“The mother has also raised issues in terms of violence against her. Those to which reference have been made relate to allegations prior to and in the aftermath of the separation”
“a man who is very troubled by the absence of contact with his daughter and that his sense of distress produces at times a very strong emotional reaction from him which significantly influences his presentation to the point at which he can be very pressurising and garrulous, and also evidently distraught and overwhelmed by his feelings.”
‘You’re not taking her, she’s my baby.’
“It’s a fact of life in the Ely neighbourhood that one has to go armed”
“I have no doubt at all that in principle direct contact between H and her father would be of benefit to her. Not only has she missed a consistent relationship with her father, who is important to her, but also with the paternal family and they clearly have had a good relationship with her in the past and have missed out recently as a result of the cessation of direct contact which is primarily projected onto the problems that have occurred between H’s father and maternal grandmother”
“Why are you standing there, why don’t you talk to me?” “Why haven’t you contributed to this, that and the other important events of my life?” which is extremely difficult for a father who is absent from a child to deal with, to be able to give an answer, and when she asks the question of course she gets the maternal family’s view of the situation. She is not far off beginning to say ”
“Does that also include face to face contact?”
“If Dr Gallway is right when he says that re-living the original trauma is what triggers a response of distress then this was the clearest of illustrations. The allegations, as she well knows, are at the very centre of her objections to contact. However, the response made it virtually impossible to evaluate her answers because the distress was so intrusive it may have made her answers unreliable. I could not be sure she was concentrating on the question and giving a considered answer. At times she gave the impression that the opposite was the case. This implies no criticism of Mr. Furness QC who approached his task of cross-examination in a perfectly fair and sensitive manner. I have heard some evidence from (the mother) but on the vital issue of alleged domestic violence Mr. Furness was only able to achieve a small part of his cross-examination and such answers as she gave were when in a state of extreme emotion. It leaves me little further forward than was Judge Case in 2002…. ”
“28 In cross-examination Dr Gallwey accepted that he has had to rely for his diagnosis on the mother's truthfulness. She gave him a history of no prior depressive episodes. He was surprised to learn that she had a record of post-natal depression for four months in 1995. As the onset of PTSD depends on actual or threatened death or injury to oneself or to a loved one, he had worked on the assumption that her account of serious violence had already been accepted by the court. He accepted that he had misconstrued what the Court of Appeal had to say about this in August 2000 as well as what the Court said about the requirements of therapy in its judgment in 2002. He had also taken her word about subjective symptoms such as nightmares. He stated that in PTSD cases there is almost always and immediate reaction with anxiety and dissociative symptoms although it can be delayed by three to six months. He accepted that there was no mention of nightmares in the mother's affidavit in October 1996, nor in her statements in 1999, whereas (the mother) told him that she started to have nightmares soon after the initial trauma. He was referred to the history taken by Dr Jawad in 1999 who recorded that (the mother’s) nightmares about the incidents of violence ‘stopped bothering her a year after she left (the father)’. 29. Further, he would have expected (the mother) to have related to him or to previous psychiatrists the particularly frightening precipitating events. She did not mention to him the ‘telephone’ incident (one of three singled out by (the mother) in evidence before me as of particular significance and which I will come to) although she had emphasised it to Dr Jawad. She related to Dr Gallwey an incident when H was 10 months old when (the father) kicked her in the stomach and she suffered a miscarriage. Dr Gallwey was persuaded in cross-examination by records that she was not in fact pregnant at the time. He agreed that (the mother) telling the Guardian that ‘it was impossible for her to even think of holidays in unfamiliar places’ was inconsistent with (the mother) K going to Tunisia in January 1999 and to Ireland in the last two years. He agreed there was no record of any complaint to a GP or medication referable to PTSD until 1999 but that, as a clinician, did not surprise him. He recognised the degree of inconsistency in what she had told him but considered that not unusual with his patients. He had not of course been aware of these inconsistencies when he wrote his report. 30.. He concluded that she had a cluster of symptoms, all subjective except Criterion A, that confirmed a PTSD. He agreed that if in fact (the mother) is exaggerating her symptoms there would be less or no need to stop contact or at any rate not for so long a period. Dr Gallwey summarised his view about treatment by saying “it’s as simple as this. If she needs to be treated then contact needs to cease for a substantial length of time”
“43. (The father) acknowledges that he has a history of violence. He was addicted to amphetamine until the end of 1992 and I think he accepted that was a contributory factor. He agreed that he expresses himself forcefully at times, but pointed out that although he has previous convictions for violence none are for violence to (the mother), nor have there been any allegations of violence to his partner NI with whom he has lived for several years. His convictions include one for Robbery in 1988 where he claimed to be an accomplice who offered no evidence. In 1990 he was convicted of Actual Bodily Harm on a man and in 1993 of criminal damage and burglary (in 1992). On both occasions he was found to be in possession of a Stanley blade which he said was to cut up amphetamine and to make ‘lines’. In 1994 and 1997 he was convicted of assault on a police office and on the same occasion in 1994 and in 1995 of threatening behaviour. In 1995 he was convicted of possession of cannabis which he said he was returning to a friend. Another offence of criminal damage occurred in 1997. More recently in 2004 he was convicted of Affray when he took a hammer with him to confront a neighbour who he said had been persecuting his family. He believes that he pleaded guilty to all these offences. His case is that until he pulled himself together and gave up amphetamine at the end of 1992 he and (the mother) “were violent to each other” including (the mother) hitting him. Such a history inevitably undermines his denials of violence in his relations with (the mother).”
“My father had not long been released from hospital from a suspected heart attack and (the mother) wanted to phone him to get involved in our argument and I was not letting her. And we were struggling over the phone. I was trying to pull the phone from her. She was trying to pull it from me. She had hold of the phone and I was trying to pull it from her and were struggling over the phone and it came out of my grasp and as she was pulling it, it sprang back and hit her in the side of the head”
“…. the Court will see from my previous statements that I have on a number of occasions been very violently assaulted by the Respondent and have been hospitalised. These have not been isolated incidents and I hope the Court will appreciate that I have always held a very genuine fear of the Respondent ever since”.”
“I would have expected more serious bruising to the head and linear marks to her back”
“what did she expect if she sleeps with my friends?”
“The court invariably needs and invariably depends upon the help it receives from experts in this field. The court has no expertise of its own, other than legal expertise… By their special allocation to this work, they [i.e. Judges] acquire a body of knowledge which, strictly speaking, cannot be substituted for the evidence received, but which can be deployed to spot any weakness in the expert evidence. That is the judicial task. The expert advises, but the judge decides. The judge decides on the evidence. If there is nothing before the court, no facts or no circumstances shown to the court which throw doubt on the expert evidence, then, if that is all with which the court is left, the court must accept it. There is, however, no rule that the judge suspends judicial belief simply because the evidence is given by an expert.”
“Family judges deal with increasingly difficult child cases and are much assisted in their decision-making process by professionals from other disciplines: medical, wider mental health and social work among others. The courts pay particular attention to the valuable contribution from paediatricians and child psychiatrists as well as others, but it is important to remember that the decision is that of the judge and not of the professional expert. Judges are well accustomed to assessing the conflicting evidence of experts. As Ward, LJ said, Judges are not expected to suspend judicial belief simply because the evidence is given by an expert. An expert is not in any special position and there is no presumption of belief in a doctor however distinguished he or she may be. It is, however, necessary for a Judge to give reasons for disagreeing with experts' conclusions or recommendations. That, this Judge did. A Judge cannot substitute his views for the views of the experts without some evidence to support what it is he concludes.”
“In a case such as this where the expert evidence, and here the expert evidence of the radiologist was all one way, the judge is certainly entitled, if he has evidence that he can rely upon to the contrary, not to accept that evidence. In my view he did not have that evidence in this case. He did not, in particular, have evidence that made the uncontroverted medical evidence logically unsupportable. The judge failed to analyse the evidence and give any reasons. The credibility or otherwise of the lay witnesses of facts of this case, in my view cannot stand so high as to make the evidence of the two consultant radiologists of no effect.”