change and make genuine efforts to do so, will be likely to be an important consideration. Wall J in Re M (Contact: Violent Parent)[1999] 2 FLR 321 suggested at 333 that often in cases where domestic violence had been found, too little weight had been given to the need for the father to change. He suggested that the father should demonstrate that he was a fit person to exercise contact and should show a track record of proper behaviour. Assertions, without evidence to back it up, may well not be sufficient."