“the relationship which develops through the child demanding and the parent providing for the child's needs, initially at the most basic level of feeding, nurturing, comforting and loving, and later at the more sophisticated level of guiding, socialising, educating and protecting.”
“I am not married to [CD] but I acknowledge that she and I are being treated together and that I intend to have parental rights for any resulting child.”
“(NOTE: the centre is not required to obtain a partner’s acknowledgement in order to make the treatment lawful but it is advisable in the interests of the (sic.) establishing the legal parenthood of the child.)”
“(1) The agreed female parenthood conditions referred to in (1) section 43(b) are met in relation to another woman (“P”) in relation to treatment provided to W under a licence if, but only if, – (a) P has given the person responsible a notice stating that P consents to P being treated as a parent of any child resulting from treatment provided to W under the licence, (b) W has given the person responsible a notice stating that W agrees to P being so treated, (c) neither W nor P has, since giving notice under paragraph (a) or (b), given the person responsible notice of the withdrawal of P’s or W’s consent to P being so treated, (d) W has not, since the giving of the notice under paragraph (b), given the person responsible – (i) a further notice under that paragraph stating that W consents to a woman other than P being treated as a parent of any resulting child, or (ii) a notice under section 37(1)(b) stating that W consents to a man being treated as the father of any resulting child, and (e) W and P are not within prohibited degrees of relationship in relation to each other. (2) A notice under subsection (1)(a), (b) or (c) must be in writing and must be signed by the person giving it.” (a) P has given the person responsible a notice stating that P consents to P being treated as a parent of any child resulting from treatment provided to W under the licence, (b) W has given the person responsible a notice stating that W agrees to P being so treated, (c) neither W nor P has, since giving notice under paragraph (a) or (b), given the person responsible notice of the withdrawal of P’s or W’s consent to P being so treated, (d) W has not, since the giving of the notice under paragraph (b), given the person responsible – (i) a further notice under that paragraph stating that W consents to a woman other than P being treated as a parent of any resulting child, or (ii) a notice under section 37(1)(b) stating that W consents to a man being treated as the father of any resulting child, and (e) W and P are not within prohibited degrees of relationship in relation to each other. (2) A notice under subsection (1)(a), (b) or (c) must be in writing and must be signed by the person giving it.”
“[2] From6 April 2009 partners of women to whom they are not married or with whom they are not in a civil partnership will only be recognised as the legal parent of any child born from treatment with donor sperm or embryos if written consent has been given before gamete or embryo transfer takes place.”
“[8] …The female partner of the woman receiving treatment must have consented (prior to embryo or gamete transfer) to being the second parent of any child born as a result of treatment in order to be legally recognised as such. The woman receiving treatment must also have consented to her being recognised as the second parent. If the consents are not in place before gamete or embryo transfer, the partner of the woman receiving treatment will not be legally recognised as the second parent of any child born as a result of the treatment”
“From6 April 2009 , make sure consents to parenthood are in place before treatment with donor sperm or embryos – otherwise any child born will not have a second legal parent.”
“The centre should provide information to people seeking treatment about legal parenthood … The centre should explain that there is a difference in law between the legal status of ‘father’ or ‘parent’ and having ‘parental responsibility’ for a child. In any case in which people seeking treatment have doubts or concerns about legal parenthood or parental responsibility for a child born as a result of treatment services, the centre should advise them to seek their own legal advice.” ix) That was supplemented by an obligation on the clinic to “record each offer of counselling and the person’s decision to accept or reject such offers in the patient notes” (Guidance G.7.4.1) x) The ‘Legal Parenthood Guidance Note’ provides, as guidance to the interpretation of Sections 43 and 44: “Where a woman who is not married or in a civil partnership … is to be treated together with a female partner using donor sperm … the centre must advise those seeking treatment that the female partner can be the parent of any resulting child if the conditions outlined in paragraphs 43 and 44, Part 2, HFEA 2008 are met including that: (a) the female partner consents to being a legal parent of any child born as a result of her partner’s treatment; and (b) the patient gives consent to her partner being a legal parent of any child born of her treatment; and … …. (f) these consents are in writing and signed”. (a) the female partner consents to being a legal parent of any child born as a result of her partner’s treatment; and (b) the patient gives consent to her partner being a legal parent of any child born of her treatment; and … …. (f) these consents are in writing and signed”. xi) In interpreting Section 13(6A), the Legal Parenthood Guidance Note provides the following ‘Mandatory Requirement’: “The law states that a woman who has consented to her partner being the legal parent of any child born as a result of her treatment can only be treated when she and her partner have: • had a suitable opportunity to receive proper counselling about the implications of treatment in these circumstances, and • been given proper information.” xii) The ‘Commencement Arrangements Guidance’ made clear that: “[11] Clinics should note that from6 April 2009 they will need to comply with licence conditions set out in section 14(3) of the 2008 Act, which amends section 13(6) and adds section 13(6A)-13(6E) to the 1990 Act. Schedule 4 to the 2008 Act, which introduces a new Schedule 3ZA to the 1990 Act, will also be brought into force on6 April 2009 to set out the additional counselling requirements and to ensure that they also apply to the female second parent….” xiii) And later in the same ‘Commencement Arrangements Guidance’, and in my judgment crucially: “[13] Where couples - began treatment before6 April 2009 ; - are to undergo gamete or embryo transfer on or after this date; and - were already provided with the relevant information and offered counselling before this date in line with the 1990 Act before it was amended by the 2008 Act centres must repeat the offer (sic.) counselling and ensure they have provided information in line with these new requirements”. - began treatment before6 April 2009 ; - are to undergo gamete or embryo transfer on or after this date; and - were already provided with the relevant information and offered counselling before this date in line with the 1990 Act before it was amended by the 2008 Act centres must repeat the offer (sic.) counselling and ensure they have provided information in line with these new requirements”. xiv) Implications counselling for those receiving donated gametes is mandatory at the Z Fertility Clinic, and no treatment would be provided for those who chose not to attend; this is “because the consequences of receiving donated gametes … are immense for … recipients and for any children so conceived” (according to the counsellor at the Z Fertility Clinic): “It is critical that those seeking treatment with donated gametes such as [AB] and [CD] have thought through all the implications of treatment, both for their own sake and for that of any children they may have as a result.”
“I would not have felt able to take on board counselling and information on the same day as an insemination procedure. It is a highly stressful procedure … I would not have been in a proper emotional state to take on board information and implications counselling”
“Centres, the HFEA and the courts have to respect that scheme, however great their sympathy for the plight of particular individuals caught up in it.”