“These two young people have both looked me in the eye and repeatedly and vehemently denied hurting B. But, as the paternal grandmother said, someone has done it and someone knows what has happened. One of them has lied to me about this. The father admits lying about the sexual incident between him and the mother in March 2022. The parents have each blamed the other for the injuries, and I am satisfied that, however much they loved one another at one time, they would not hold back information now which would implicate the other, they would not protect one another. If either of them could give me clear evidence of harm being caused by the other, they would have done so…. The mother is clearly an attentive mother and attuned to B. The social work evidence supports this. It is clear that when she thought he was in pain, she was worried about him. The father by his own account handed over responsibility to the mother when he went back to work….”
“58. I have found this part of the case very difficult to make sense of. I have particularly struggled with the father's assertion that he knew he had not hurt B, but still wanted to explore it as a possibility, having heard of dissociative periods. It seems to me that he must at that stage at least have been having doubts, otherwise what was there to explore? However, I am now satisfied that there is no evidence of the father suffering any condition which might make this a plausible explanation for what happened to B. The paternal grandmother [and his doctors] have all rejected that possibility. 59. I do not accept that the father admitted to the mother causing the injuries. He may well have said that he did not believe she had done it, but I find that anything he said about himself was put only in the terms of a possibility. F confirms that this was the way he spoke to her. 60. I am also satisfied that the mother encouraged and promoted the further investigation of this issue of blackouts, both with the GP, and making sure that their respective legal teams were aware of it. 61. The father's actions were equally consistent with both exploring this possibility and also testing the waters for a reaction to a confession. I do not find that this episode helps me to come to a view as to which parent caused B's injuries. The question of who was manipulating whom in all of this depends on who actually caused the injuries. If the father did, then it could be that he was indeed trying dishonestly to find an easier and less damaging way to confess, and get the most positive outcome he could. In that situation it is entirely understandable that the mother would want to find out what had happened. If the mother caused the injuries, then it would be manipulative on her part to be encouraging the father to go on considering whether he had done it during a blackout.”
“During the night time the parents and B slept in the same bedroom. B had a crib attached to the mother's side of their bed. Generally he would be fed during the night with the feeding parent sitting in their bed and then he would be placed back in his crib. Bottles of milk needed to be fetched from downstairs. There is evidence of very occasionally B being cared for downstairs during the night, but that was not the norm.”
“The local authority submits that it is possible that the father caused the fractures in this period, saying specifically on the 25th. Ms Grief highlights on the 24th there was an escalation in crying, and the mother texting, "He's in pain again". On the 25th the father was alone for 40 to 45 minutes while the mother was out at a neighbour's. The father was frustrated that the mother took longer than expected to come back, and B was crying the whole time she was away, and he was then unsettled during that night.”
“Having considered all of these dates, it is apparent to me that the father had the opportunity to cause fractures in each of the radiological windows, but I remind myself again that opportunity and likelihood must not be conflated.”
“114. I have already said that I find that there is only one perpetrator in this case and that both of the parents have had the opportunity to cause the fractures in the relevant time windows. The question I have to answer is whether I can say that it is more likely than not that the perpetrator was one of the parents, and therefore not the other. 115. Neither of them has given evidence of hearing a sudden cry of pain from B. They talk about him crying a lot, and his crying escalating at times, and they thought he was in pain at times, but no identifiable difference in cry, to use Dr Chawla's expression, has been identified by either of them. 116. I am satisfied that sound travels in their home, to the extent that the type of cry Dr Chawla was describing when a baby suffers a fracture would be heard from room to room and upstairs to downstairs. I base this on the texts in which the parents say they can hear crying, and the other matters already referred to in this respect. That means that either one parent is withholding evidence of having heard such a cry from B while the other parent was caring for him, and I think this is unlikely given the cases that they have run, or the injuries happened when one parent was out or, as Ms Grief submits, asleep. 117. There are only four times when the father is actually alone with B, and 25 November is the only one that I find now to be relevant, this is when the mother went to her friend's house for 40 or 45 minutes. I have said that the father could have hurt B in that window of opportunity, but are there realistic opportunities when he could have caused the other injuries? The first rib fractures and the leg fractures are not, on the radiological evidence, caused on 25 November. 118. Looking firstly at the leg fractures, I am satisfied that B's leg was fractured by the time the family were in the nearby town on 5 December. Both parents noticed that bouncing in the pram on the cobbles seemed to be causing him pain. The father said in his evidence that B “just was not himself” on that trip, and that is even accounting for how much B usually cried. 119. The father had cared for B overnight on 3 December. On the balance of probabilities I find that this was in the main bedroom, changing and feeding him, with the mother in the room. I find that because that was the couple's usual practice. The father says that B was very unsettled that night, the mother says not, so I do not derive much help there. 120. I approach this issue with caution, and I remind myself of Ms Grief's warning about the Local Authority's argument based on whether or not the mother heard a cry. But I simply do not accept that this mother would have slept through B's reaction to having his leg fractured during that night. She had asked the father not to text her with information to go onto the app during the night because that woke her up. The mother is attuned to B's needs and moods. The cry of pain, which I am sure there would have been on the leg fracturing, and then the ensuing crying and distress until he settled, which Dr Chawla said would have been 30 minutes to two hours, that would have woken up the mother, I find, and she would have seen and heard how B was. 121. Even if B had been crying already, before the fracture was caused, I am satisfied that the pain cry would have woken the mother, but of course if he was already crying before that, it is less likely that she would have been asleep anyway. 122. B's leg would have been painful immediately the fractures were caused. Dr Chawla said it would be obvious something was wrong, with particular reference to decreased movement. The initial cry and the ensuing crying and distress would have caused the mother to check on B. She frequently got the father to bring B to her when he was crying. The pain that his leg was causing him would have been apparent immediately if his leg was moved or touched. 123. These are inferences I draw from the medical evidence, from the evidence about how the family had lived and cared for B, and the evidence about the mother as a parent. The same would apply if the father had fractured B's leg during the daytime that weekend. The mother would, I am satisfied on the balance of probabilities, have been aware and would tell me. The fact that there is no evidence of B being in such pain, in pain like Dr Chawla described, from the point when the father came home on 3 December, causes me to find on the balance of probabilities that he was not injured after the father came home. 124. I have, with some sadness, concluded that on the balance of probabilities, the mother caused the leg fractures on 3 December, before the father came home. This timing, I recognise, requires some extension of Dr Chawla's 72 and 48-hour timeframes, but only by a few hours, and that seems valid to me, given the variability of a child's reactions.”
“134. Having found that the mother caused the leg injuries, and that there is only one perpetrator in this case, it follows that I find that the mother caused the rib fractures also. I cannot say with certainty when within the radiological windows this happened, the mother had lots of time when she was alone caring for B in those periods. I agree with the Local Authority's submissions that the most likely dates would seem to be 14 to 15 November, and 25 to 26 November; the surrounding evidence supports this submission. The very stressful sleepless night on the 14th and the presentation of B on the 26th, crying whenever he or the mother moved, that sounds like presentation very likely to be because the 2nd set of rib fractures had occurred by then. “135. I have already set out and considered the evidence that Ms Grief argues goes against these findings. It is absolutely clear that the mother had a terrible night on 14 to 15 November, of the sort which could cause the most loving mother to lose control. The fact that B was relatively settled on the 15th and 16th does not mean that the fractures were not present. She says they had lots of sleep then and once he got to sleep and was still, then the pain of the rib fractures would not be so distressing for him, according to Dr Chawla's evidence. 136. I have accepted that the father also had the opportunity to cause fractures in the period 25 to 26 November, but that is not the same as it being likely that he did so. The period he was alone on the 25th while the mother was out, 40 to 45 minutes, I think it is unlikely in that period he would have become so stressed and frustrated as to lose control. Yes, B was crying for the whole of that time, and the father wanted to get on with sorting his work equipment, and he was cross that the mother was taking too long to come back, but in my estimation the evidence does not come close to showing that he lost control of himself and hurt B in that period.”
“…evidence cannot be evaluated and assessed in separate compartments. A judge in these difficult cases has to have regard to the relevance of each piece of evidence to other evidence and to exercise an overview of the totality of the evidence in order to come to the conclusion whether the case put forward by the local authority has been made out to the appropriate standard of proof.”