"In circumstances where there is a significant attachment between a child and her birth parents, where post adoption contact is in the best interests of the child, but it cannot be established that there will be post adoption contact, is the court required to take those issues into account when deciding, for the purposes of making an order under article 18 of theAdoption (Northern Ireland) Order 1987 : (a) whether adoption is in the best interests of the child; and (b) whether the parents are unreasonably withholding their consent to their child being adopted?"
"It is my overall view that [Nina] has attachments of some significance to her parents and that she greatly enjoys and benefits from contact. In spite of her interrupted parenting, and the fact that she is being parented for 24 hours a day by foster parents, she has retained and/or developed significant attachments to her parents. This could be attributed to some positive parenting when mother was not drunk and to the frequency of contact sessions. She also has a heightened awareness of who they are and in spite of her very young age, they could not be easily excised from her life without leaving psychological scars."
"At the same time I should stress that [Nina's] attachments to her parents are significantly stronger than estimated by the Trust's staff and I do not recommend excising them from her life. In the event of her being adopted she should have 3-4 annual face-to-face contact meetings with her parents."
"satisfied that the need for adoption for this child is so pressing that whilst it would be preferable that some limited measure of post adoption contact should be established if possible nonetheless adoption must proceed even if this cannot be achieved. Otherwise both parents could operate a veto on adoption by behaving so badly that no one would agree to post adoption contact."
"Whilst it is inappropriate for me to look at the question of contact post adoption until this child comes before the court for adoption, I feel it is appropriate that I should say that I accept entirely the view expressed by Professor Triseliotis that it is important that if at all possible this child should have the benefit of continued contact with both parents at the frequency suggested by Professor Triseliotis. . . . If these birth parents can accept the new position and help this child to settle down without undermining the placement, I believe this can be of great assistance to this child now and in the future. . . . I also sincerely hope that the prospective adoptive parents when they are chosen will be carefully counselled as to the views of Professor Triseliotis concerning the benefits of post adoption contact but obviously if after all reasonable efforts have been made by the Trust for a period of six months or so, and no such couple can be found, then I am of the opinion that the benefits of adoption will outweigh the benefits of post adoption contact."
"Where, on an application by an adoption agency, an authorised court is satisfied in the case of each parent or guardian of a child that his agreement to the making of an adoption order should be dispensed with on a ground specified in article 16(2) the court shall make an order declaring the child free for adoption."
"No application shall be made under paragraph (1) unless - (a) the child is in the care of the adoption agency; and (b) the child is already placed for adoption or the court is satisfied that it is likely that the child will be placed for adoption."
"In deciding on any course of action in relation to the adoption of a child, a court or adoption agency shall regard the welfare of the child as the most important consideration and shall - (a) have regard to all the circumstances, full consideration being given to - (i) the need to be satisfied that adoption, or adoption by a particular person or persons, will be in the best interests of the child; and (ii) the need to safeguard and promote the welfare of the child throughout his childhood; and (iii) the importance of providing the child with a stable and harmonious home; and (b) so far as practicable, first ascertain the wishes and feelings of the child regarding the decision and give due consideration to them, having regard to his age and understanding."
"4.14. There has been an increasing tendency in recent years to favour maintaining some contact between an adopted child and his birth family where possible. This may in part reflect the increased average age of children being adopted, and in suitable cases a degree of such contact may well be desirable. However, the Government considers that once an adoption order is made, the most important objective is to support the new family relationship. 4.15. Where the birth parents wish to maintain direct contact, provided there is free consent by the child and the new family, this should generally be allowed. If the adoptive parents oppose the prospect, their views should have the greater weight though where older children are adopted out of families with whom they have formed a bond the issues need particularly careful judgment and the child's view will be correspondingly significant. 4.16. Each case must be considered on its merits and there can be no central blueprint. By regulation, the Government intends to ensure that the courts and adoption agencies will assess the most suitable arrangements for contact between the birth family and the child after his adoption."
"The effect of an order freeing a child for adoption is to extinguish parental responsibility of those previously endowed with it and thus to bring to an end the relationship between the child and his natural family (seeAdoption Act 1976, section 12(3) ). The child is in a sort of adoptive limbo and parental responsibility is assumed by the adoption agency, in this case, the local authority (section 18(5)). The parents become former parents, sections 18(5), 19 and have no right to make an application undersection 8 of the Children Act 1989 ."
"to find out if a child would be available for adoption before prospective adopters were found and their hopes frustrated if the adoption court ruled that consent was not being unreasonably withheld."
"shall regard the welfare of the child as the most important consideration and shall - (a) have regard to all the circumstances, full consideration being given to - (i) the need to be satisfied that adoption, or adoption by a particular person or persons, will be in the best interests of the child; and (ii) the need to safeguard and promote the welfare of the child throughout his childhood; and (iii) the importance of providing the child with a stable and harmonious home; and (b) so far as practicable, first ascertain the wishes and feelings of the child regarding the decision and give due consideration to them, having regard to his age and understanding."
"(1) An adoption order is an order giving parental responsibility for a child to the adopters, and such an order may be made by an authorised court on the application of the adopters. (2) The order does not affect parental responsibility so far as it relates to any period before the making of the order. (3) The making of an adoption order operates to extinguish - (a) the parental responsibility which any person has for the child immediately before the making of the order; (b) any order of a court under theChildren (Northern Ireland) Order 1995 ; (c) any duty arising by virtue of an agreement or the order of a court to make payments, so far as the payments are in respect of the child's maintenance or upbringing for any period after the making of the order."
"(1) An adoption order shall not be made unless - (a) the child is free for adoption by virtue of an order made in Northern Ireland under article 17(1) or 18(1), made in England and Wales undersection 18 of the Adoption Act 1976 (freeing children for adoption in England and Wales) or made in Scotland undersection 18 of the Adoption (Scotland) Act 1978 (freeing children for adoption in Scotland); or (b) in the case of each parent or guardian of the child the court is satisfied that - (i) he freely, and with full understanding of what is involved, agrees - (aa) either generally in respect of the adoption of the child or only in respect of the adoption of the child by a specified person, and (ab) either unconditionally or subject only to a condition with respect to the religious persuasion in which the child is to be brought up, to the making of an adoption order; or (ii) his agreement to the making of the adoption order should be dispensed with on a ground specified in paragraph (2)."
"It was thought at first that her legs were bruised but it transpired that they were simply covered with dirt. When they were washed they discovered she had eczema on her legs and bottom. She also had what [a social worker] described as the worst case of head lice infestation she had ever seen in a young child."
"'Clearly the likelihood of H not experiencing a de-stabilisation of her support networks or the onset of insurmountable pressures from the present day to the time N achieves independence is extremely unlikely. If one examines closely the periods in the past that H relapsed to a state of alcohol dependence it is probable that there was a critical shift in the dynamics of her life and hence the periods of abstinence were not dependent solely upon her level of determination or commitment to avoid alcohol but rather her ability to cope with aversive external and internal negative influences.'"
"I have come to the conclusion that in this instance the medical evidence, and in particular that of Dr Bownes, has convinced me that there is no realistic possibility of H continuing to remain abstinent during N's childhood. Given the troubled background of this child and the damage that she has sustained to date, I am of the view that a further breakdown in this child's attachment would be catastrophic and that no court could reasonably expose her to that catastrophic risk given the history of this case. I have concluded that the only way to safeguard and promote the welfare of this child throughout her childhood and provide her with a stable and harmonious home is through the avenue of adoption."
"It was argued that the reasonable hypothetical parents in this instance would be justified in withholding consent until they could be assured that any prospective adoptive parents chosen would agree to post adoption contact and that the Trust should have taken steps to identify such a couple before proceeding with this application. I reject that proposition. I am satisfied that the need for adoption for this child is so pressing that whilst it would be preferable that some limited measure of post adoption contact should be established if possible nonetheless adoption must proceed even if this cannot be achieved. Otherwise both parents could operate a veto on adoption by behaving so badly that no one would agree to post adoption contact. The crucial difference between the present case and the fact specific authorities to which Mr Hutton drew my attention eg. In re P (Adoption: Freeing Order)[1994] 2 FLR 1000 and In re C (Minors) (Adoption)[1992] 1 FLR 115 , is that I share the view of Professor Tresliotis that if all reasonable efforts to find a couple who will embrace post adoption contact fail then the circumstances of the historical events of the past still make it imperative that the adoption should proceed. Any reasonable parent in my view would readily understand that. This is not inconsistent witharticle 8 of the ECHR but rather a careful consideration of the rights of this child as well as the rights of the adults."
"If it is a question of such a finely balanced judgment over contact are the advantages of adoption to the welfare of N sufficiently strong to justify overriding the views of her parents? The judge was satisfied that the need for adoption was so pressing that whilst it would be preferable to have some limited measure of post adoption contact, nonetheless adoption must proceed even if this cannot be achieved. The reasonable parent, faced with this decision and with the welfare of N in mind, would in my view be driven to this conclusion. Accordingly I would affirm the judge's decision and dismiss the appeal."
"[11] In the instant case H has managed to stay off alcohol since July 2003 without the benefit of any counselling and has also been regularly attending Alcoholics Anonymous with favourable reports therefrom. There has been no domestic violence since July 2003 and she has been reconciled with her mother. N has strong attachments to both of her parents, particularly her mother, both of whom faithfully attend contact with N limited though that is at present to once a month. [12] In the present case if the court does not free N for adoption, the care order will remain in place for the time being. [13] In my opinion it cannot be said that N's parents are withholding their consent unreasonably to her being freed for adoption."
"… the test is reasonableness and not anything else. It is not culpability. It is not indifference. It is not failure to discharge parental duties. It is reasonableness, and reasonableness in the context of the totality of the circumstances. But, although welfare per se is not the test, the fact that a reasonable parent does pay regard to the welfare of his child must enter into the question of reasonableness as a relevant factor. It is relevant in all cases if and to the extent that a reasonable parent would take it into account. It is decisive in those cases where a reasonable parent must so regard it."
"A reasonable mother surely gives great weight to what is better for the child. Her anguish of mind is quite understandable; but still it may be unreasonable for her to withhold consent. We must look and see whether it is reasonable or unreasonable according to what a reasonable woman in her place would do in all the circumstances of the case."
"What, in my understanding, is required is for the court to ask whether the decision, actually made by the father in his individual circumstances, is, by an objective standard, reasonable or unreasonable. This involves considering how a father in the circumstances of the actual father, but (hypothetically) endowed with a mind and temperament capable of making reasonable decisions, would approach a complex question involving a judgment as to the present and as to the future and the probable impact of these upon a child."
"I recognise that the reasonableness of the parents' refusal to consent must be judged at the time of the hearing and I am doing that. I have taken into account all the circumstances of the case. I have recognised that whilst the welfare of the child must be taken into account it is not the sole or necessary paramount criterion. I have applied an objective test in the case of each parent. I have recognised that the test is reasonableness and nothing else. I have been wary not to substitute my own view for that of the reasonable parent. I recognise that there is a band of reasonable decisions each of which may be reasonable in any given case."
"I believe that if the court comes to the conclusion, when examining the decision at first instance, that there is so blatant an error in the conclusion that it could only have been reached if the judge below had erred in his method of decision - sometimes called the balancing exercise - then the court is at liberty to interfere; but that, if the observation of the appellate court extends no further than that the decision in terms of the result of the balancing exercise was one with which, they might, or do, disagree as a matter of result, then that by itself is not enough, and that falls short of the conclusion, which is essential, that the judge has erred in his method."