“I found the father to be a measured and sincere witness who gave evidence in clear and precise terms, albeit he became very emotional when speaking about A. I regret to observe that I found the mother to be a most unsatisfactory witness who lied to the court in key parts of her evidence.”
“the mother has serially lied in her evidence. I find no innocent explanation for these lies. She is, I find, a wholly unreliable witness who will tell lies with alacrity to achieve her objectives.”
“I consider it most likely, and find, that the father’s adverse reaction to the news of the second surrogacy so incensed and angered the mother that she sought to punish the father and/or exact revenge by: (i) making a false allegation of assault against the father to the police; and (ii) stopping all contact between A and his father, for no good or child focussed reason whatsoever.”
“He said he deeply regretted lying to the court and explained that he had only done so because of his shame that he had failed to reconcile with the mother. He said he did not want the world to know of his failure. A witness lying to the court can never be condoned, but: (i) I accept the father’s explanation; and (ii) I find that it does not undermine or negate my previous overall finding as to the father’s credibility.”
“It was submitted on behalf of the mother that she had accepted the findings of fact which I made in the judgment of17th April 2020 and that she wished to move forward with the father in the care of A. She now has the opportunity to demonstrate this resolve over the course of the intervening months before this matter returns to court when, hopefully, final orders will be made.”
“when someone knocks on my door I am worried it will be someone coming to inform me that my son has passed away”
“there is potential of this being a malicious call”
“I am very concerned that the importance of the police investigation is critical to my eldest son’s welfare.”
“I am concerned the two [family court] judgments … did not give an accurate account or true reflection to all the evidence the court had been provided during the court proceedings.”
“I now fear for A’s welfare and safety, as these concerns have been ignored by the family court proceedings” and “I am not happy with the outcomes of the family court, to this date. I do not believe that the judge has listened to my case fairly and that he has made his decisions based upon my ex-husband’s testimony and has not properly considered the evidential facts provided, including independent professional reports that my legal team have presented to him. I do not agree with their findings and I feel that the Judge has been biased throughout.”
“While [the mother] accepts that judgments have been made, she has continued to pursue her allegations relating to domestic abuse with the Police. She also made serious comments about A’s wellbeing which led the Police to undertake a welfare check, but they found absolutely nothing to substantiate her concerns. [The mother] shows little insight into the consequences of these actions, particularly the impact these were likely to have on her former husband and the implications for communication about A. [The father’s] position of wanting nothing to do with the twins has become more entrenched, and he does not want A to know of their existence until he is much older. The circumstances have cemented the breakdown of trust between [the parents]. The only way to achieve a more positive outcome for A is for his parents to change their behaviours, and this appears unlikely to happen in the foreseeable future. This severely limits the options. The attachment security and mental health needs of A need to be prioritised. The parental couple are each caught up in their own grievances about the other’s behaviour and unless they find a different way forward A will end up carrying these conflicts into the future, and this is likely to cause him emotional distress. A is likely to become increasingly aware of the chasm between his parents and this can be damaging, and potentially leads children to feel that they need to take sides. Assuming that [the mother] remains the legal resident parent for the twins, she is the mother (social, legal and psychological) of all three children in addition to [the father] being the genetic link between them, and it could be beneficial for A to develop a relationship with [the twins]. This requires that constructive safe and positive contact be supported by both parents. It does not appear that this can be provided by these parents now. [The father] does not take A to handovers and his decision to avoid any direct communication with [the mother] appears to be predominantly based on self-protection. If the rift between them continues they would be unable to talk together about how to handle A’s questions about his conception or that of the twins as he grows older. Furthermore, [the mother’s] actions give little confidence that she will reliably follow agreed decisions.”
“Mr Uddin, I think we have reached a stage in the case where I have to take a pragmatic approach. So the mother may give evidence remotely, subject to this caveat. If the technology does not work or we otherwise engage in difficulties with trying to receive the evidence remotely, it is going to have to be in person.”
“Six months have passed since that request was made. How much longer are the [X] Police Force proposing to give the mother before they send the papers to the CPS?”
“I wish to appeal the decision of the judge not to recuse himself as I feel that he has not conducted himself in an impartial way and has been biased in his comments and conduct throughout the hearings. He has made inappropriate comments to me such as previously calling me malicious and continued to call [me] a liar on many occasions, throughout the hearings. He has also pressurised and intimidated me for reporting my abuse to the police.”
“I feel that throughout the hearing I was treated unfairly, intimidated, interrogated for reporting to the police, bullied and the judge was not being impartial in his handling of the hearing. I feel that my ex-husband was treated differently during his cross-examination, with the judge even responding on his behalf on some parts and l was treated very negatively.”
“At this stage I have concerns that some of the narrative in the judgement does not accord with my recollection and notes. I therefore would like to know whether his lordship had the benefit of the transcripts when the judgement was drafted. I would also like to see copies of the transcripts before making my final editorial comments. I think it is both in the interest of justice and proportionate for the court to share the transcripts with the parties specially when “allegations” are levelled against me in the draft judgment which in my view appear to be inaccurate.”
“Therefore in my view it is essential for all counsel to have access to the transcripts before making editorial comments in view of the fact that the transcripts have been used when drafting the judgment.”
“she asserted that the court had ignored the concerns for A’s welfare and safety in the care of the father. She then said that the family case and the criminal investigation were two separate matters. For the purposes of the family proceedings she accepted the findings made in my two previous judgments – most pertinently that the allegations she had made against the father were false. However, for the purposes of the criminal proceedings she did not accept my findings, she asserted that those allegations which I had found to be false were true, she made further allegations against the father in respect of his care of A and she asserted that this court was biased against her.”
“129. When asked how she and the father could agree a narrative to be given to A when she believed in a different set of facts from the father (and having been asked this question five times) she eventually replied that she would have to accept the findings and judgements of this court. She continued that she would have to draw a line under past events and that she was willing to work with the father. 130. She was asked whether she accepted that the father did not pose a risk of harm to A. She agreed. This stance is completely contrary to many of the assertions and allegations made by the mother to the police ….”
“133. In light of the allegations the mother had made to the police about the father and the overall tenor of the mother’s evidence, the children’s guardian was asked how the mother could contribute to the narrative for A. She responded that the mother was a very child centred lady who could separate out her views from A’s best interests. I asked in what sense was the mother ‘child centred’ when she had commissioned a second surrogacy without the knowledge or consent of the father but using his genetic material and bringing two innocent children into this world, she could not provide any satisfactory answer. 134. If this view of the mother has informed the children’s guardian’s analysis of the issues in this case, the foregoing evidence completely undermines her assessment of the case and her recommendations.”
“There is but one caveat to enter and that relates to the twins. The father knows and acknowledges that he is their biological father, but he cannot yet see himself as a father figure to them. One cannot imagine the emotional and psychological impact on the father upon learning that, without his knowledge or consent, his genetic material had been used which resulted in the birth of two innocent children. His struggle to come to terms with what has happened and the fact that he is the father of twins is entirely understandable. It, however, clouds the father’s thinking and judgment on the issue of introducing A to his half siblings.”
“For the avoidance of any doubt my exchanges with Mr Uddin during the course of this hearing, which are set out above, and my observations upon his conduct have had no bearing whatsoever on my assessment of and findings about the mother and the evidence she gave to the court.”
“153. It is deeply troubling that the mother gave no indication that she recognised or understood the utter absurdity and illogicality of this stance. In my judgement this stance is cogent evidence of: i) the depth of the mother’s hatred of the father; ii) the zeal with which she has relentlessly conducted a campaign to vilify and denigrate the father irrespective of the adverse consequences for A; and iii) the fact that she has not moved on and that there appears to be little or no prospect of the mother changing her views or approach in the foreseeable future. 154. In my judgment, it is self-evident that if the mother persists in maintaining her false accounts of past events and if these are communicated to A it would be likely to confuse him and cause him to question which of his parents he should trust. This would inevitably cause him emotional and psychological harm. 155. I have no confidence that as A grows older that the mother would not refrain from communicating some or all of this false narrative. Indeed, on the totality of the evidence it is more likely than not that she would do so. 156. The mother said in evidence that if the CPS decided not to prosecute the father, she would accept this decision. Based on past events, I consider this to be highly unlikely.”
“169. The decision of the police to afford such latitude to the mother took no account of the adverse emotional and psychological stress upon the father of having an ongoing police investigation hanging over him, when he is the primary carer of A. Nor did it take any account that this court was awaiting the final outcome of this police investigation before it could make final welfare decisions and orders in respect in A. 170. The latitude given to the mother might, in other circumstances, be considered necessary and reasonable. On the facts of this case it was wholly unnecessary and wholly unreasonable. It has caused the father unwarranted and prolonged anxiety and it has delayed the conclusion of these proceedings. It will be for others to judge whether this police investigation was a meritorious or unmeritorious use of police time and of scarce public resources.”
“The frequency and duration of this contact will very much depend on the extent to which the mother accepts my findings and my decisions as set out in this judgment. It will also be informed by the mother’s reaction to and the stance adopted by her once the police investigation and any criminal proceedings have concluded.”
“The right to a fair trial, both under the common law andArticle 6 of the European Convention on Human Rights (the House of Lords in Lawal v Northern Spirit Limited[2003] UKHL 35 having confirmed that there is no difference between the requirements in each) includes the right to a trial and decision conducted and made by a decision-maker free not only from actual bias but also from the appearance of bias. Justice must both be fair and be seen to be fair.”
“The court must first ascertain all the circumstances which have a bearing on the suggestion that the judge was biased. It must then ask whether those circumstances would lead a fair-minded and informed observer to conclude that there was a real possibility that the judge was biased: see Porter v Magill[2001] UKHL 67 ;[2002] 2 AC 357 , paras 102-103.”
“The Appellant appeals on the sole ground that the Judge showed bias against the Appellant in the following instances: (1) By the Judge in calling the Appellant a liar on the19th August 2019 . (2) The Judge casting doubt on the Appellant’s medical diagnosis in early 2021. (3) Bullying, admonishing and threatening to report the Appellant’s counsel to the Bar Standard’s Board on the25th March 2021 . (4) Pressuring the Appellant for reporting the allegations of abuse to the Police. (5) The making of and not making of notes during the evidence. (6) Not allowing the Appellant to have regular breaks during the proceedings in August 2021. (7) Treating the Respondent father differently. (8) Bullying and threatening the Appellant’s counsel with the Bar Standards Board on the27th August 2021 . [(9)] Misinterpreting and giving a different narrative to the evidence given by the Respondent father and the Guardian at the hearing in August 2021.”
“97. The background to this application commenced at a directions hearing on25th March 2021 . Mr Uddin had filed and served a position statement on behalf of the mother. I considered a number of passages in this position statement to be rude and impertinent to the court. I raised this matter with Mr Uddin at the commencement of this directions hearing. I told counsel that I considered his position statement to be impertinent and impudent and that if I received a like position statement from him in the future, I would consider reporting him to the Bar Standards Board. 98. During the early part of the mother’s evidence there were occasions when she gave no or no satisfactory answer to questions. I told the mother what I had written down in my notebook in order to give her the opportunity to reflect on her evidence and to give a response. Mr Uddin objected to me taking this course of action and so I stopped doing so. 99. During the course of Mr Uddin’s cross examination of the children’s guardian he put a proposition to her which did not reflect her evidence. I raised the matter with Mr Uddin and in the exchange that followed there came a point when I considered he was being disrespectful. I told him so and invited him to continue with his cross-examination of the guardian. He did not do so. I repeated the request and on the final occasion I did so in an emphatic manner. He did not do so and, in terms, said I was bullying him. I told him that he was coming close to being reported to the Bar Standards Board in respect of his conduct in the hearing. 100. Shortly thereafter Mr Uddin made a personal statement to the court relating to my comment about a potential referral to the Bar Standards and the risk that the mother may, as a result, have lost confidence in him. He confirmed she had not. 101. It was against this background that Mr Uddin made his application for me to recuse myself. He relied essentially on three grounds: i) the manner in which I had treated him at the directions hearing referred to above and at this hearing; ii) that the mother considered I was biased against her and that any fair minded and informed observer would conclude that there was a real possibility that I was biased against the mother: Porter v Magill[2002] 2AC 357 ; and iii) that I had treated the mother unfairly. 102. I refused the application. In giving a short extempore judgement I said: “I have an application to recuse myself from this case made on behalf of the mother. I have well in mind the test to be applied from Porter v Magill, whether a fair-minded observer would consider that the court was biased. The application is essentially based on the mother’s perception that I am biased because I have made findings against her or I have held her to account to answers that she has not satisfactorily given to the court. That is no basis for recusing oneself. Reference was made by Mr Uddin to the occasions on a previous occasion and today when I had to admonish him for rude or offensive behaviour. I have only had to do that on one previous occasion in the twenty years that I have sat as a full-time or part-time judge. This application for me to recuse myself is utterly and totally without any merit whatsoever and it is refused. I note in so finding that the mother in the course of this case has perceived correspondence from the guardian to be a threat to stop her contact when no fair-minded person reading that document could possibly conclude. Therefore, her perception, it would appear, is skewed and is no basis for me to recuse myself after conducting this case for so many years. Application dismissed.” “I have an application to recuse myself from this case made on behalf of the mother. I have well in mind the test to be applied from Porter v Magill, whether a fair-minded observer would consider that the court was biased. The application is essentially based on the mother’s perception that I am biased because I have made findings against her or I have held her to account to answers that she has not satisfactorily given to the court. That is no basis for recusing oneself. Reference was made by Mr Uddin to the occasions on a previous occasion and today when I had to admonish him for rude or offensive behaviour. I have only had to do that on one previous occasion in the twenty years that I have sat as a full-time or part-time judge. This application for me to recuse myself is utterly and totally without any merit whatsoever and it is refused. I note in so finding that the mother in the course of this case has perceived correspondence from the guardian to be a threat to stop her contact when no fair-minded person reading that document could possibly conclude. Therefore, her perception, it would appear, is skewed and is no basis for me to recuse myself after conducting this case for so many years. Application dismissed.”
“If incontrovertible evidence is produced before or at the hearing that the mother did in fact undergo chemotherapy today and that she is suffering side effects which impair her ability to participate in the hearing, it may well be that I have no choice but to adjourn. But I am not prepared to make that decision today on the basis of the inadequate information today. I am further persuaded to take this course by the fact that I do not know for how long I would have to be adjourning. Could be many many months. I am not persuaded that that is in the best interest of the child.”
“given the circumstances of the mother, I do not consider it appropriate that she should have to yet again instruct other counsel. I am also concerned that given the reaction the mother has had to date from just taking a single course of chemotherapy as she has reported this morning, that if I list it in June, which is only three months away - just under three months - there is --- there must be a real risk that she will not be in a state of health where she could participate fairly in a hearing and I would face the prospect of having to adjourn the case off yet again, which would be well beyond August and would be into the new term in October. Accordingly, on the basis of the availability of counsel for the mother and taking a prudent and cautious approach as to the progress the mother is going to make, I think the safer course is to list in the August dates. I regret that causes yet further delay and I regret the adverse impact on the father but I would be more confident that we would be able to conclude the matter then than if we listed the case in June.”
“Judge: Why did you repeat your lies to the police? Counsel: Sorry, my Lord. Judge: Why did [the mother] repeat her lies to the police? Witness: Your Lordship, if you have a look at the welfare judgment that you made, you asked me specifically at a certain point, and it is documented in the welfare, did I lie about the second surrogacy and I answered to you and said “no” and you have documented that. You then asked me if I lied about the domestic assault and I said “no” and you then asked me about if I had lied about the domestic abuse, and I said “no”, and you have documented that in your welfare, and I also told the police that and they said, “Well, has anybody documented that you have said that to the judge?” and I said, “Yes, it has been documented in the welfare judgment”, but I cannot give that to them directly, the police have to request for them and, you know, when you made the final closing on that day, you did ask me those questions and I said to you, “I've never lied to the court at any point”
“I have written in my notebook that, once again, you have withheld material evidence from this court.”
“Counsel: My Lord, I note your Lordship’s comment about writing in your Lordship’s book certain things and it is a matter entirely for your Lordship as to what your Lordship writes in your Lordship’s book and what your Lordship does not write in your Lordship’s book, but my concern is this. We should never be selective about anything and that applies to my client, obviously, but the point that I am making is this. My client has been giving evidence and your Lordship has said, more than once, “I am writing this in my book, I am writing that in my book”
“Judge: It is an immensely simple question. Did you try and stop the police disclosing information to this court? Witness: In terms of asking what is the purpose of showing that information to the family court when the family court proceedings has already gone through the fact finding and the welfare, in that instance, yes. Judge: ---I will make a note in a minute that you are avoiding answering the question.”
“I think you have to separate out her narrative that she’s told the police, which she clearly believes to be the truth. It doesn’t necessarily follow that she’s going to use that narrative with A. Many, setting aside this particular situation, many, many victims of domestic abuse do not give that narrative to their children because even if that’s what they believe they would never want their children to be harmed in that way, to affect their relationship with the other parent. So, I don’t-- I think where you’re going with this is that she would necessarily give all of this information to A. I don’t think she would.”
“Counsel: ….again, if I misquote you, please correct me. I think you said no one could take away that feeling of being a victim from her. Do you remember that or something to that effect? Witness: Yes, I do. Counsel: Would you therefore agree with me that it is wrong for this court or anybody to weaponise that feeling and use it against her in these proceedings and in this-- in the (inaudible) these proceedings? Do you understand what I mean by that? Witness: Yes. I think-- maybe I need to separate out what I’m trying to say. I think it was wrong of [the mother] to use examples that this court found should not be evidenced. Some of her allegations-- well, all of her allegations, the court didn’t uphold those but that doesn’t take away how she may feel she was treated by her husband in day-to-day life and that’s okay to share that with whoever she believes is the relevant people to do that, to share it with, so I’m trying to separate it out. I don’t agree that she should have used those examples that the court didn’t uphold but if she believes she was emotionally/physically abused by her husband, then she has to do what she believes is right in that respect. Judge: Would you like to reflect on that? I have not only not upheld them. I have found all the allegations were false. Witness: Yes. Judge: Are you saying that she is therefore---- Witness: Yes, that’s correct. Judge: - free to go around repeating those false allegations? Witness: No, and if I didn’t express that in that way, then I should. I don’t think she can do that. I don’t think it’s right or proper but what I’m trying to say is there may be other examples of her experiences that she believes was a form of abuse and-- and that’s her belief and she-- no one can take that from her. I don’t think it’s right---- Judge: (inaudible) speculating (inaudible) other experiences the mother has that we have not been told about. Witness: I’m not speculating. I’m-- I am aware and I’m sure it’s in lots of documents that-- when she explains about her lived experience with her husband, so I don’t think it’s new information to the court. Judge: What other allegations of abuse are you referring to that the mother has made which were not the subject of court findings? Witness: Well, the mother talks about them having a lot of marital disputes to the extent they-- they went to see a counsellor. She talks about her husband being quite overpowering, shouting, being, in her view, controlling. Judge: Yes. I found---- Witness: So that’s a kind of---- Judge: --- (inaudible) allegations to be false. Have you not read the fact-finding judgment? Witness: Yes, I have. Judge: Then what other aspects of-- what circumstances of abuse has the mother referred-- talked to you about that were not considered by me in the fact-finding judgment? Witness: I don’t think there’s a specific allegation. I think it is more general, general in terms of what she would describe as controlling behaviour. Judge: I found that to be a false allegation. Are there any examples of the mother alleging abuse that were not the subject of the fact-finding judgment? Witness: Not that I can recall. Judge: No, so you are speculating when you say that there may be other matters. Witness: I guess that could be how it’s viewed. [The mother] may have other experiences that she’s not shared with-- with people either through the papers or through conversation. Judge: So you are speculating. You have no evidence on which to base the evidence you have just given? Witness: Okay. I accept that. Judge: Thank you.”
“Judge: What happens if the mother does not agree a narrative that is in keeping with the findings of fact that I have made both in the fact-finding judgment and the welfare judgment? Witness: Well I don’t think that contact can progress under those circumstances. Judge: Thank you.”
“How is he supposed to do that when he is facing a police investigation launched at the request of the mother?”
“The law operates a binary system in which the only values are 0 and 1. The fact either happened or it did not …. If the party who bears the burden of proof fails to discharge it, a value of 0 is returned and the fact is treated as not having happened. If he does discharge it, a value of 1 is returned and the fact is treated as having happened.”
“‘If there is some evidence that a litigant is unfit to attend, in particular if there is evidence that on medical grounds the litigant has been advised by a qualified person not to attend, but the tribunal or court has doubts as to whether the evidence is genuine or sufficient, the tribunal or court has a discretion whether or not to give a direction such as would enable the doubts to be resolved. Thus, one possibility is to direct that further evidence be provided promptly. Another is that the party seeking the adjournment should be invited to authorise the legal representatives for the other side to have access to the doctor giving the advice in question.”
“Judge: Yes, Mr Uddin? Counsel: May it please you Lordship, my Lord --- Judge: It does not please me, actually, because I consider your position statement to have been impertinent and impudent and I should tell you now that if you ever dare file a position statement like that before me again, I will consider reporting you to the Bar Standards Board. Do you understand? Counsel: Thank you, my Lord. My Lord, the position statement was done on instructions from my client Judge: Yes, I am sure it was.”
“I think we’re looking hopefully at a new chapter in this little boy’s life, one where he can resume a positive relationship with his mother and learn about his siblings. All of these things are really important for A, for his sense of identity. He must have suffered trauma and loss losing his mother out of his life and all of his extended family, to whom he was very close and, again, I’ve observed that personally on more than one occasion. So, to have that back in his life would just be so good for him and I think the CAFCASS officer could assist with that.”
“Counsel: Now, yesterday in evidence you said, and please correct me if you find me to (inaudible) in any way, that A did suffer trauma when he was moved away from [the mother] to the care of [the father] leaving behind---- Judge: If [the guardian] said that, I did not hear it. Counsel: Well, I did-- I prefaced it, my Lord, with the “If I have misquoted you, please correct me.”
“My Lord, if I may be permitted to make this personal statement which is recorded here, in these proceedings today was the second time your Lordship has threatened me with the Bar Standards Board and I am concerned whether my client is losing confidence in me and whether I can continue. However, having spoken to my client, she has not lost confidence in me. I will continue with this case but, my Lord, I totally appreciate these kind of cases are not easy for anyone concerned, even your Lordship. These are dealing with the souls of people and, my Lord, I am also a human being with blood and salt running through my veins and if there is another threat, my Lord, I am going to have to consider-- I totally accept, if I am in any way inappropriate, then your Lordship should admonish me so, on that basis of that understanding, my Lord, I am going to continue. I feel my client has not lost confidence in me and I can carry on. I just wanted to put this marker down, my Lord. May I continue?”
“Now, yesterday in evidence you said, and please correct me if you find me to (inaudible) in any way, that A did suffer trauma when he was moved away from [the mother] to the care of [the father] leaving behind …”
“What would you like my Lord to do, not-- for me not to even ask the question because your Lordship has not heard it?”