‘Communicate with the applicant or the children whether by letter, text message, social media or other means of communication’
“15. The idea of a McKenzie Friend, however articulate and experienced, either cross-examining a parent accusing a partner of serious sexual violence or indeed serious physical violence, or even of cross-examining the parties’ 16 year old child if in due course X gives evidence against his father, is highly unpalatable and this court would be very disturbed by that prospect. [The McKenzie Friend] has suggested that he has been given rights of audience frequently by judges and I pressed him as to whether this had ever happened in Greater Manchester. In effect he said that it had not and that there may be geographical differences. I told him in no uncertain terms that I have never come across it in Greater Manchester and this court, of course, is one of the busiest, if not the busiest, family court in the country.”
“19. At the end of the day, for the reasons I have given, the application is refused. I contemplate with profound disquiet, and that is putting it pretty mildly if I may say so, the prospect of a McKenzie Friend, in effect with rights of audience, cross-examining a mother in relation to serious and complex allegations, let alone a teenage child of the parties if and when X gives evidence so the application is refused.”
“The court expressed the view that given the wishes and feelings expressed by the children, a fact-finding hearing was unlikely to assist the court in determining the issue of contact.”
‘A gave [NYAS worker] a statement he had prepared and said no-one had read. He would be delighted to give evidence against his father. Despite what he said, it appeared later in the report that the children, which really means A and B, had written at the suggestion of their mother acting on advice from her solicitor. … What I do note is that A’s statement … even assuming that what A was saying factually was true, is a very disturbing document to read. It has the imprint of his mother’ accusations. However, even allowing for the possibility of him imbibing unquestioningly all his mother had said, he nevertheless presents as an intelligent and fiercely independent young man’
‘She wrote that she wanted all the bad things dad had caused to go away. She wished they had never gone to the refuge and she wished she did not have nightmares about dad. She did not want to see him EVER (ever in capital letters). No-one could drag her kicking and screaming to see her father. On the second visit she was even more emotional and angry.’
‘So that was the report [from NYAS] before the court when directions were given on17th September 2015 . It was agreed that A should be discharged as a party. That was inevitable given his age. It was also agreed that given his age and his strongly articulated wishes and feelings it would be left to him to decide if he wished to see his father. There was then this important recording of an agreed key issue. I stress the word “agreed”. “Given the wishes and feelings expressed by all children a fact-finding hearing is unlikely to assist the parties in resolving the issue of contact”. That is a crucial point. I again stress it was agreed. I will return to this point later in this judgment. I decided that a separate fact-finding hearing was not necessary because the nature of the allegations and the chidlren’s wishes and feelings were such that the court did not require such a hearing in order to be able to decide whether to make the orders sought.’
‘There was an issue as to whether the non-molestation order should be withdrawn or discharged. The mother argued that it should be withdrawn, the father that it should be discharged. I received emails setting out the different positions. There was disagreement as to what had been agreed at court. I determined that on balance the father was right and that the non-molestation order should be discharged and I so ordered. There had of course been no determination of the allegations following the making of the original ex-parte without notice order by District Judge Mornington.’
“38. An unusual feature of this case is that absent the finding of fact hearing or evidence about bitterly contested matters, the factual matrix does not include adverse findings against the father or in relation to his past behaviour. So, in essence, we have a mother reporting that she and the children have been traumatised by the father’s violent, aggressive and uncaring approach and behaviour and the father claiming he has been a victim of the mother’s malevolence, false allegations and unjustified poisoning of the children’s minds and an absence of judicial determination. Does that matter? Usually, of course, it matters because the mother’s implacable hostility to contact, particularly if based on a child’s opposition to contact, or a child’s wishes and feelings, must be genuine and based on good grounds or objectively good grounds. In my judgment it was and it is not necessary for there to be findings against the father provided that the court’s decision to refuse direct contact is founded on the proper application of established principles.”
“42. I remind myself of the agreement of17th September 2015 that a fact-finding hearing was unlikely to assist the parties in resolving the issue of contact. The issue here is contact and the father’s future relationship with one or more of the children. It is not and it is no longer the non-molestation order application. I recognise that I could not continue a non-molestation order without findings but in any event the decision about contact in the future and contact-related questions is what needs to be the focus. “(h) Whether a separate finding of fact hearing would be necessary and proportionate in all the circumstances of the case”
“51. If I can interweave the question of a child’s wishes and feelings and finding of fact hearing, I would say this: (1) given the strength of the children’s feelings; (2) the school’s description of the boys as lovely, caring boys who are very protective of their mother (3) the children’s immersion in their mother’s belief system, whether justified or not, in other words whether based on their own experience of their father and what they saw and heard, or based on what the mother has told them, true or not. Given all of that, it is in my judgment utterly unrealistic, bordering on fantasy thinking, to believe that the children, and in particular A and/or B, although of course I recognise I am not formally dealing with A, or indeed the mother, would simply accept a judgment adverse to her and vindicating the father. They would resent it, reject it, and blame the father for lying. More important, given that it is not possible in A’s case or realistic in B’s for the court to make a contact order against their wishes, it is difficult to see how one could avoid driving half a wedge between C and her brothers and somehow weave her away from their influence.”
“I am satisfied that all necessary steps have been taken since the institution of the father’s application to facilitate contact and I conclude that there is no reasonable prospect whatsoever of observed contact, let alone unsupervised direct contact, being possible.”
‘All 3 children have clearly experienced emotional harm as a result of their parents’ relationship breaking down. I am concerned about the chidlren’s knowledge of adult issues. The children and their mother have raised numerous allegations against [the father] of varying degrees of seriousness and include a total lack of interest and love to being verbally and physically aggressive. The emotional harm of growing up believing that one parent does not love you will be significant. It will potentially impact on all aspects of their lives, but particularly their self-esteem, behaviour, ability to form appropriate relationships and so on. The impact of domestic violence should not be underestimated on children. All 3 children have talked about their fear of their father and it is evident that they have all heard and witnessed distressing incidents and police involvement.’
‘any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. This can encompass, but is not limited to, psychological, physical, sexual, financial, or emotional abuse. Domestic abuse also includes culturally specific forms of abuse including, but not limited to, forced marriage, honour-based violence, dowry-related abuse and transnational marriage abandonment.’
‘The court must, at all stages of the proceedings, and specifically at the First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment ('FHDRA'), consider whether domestic abuse is raised as an issue, either by the parties or by Cafcass or CAFCASS Cymru or otherwise, and if so must – • identify at the earliest opportunity (usually at the FHDRA) the factual and welfare issues involved; • consider the nature of any allegation, admission or evidence of domestic abuse, and the extent to which it would be likely to be relevant in deciding whether to make a child arrangements order and, if so, in what terms; • give directions to enable contested relevant factual and welfare issues to be tried as soon as possible and fairly; • ensure that where domestic abuse is admitted or proven, any child arrangements order in place protects the safety and wellbeing of the child and the parent with whom the child is living, and does not expose either of them to the risk of further harm; and • ensure that any interim child arrangements order (i.e. considered by the court before determination of the facts, and in the absence of admission) is only made having followed the guidance in paragraphs 25–27 below. In particular, the court must be satisfied that any contact ordered with a parent who has perpetrated domestic abuse does not expose the child and/or other parent to the risk of harm and is in the best interests of the child.’
‘In any proceedings in which any question with respect to the upbringing of a child arises, the court shall have regard to the general principle that any delay in determining the question is likely to prejudice the welfare of the child.’
‘A court, in the circumstances mentioned in subsection (4)(a) or (7), is as respects each parent within subsection (6)(a) to presume, unless the contrary is shown, that involvement of that parent in the life of the child concerned will further the child’s welfare.’
‘66. The relationship of CB with her father, and the prospect of a life without him in any meaningful sense, currently hangs in the balance. In resolving how that balance tilts in this case, one powerful consideration is my obligation under Article 8 to do what is necessary and proportionate to protect and enhance CB's rights to family life with her father, and the father's rights to a relationship with his daughter. I am quite satisfied that contact between a parent and child is such a fundamental element of family life that it should be terminated only in exceptional circumstances, and where there are cogent reasons for doing so. I recognise my positive obligation to "take measures to maintain and to reconstitute the relationship between parent and child", in short, to restore contact. Munby LJ in Re C(Direct Contact: Suspension)[2011] EWCA 521 referred to the need for a court to "grapple with all the available alternatives before abandoning hope of achieving some contact", even if short-term transient problems (i.e. the delay in disposing one way or another of the mother's relocation application) arise. The medium-term and long-term implications of my decision weigh heavy. I am satisfied that if CB leaves from these shores now with her mother, CB's emerging but disrupted relationship with her father would swiftly fade, and expire altogether. The mother has been unwilling to support this relationship for some time, and I am satisfied that she would have little if any incentive or pressure to facilitate the relationship. 67. On the other side of the balance is the right which CB and her mother also enjoy to mutual Article 8 rights; their relationship deserves to be protected from disturbance from the father. The mother has a right to be protected from abuse. The mother and CB are entitled to the Court's protection of their family life free from coercion, harassment and abuse. 68. Given all that I have said above, it is, in my judgment, in CB's interests that one final time-limited opportunity is offered to the father to demonstrate that he can be a good parent to CB, and could co-parent CB with the mother; he needs help with this, which I am not sure he has yet received. This conclusion draws heavily on the obligations to which I have just referred, but is also influenced by the original recommendation of the section 7 reporter that the father "would benefit from further support and guidance around child development and he has stated he would be willing to participate in a parenting course". In my judgment, he would gain from some focused specialist domestic abuse prevention work, and/or from further advice, guidance or counselling on managing his behaviours. Whether he is emotionally ready and able to access this remains to be seen; however, he needs to be able to offer re-assurance to the mother, the professionals, and the Court that he can participate in his daughter's life safely. While conscious of the general principle that "any delay in determining" the important questions of relocation and contact is likely to prejudice the welfare of this child (section 1(2) CA 1989), I consider that delay in this case is purposeful, and is a proportionate interference with the rights of the parties.’
‘… the history shows a chronic failure of judicial case management. The repeated inability of the court to hold a fact-finding hearing has led to prolonged and indefensible delay in making an important decision for this young child.’
‘56. So much for the general principles by reference to which we have to determine the three grounds of appeal. In relation to ground (iii), there was common ground between the parties as to the governing principles. After a detailed analysis of both the Strasbourg and domestic jurisprudence, this court in Re C (Direct Contact: Suspension)[2011] EWCA Civ 521 ,[2011] 2 FLR 912 , para 47, summarised matters as follows: "• Contact between parent and child is a fundamental element of family life and is almost always in the interests of the child.• Contact between parent and child is to be terminated only in exceptional circumstances, where there are cogent reasons for doing so and when there is no alternative. Contact is to be terminated only if it will be detrimental to the child's welfare.• There is a positive obligation on the State, and therefore on the judge, to take measures to maintain and to reconstitute the relationship between parent and child, in short, to maintain or restore contact. The judge has a positive duty to attempt to promote contact. The judge must grapple with all the available alternatives before abandoning hope of achieving some contact. He must be careful not to come to a premature decision, for contact is to be stopped only as a last resort and only once it has become clear that the child will not benefit from continuing the attempt. • The court should take both a medium-term and long-term view and not accord excessive weight to what appear likely to be short-term or transient problems. • The key question, which requires 'stricter scrutiny', is whether the judge has taken all necessary steps to facilitate contact as can reasonably be demanded in the circumstances of the particular case. • All that said, at the end of the day the welfare of the child is paramount; 'the child's interest must have precedence over any other consideration.'" 57. To that summary, which has been followed both in Re W (Direct Contact)[2012] EWCA Civ 999 ,[2013] 1 FLR 494 , and Re Q (Implacable Contact Dispute)[2015] EWCA Civ 991 , [2016] 2 FR 287, we only add a reference to what Balcombe LJ said in Re J (A Minor) (Contact)[1994] 1 FLR 729 , 736: "… judges should be very reluctant to allow the implacable hostility of one parent (usually the parent who has a residence order in his or her favour), to deter them from making a contact order where they believe the child's welfare requires it. The danger of allowing the implacable hostility of the residential parent (usually the mother) to frustrate the court's decision is too obvious to require repetition on my part."’
‘61. The second [central principle], which goes to the heart of the issue in relation to ground (iii), is the principle that the judge has a positive duty to attempt to promote contact; that the judge must grapple with all the available alternatives before abandoning hope of achieving some contact; that the judge must be careful not to come to a premature decision; and that "contact is to be stopped only as a last resort and only once it has become clear that the child will not benefit from continuing the attempt" (see paragraph 56 above).’
‘(i) An ex parte (without notice) injunctive order must never be made without limit of time. There must be a fixed end date. It is not sufficient merely to specify a return day. The order must specify on its face and in clear terms precisely when it expires (eg, 12 noon on20 March 2017 ). … (iii) Careful consideration needs to be given to the duration of any order made ex parte (without notice). Many orders will be of short duration, typically no more than 14 days. But in appropriate cases involving personal protection, such as non‐molestation injunctions granted in accordance withPart IV of the Family Law Act 1996 , the order itself can be for a longer period, such as 6 or even 12 months, provided that the order specifies a return day within no more than 14 days. This must be a matter for the discretion of the judge, but a period longer than 6 months is likely to be appropriate only where the allegation is of long term abuse or where some other good reason is shown. Conversely, a period shorter than 6 months may be appropriate in a case where there appears to be a one‐off problem that may subside in weeks rather than months. … (vii) If the respondent does apply to set aside or vary the order the court must list the application as a matter of urgency, within a matter of days at most.’
‘61. The iniquity of the situation was first highlighted 11 years ago by Roderic Wood J in H v L & R[2006] EWHC 3099 (Fam) ,[2007] 2 FLR 162 . It was reiterated in Re B (a child) (private law fact-finding-unrepresented father), D v K [2014] EWHC (Fam). Cross examination by a perpetrator is prohibited by statute in the Crown Court, in recognition of its impact on victims and in order to facilitate fairness to both prosecution and defence. In Wood J's case he called for 'urgent attention' to be given to the issue. This call was volubly repeated by Sir James Munby, President of the Family Division in Q v Q; Re B (a child); Re C (a child)[2014] EWFC 31 and again in his 'View from the President's Chambers (2016): Children and Vulnerable Witnesses: where are we?' 62. In that document the President highlighted the Women's Aid Publication: Nineteen Child Homicides. I too would wish to emphasise it: "Allowing a perpetrator of domestic abuse who is controlling, bullying and intimidating to question their victim when in the family court regarding child arrangement orders is a clear disregard for the impact of domestic abuse, and offers perpetrators of abuse another opportunity to wield power and control." Commenting on this, the President asked 'who could possibly disagree?' The proposition, in my view, is redundant of any coherent contrary argument.’
‘57. As I have made clear above it was necessary, in this case, to permit F to conduct cross examination of M directly. A number of points need to be highlighted. Firstly, F was not present in the Courtroom but cross examined by video link. Secondly, M requested and I granted permission for her to have her back to the video screen in order that she did not have to engage face to face with F. Thirdly, F barely engaged with M's allegations of violence, choosing to conduct a case which concentrated on undermining M's credibility (which as emerges above was largely unsuccessful). 58. Despite these features of the case, I have found it extremely disturbing to have been required to watch this woman cross examined about a period of her life that has been so obviously unhappy and by a man who was the direct cause of her unhappiness. M is articulate, educated and highly motivated to provide a decent life for herself and her son. She was represented at this hearing by leading and junior counsel and was prepared to submit to cross examination by her husband in order that the case could be concluded. She was faced with an invidious choice. 59. Nothing of what I have said above has masked the impact that this ordeal has had on her. She has at times looked both exhausted and extremely distressed. M was desperate to have the case concluded in order that she and A could effect some closure on this period of their lives and leave behind the anxiety of what has been protracted litigation. 60. It is a stain on the reputation of our Family Justice system that a Judge can still not prevent a victim being cross examined by an alleged perpetrator. This may not have been the worst or most extreme example but it serves only to underscore that the process is inherently and profoundly unfair. I would go further it is, in itself, abusive. For my part, I am simply not prepared to hear a case in this way again. I cannot regard it as consistent with my judicial oath and my responsibility to ensure fairness between the parties.’
‘what evidence the alleged victim of domestic abuse is able to give and what support the alleged victim may require at the fact-finding hearing in order to give that evidence;’
‘28. While ensuring that the allegations are properly put and responded to, the fact-finding hearing or other hearing can be an inquisitorial (or investigative) process, which at all times must protect the interests of all involved. At the fact-finding hearing or other hearing: • each party can be asked to identify what questions they wish to ask of the other party, and to set out or confirm in sworn evidence their version of the disputed key facts; and • the judge should be prepared where necessary and appropriate to conduct the questioning of the witnesses on behalf of the parties, focussing on the key issues in the case.’