“if I take HM out of the jurisdiction of England and Wales during any period of contact I have with her, I will return HM to the jurisdiction of England and Wales on or before the end of that period of contact.”
“The specific contact arrangements should be discussed between PM and KH, each proposal by either parent being copied at the same time to the advocate and the care co-ordinator. In the event that PM and KH are able to agree what they consider the contact arrangements should be and if HM’s advocate and the care co-ordinator are content that the proposals accord with HM’s best interests, then those shall be the contact arrangements for the relevant period. In the event that PM and KH cannot agree, or if HM’s advocate or the care co-ordinator are concerned that what is proposed by way of contact is not in HM’s best interests, the care co-ordinator will make the decision.”
“Before taking HM on holiday, PM and KH shall both inform the care co-ordinator (but pending appointment Guernsey HSSD) of their itinerary and contact numbers during the holiday and the care co-ordinator shall pass such information to the other parent.”
“The parents have made practical arrangements for contact until the date proposed by [Y] for HM to come to [Y], which is19th October 2009 . HM has been with her mother … but moved to her father’s home … on8th October 2009 and the provisional plan is that HM’s father will bring her [to Y] to see the placement in the week of 12th October and he will bring her [to Y] on 19th October to settle in.”
“Nothing has been ‘agreed’ and without consultation and discussion nothing is capable of being agreed.”
“You ‘implore me to reconsider and bring [HM] home’ – I take it by that you mean home to [Y] – No, never! … One last point, [KH]. I am offering, subject to absolute, watertight guarantees from the relevant parties / governments / courts, to bring [HM] to Guernsey for 1 to 2 weeks over the period covering her 21st birthday, which I believe would be in [HM’s] best interests and which she would most certainly enjoy. The ball is in your court in respect of this offer … ”
“Subject: YOUR OPPORTUNITY TO BE ‘A MENSCH’ … So what I am saying (again) to you both is that your actions in ‘freezing’ assets that you thought belonged to me is wrong; and the only persons who will suffer are the girls. [HM] and I are fine; we are well; we are managing despite the attempt at ‘inconveniencing’ us and to put it bluntly, will not be blackmailed – the effect of which would be like selling out on [HM’s] future for money or assets. I have more respect for her than that. Do you? So now it’s time to be A Mensch – Mensch (Yiddish: מענטש mentsh, German: Mensch, for human being) means “a person of integrity and honor”
“the court exercises what is, in substance and reality, a jurisdiction in relation to incompetent adults which is for all practical purposes indistinguishable from its well-established jurisdiction in relation to children. There is little, if any, practical difference between the types of orders that can be made in exercise of the two jurisdictions. The main difference is that the court cannot make an adult a ward of court. So the particular status which wardship automatically confers on a child who is a ward of court – for example, the fact that a ward of court cannot marry or leave the jurisdiction without the consent of the court – has no parallel in the case of the adult jurisdiction. In the absence of express orders, the attributes or incidents of wardship do not attach to an adult. But this apart, the court’s powers to make orders under the inherent jurisdiction in relation to adults would seem to be as wide as its powers when exercising its inherent parens patriae jurisdiction in relation to children. Just as there are, in theory, no limits to the court’s powers when exercising the wardship jurisdiction I suspect that there are, in theory, few if any limits to the court’s powers when exercising the inherent jurisdiction in relation to adults.”
“In an appropriate case the court can also make tipstaff orders – location orders, collection orders and passport orders – in relation to an adult just as it does in relation to children.”