"The following persons are entitled to apply for a residence or contact order with respect to a child - ... (b) any person with whom the child has lived for a period of at least three years;"
"(4)(1) Where a child's father and mother were not married to each other at the time of his birth - (a) the court may, on the application of the father, order that he shall have parental responsibility for the child;"
"or a civil partner of" immediately after the words "is married to"
"Where the court makes a residence order in favour of any person who is not the parent or guardian of the child concerned that person shall have parental responsibility for the child while the residence order remains in force."
"35. Miss G is firmly entrenched in her view that as the biological mother, she considers that her wishes and feelings are being overlooked by the Court, allowing substantial contact between M, M and Ms W. Somewhat ironically, she promotes her new partner's active involvement in their day to day care and I would suggest that in the future, M and M could become increasingly confused about their own identity and how significant adults fit into their lives. Ms G's domestic arrangements and confirmation that M and M are happily settled at school and nursery, suggests that a substantial change of arrangements would not be in their interest at present. However I would suggest that the importance and value of Ms W's role in their lives needs to be acknowledged. The current law, whilst recognising same sex relationships, stops short of granting parental responsibility unless a joint residence order is made. I would suggest that such a move would help to ensure that M and M grow up with a better chance of understanding the complexity of their own identity and should not be seen as detracting from Ms G's role, as their main carer."
"I would suggest to the Court that there should be an Order for Ms W and Ms G to share joint residence of M and M and that alternate weekend contact from Friday to Monday ... should continue."
"I must inevitably conclude that the proposed move must in part be deliberately designed to frustrate the current contact arrangements."
"Having read and heard all the evidence I regret to say that having considered this matter very carefully indeed and the children's welfare being my paramount consideration, I cannot accept Ms Barrow's recommendation for joint residence order which would give Ms W parental responsibility. In my view such a sharing of parental responsibility would result in endless disputes between the parties which may require the Court's intervention to resolve issues of education, accommodation, elective medical procedures and so forth which could not be in the long term interests of these children. A recent consultation document from CAFCASS encourages its officers to consider shared residence orders where parental cooperation and practical circumstances allow and it appear to be in the child's interests. This does not seem to me to be such a case."
"... Miss W is a significant figure in their lives and that her important place both historically and in the future can be maintained and reinforced by good quality frequent contact. That in turn can be achieved by a defined contact order which will largely encompass Ms W's contact proposals."
"With respect to the parents, Mr A and Mrs A, a virtual state of war had been going on for over 5 years. It appeared that the first response of both parents in the event of even the most minor disagreement was to rush to solicitors or to make applications to the court."
"If these parents were capable of working in harmony, and there were no difficulties about the exercise of shared parental responsibility, I would have followed Mrs P's advice and made no order as to residence.Section 1(5) of the Children Act 1989 requires the court to make no order unless making an order is better for the children concerned than making no order at all. Here, the parents are not, alas, capable of working in harmony. There must, accordingly, be an order. That order, in my judgment, requires the court not only to reflect the reality that the children are dividing their lives equally between their parents, but also to reflect the fact that the parents are equal in the eyes of the law, and have equal duties and responsibilities towards their children."
"... wherever possible, the law should confer on a concerned father that stamp of approval because he has shown himself willing and anxious to pick up the responsibility of fatherhood and not to deny or avoid it."
"... the presence of children is a relevant factor in deciding whether a relationship is marriage-like but if the couple are bringing up children together, it is unlikely to matter whether or not they are the biological children of both parties. Both married and unmarried couples, both homosexual and heterosexual, may bring up children together. One or both may have children from another relationship: this is not at all uncommon in lesbian relationships and the court may grant them a shared residence order so that they may share parental responsibility. The lesbian couple may have children by donor insemination who are brought up as the children of them both: it is not uncommon for each of them to bear a child in this way. ... 143. It follows that a homosexual couple whose relationship is marriage-like in the same ways that an unmarried heterosexual couple's relationship is marriage-like are indeed in an analogous situation. Any difference in treatment is based upon their sexual orientation."