“… it was our mutual intention that the later civil ceremony would register our marriage. That is not to say that I believed that the vows we made in the religious ceremony [in Cape Town] were to have no meaning: to me; it was of the utmost importance that we be married in the eyes of God. We met with Rev B who was to conduct the religious ceremony in South Africa in advance of the same and we agreed a form of wording for the ceremony which we believed would not result in a registable marriage at this time. In summary, we agreed with him that he would use the usual order of service, but omit the words “no lawful impediment”, “your lawful wife”, “your lawful husband” and “have been lawfully married”
“… because of my lack of religious beliefs, I wanted to be legally married in a civil ceremony. However, because of her positive [religious] beliefs, Miss Hudson wished for us to participate in some form of religious ceremony. I also wanted to be legally married in England, with my family present as most of them could not fly as far as South Africa. After discussion it was agreed between Miss Hudson and I that we would make enquiries to see whether it was possible to have a religious, but not legally binding, ceremony in Cape Town and then subsequently a civil legally binding marriage ceremony in England.”
“… I think only a handful of guests were aware that it was not intended that the marriage ceremony in Cape Town should have legal significance, but serve as one of two ceremonies, at the second of which we would sign a register.”
“… This Deed is made in contemplation of and is conditional upon the intended marriage of Mr Leigh and Miss Hudson on6th March 2004 . It is recorded that the parties intend to participate in a religious ceremony in Cape Town on 23.1.04”
“… I therefore proclaim Robert and Gillian that you be husband and wife together … those whom God has joined together, let no man divide”
“… we were both somewhat perplexed. We did not want to confuse the Registrar. We agreed that we would simply say that we had [had] a religious blessing, which did not amount to a marriage and we could therefore take the oath. Notwithstanding this I did feel bad saying it. It felt extremely dishonest and I was flushed and nervous as I was saying the oath.”
“… I treat this as an indication that the legislature did not intend strict compliance with the provision that a marriage be solemnised in a private dwelling house and that where, as in this case, the parties were competent to marry, that is there was not [sic] legal impediment to their marriage, the ceremony was performed by a marriage officer and all concerned bona fide intended and believed it to be a valid marriage, the objects of the Act have been achieved, despite the fact that the marriage was solemnised in the garden outside the house and not inside the house with open doors”
“… The question whether a marriage is void, voidable or valid presupposes the existence of an act allegedly creative of a marriage status. In concubinage and the like, no act of the requisite nature exists. In those places where a marriage requires a declaration before a registrar or priest, a private and secret declaration of consent does not create any kind of marriage, not even a void one …”; and on the following page: “… a void marriage is still a marriage in the sense that it has to be distinguished from the non-existent marriage or mere cohabitation of man and woman …”
“No action or other proceeding shall be open to objection on the ground that a merely declaratory judgment or order is sought thereby, and the Court may make binding declarations of right whether or not any consequential relief is or could be claimed”
“A non-existent marriage is a ceremony consciously and deliberately conducted by the parties, altogether outside the Marriage Acts (or the marriage laws applicable in the country in which the ceremony took place) where the parties never intended to create, or believed this would create, any recognisable marriage”
“… whether a reasonable person, without any specialist knowledge of the law of marriage, would consider that the ceremony was or might be a valid marriage according to the law of the relevant state.”
“No declaration may be made by any court whether under this part or otherwise (a) that a marriage was at its inception void…”
“… for the Act to have any application, the ceremony in our judgment … must be at least one which will prima facie confer the status of husband and wife on the two persons”
“… To draw a distinction between a non-marriage and a void marriage may seems artificial and elusive to the uninitiated – a class which until very recently included myself – but I am now convinced that the distinction exists …”
“… it is clearly necessary to have a concept of non-marriage…”
“…all concerned bona fide intended and believed it to be a valid marriage”