“I have always informed HMRC of my situation and I am in no way in a relationship with my ex-partner. I am actually currently in a[nother] relationship but do not live with him. I sleep in a separate bed to my ex-partner and do not cook for him nor do we go out as a couple. I have been unable to leave the property due to financial restraints and it is not an ideal situation for any of us.”
“a man and woman who are married to each other and are neither— (i) separated under a court order, nor (ii) separated in circumstances in which the separation is likely to be permanent.”
‘4. Under Income Support Regulations “a couple” are stated to be members of the same household. In CIS/671/1992 – there is reference to the existence of “communality, something that can be identified as a domestic establishment.” Although the latter case referred to Income Support issues, the Tribunal accepted that it was likely that there would be a lack of communality if they were separated in circumstances likely to be permanent, and that Income Support definitions are applicable in the present case. 5. The Tribunal considered the nature of the domestic arrangements, and concluded that Mr and Mrs G were not living separately, there was a communality within the domestic arrangements. It is accepted that Mr and Mrs G had separate bedrooms. He often cooked for himself but would on occasion eat a meal Mrs G had cooked if there was something remaining. He sat on the sofa in the only living room. Mrs G stated that she sat opposite him or would go upstairs. There were a few family events with their two children, aged 16 years and 18 years, and they went to social events with Mr G and other friends at the Rugby Club. They went on holiday together with their children each summer in a caravan in France. Mr and Mrs G had a joint mortgage and bank account. Mr G paid all the household bills, although they had been sharing payments since the beginning of 2011. Mrs G paid all food costs. 6. Mrs G told the Tribunal she was having another relationship, and submitted a letter from the person concerned which the Tribunal accepted. 7. Having considered all the evidence, the Tribunal agreed that there was not a separation. There was a communality, a type of domestic establishment. The relationship between Mr and Mrs G was clearly poor, but probably for the sake of the children, and for convenience of running only one household there was a domestic establishment. There was a sharing of events such as holidays, occasional social events, and some living accommodation, and a sharing of responsibilities such as payment of bills and mortgage. 8. The Tribunal noted Mrs G’s attempts to obtain a legal separation. This indicated her dissatisfaction with the current arrangements, however the arrangements during the relevant period did not demonstrate that Mr and Mrs G were separated, and did not at the time indicate what arrangement was to become permanent.’
“(5A) In this Part “couple” means— (a) a man and woman who are married to each other and are neither— (i) separated under a court order, nor (ii) separated in circumstances in which the separation is likely to be permanent, (b) a man and woman who are not married to each other but are living together as husband and wife, (c) two people of the same sex who are civil partners of each other and are neither— (i) separated under a court order, nor (ii) separated in circumstances in which the separation is likely to be permanent, or (d) two people of the same sex who are not civil partners of each other but are living together as if they were civil partners.”
“18. While each case must turn on its own facts, it is important to bear in mind that married couples do not separate unless there have been serious problems in their relationship, or other problems, such that continuing to live together becomes unacceptable for at least one member of that couple. Before any conclusion can be drawn other than that the separation is likely to be permanent, the tribunal must consider why the separation has occurred, and what indications there are that the couple may be reconciled. Even then, after balancing those indications against any contra-indications, the tribunal must conclude that there is at least a 50 per cent chance of a reconciliation before it can conclude that a single claimant and his or her spouse are to be treated as a married couple. It is unlikely that such a reconciliation will occur before the parties have taken steps to deal with the problems that led to the separation in the first place, and have actually begun the process of arranging to live together again. A tribunal should be slow to differ from the claimant’s own genuine assessment of the likelihood of a reconciliation, although, of course, that is a subjective assessment and the tribunal is not bound by it.”
“6. Section 3(5A)(a)(ii) does not expressly refer to the need for ‘a household’, but in my view, the determination of whether a couple is sharing a household is implicit in determining whether they are separated or living together as a married couple. This follows from well known principles in family law cases in which couples have been held to live apart (and therefore separately) despite living under the same roof. The importance of a household is mirrored in social security legislation, including regulation 2 of theIncome Support (General) Regulations 1987 , for example. While the language varies from context to context, the nature of a couple is closely allied to the existence of a household bound by a particular kind of tie ( Santos v Santos[1972] 2 All ER 246 at 255).”
“Example - joint claim, married couple A married couple with children have grown apart and rarely spend time together. He eats most of his evening meals at the pub but still lives in the family home and occasionally contributes towards the household bills. They decided not to separate until their children have grown up so they should make a joint claim as they are still married and not separated legally or in circumstances where the separation is likely to become permanent.”
“Example - married couple, separated A married couple whose relationship has broken down continue to live in the same house as they are currently unable to sell it and neither can afford to rent or buy other accommodation. In the meantime they live separate lives, no longer socialise together and their friends do not consider them to be a couple. They continue to jointly pay some household bills but pay for their own food and other personal items. They haven’t yet started divorce proceedings but do not intend to resume living together as husband and wife. Despite living in the same house, they should no longer claim jointly from when they became separated in circumstances likely to be permanent.”