“Subject to the provisions of this Convention, persons domiciled in a State bound by this Convention shall, whatever their nationality, be sued in the courts of that State.”
“[48] The connecting criteria referred to … must therefore be adapted in such a way that the person who has suffered an infringement of a personality right by means of the internet may bring an action in one forum in respect of all of the damage caused, depending on the place in which the damage caused in the European Union by that infringement occurred. Given that the impact which material placed online is liable to have on an individual's personality rights might best be assessed by the court of the place where the alleged victim has his centre of interests, the attribution of jurisdiction to that court corresponds to the objective of the sound administration of justice, referred to in para 40 above. [49] The place where a person has the centre of his interests corresponds in general to his habitual residence. However, a person may also have the centre of his interests in a member state in which he does not habitually reside, in so far as other factors, such as the pursuit of a professional activity, may establish the existence of a particularly close link with that state. [52] Consequently… article 5(3) of the Regulation must be interpreted as meaning that, in the event of an alleged infringement of personality rights by means of content placed online on an internet website, the person who considers that his rights have been infringed has the option of bringing an action for liability, in respect of all the damage caused, either before the courts of the member state in which the publisher of that content is established or before the courts of the member state in which the centre of his interests is based. That person may also, instead of an action for liability in respect of all the damage caused, bring his action before the courts of each member state in the territory of which content placed online is or has been accessible. Those courts have jurisdiction only in respect of the damage caused in the territory of the member state of the court seised.”
“…what the court is endeavouring to do is to find a concept not capable of very precise definition which reflects that the plaintiff must properly satisfy the court that it is right for the court to take jurisdiction. That may involve in some cases considering matters which go both to jurisdiction and to the very matter to be argued at the trial, e.g. the existence of a contract, but in other cases a matter which goes purely to jurisdiction, e.g. the domicile of a defendant. The concept also reflects that the question before the court is one which should be decided on affidavits from both sides and without full discovery and/or cross-examination, and in relation to which therefore to apply the language of the civil burden of proof applicable to issues after full trial is inapposite. … It is also right to remember that the "good arguable case" test, although obviously applicable to the ex parte stage, becomes of most significance at the inter partes stage where two arguments are being weighed in the interlocutory context which, as I have stressed, must not become a "trial." "Good arguable case" reflects in that context that one side has a much better argument on the material available. It is the concept which the phrase reflects on which it is important to concentrate, i.e. of the court being satisfied or as satisfied as it can be having regard to the limitations which an interlocutory process imposes that factors exist which allow the court to take jurisdiction.”
“I want you to consider what lies you have told. You have lied to your family about me; to immigration in America and [State B]; to the tax man. I am never going to blackmail you and don’t want you to give me any money. But you should know that if you blow this up in my face it could hurt you as much as it hurts me. I am much more concerned about my family’s welfare than any penalty I might face. Your family will come to know about my existence for ten years; your tax records would be examined; your immigration applications and so on. I am not the only one who has told lies… I know that you won’t to be (sic) with me any more. You’ve not wanted to be for years. I will leave your life for good. If you want to build a family, live happily ever after, I won’t stop you or interfere. But please don’t destroy me or hurt my family in the process…. I want you to understand why it happened. I want you to give me a chance to make the settlements as I initially proposed using my own money. This can happen quickly. I want you not to inform my family or involve them in any of this. I don’t care what happens to me but I can’t hurt my mother. If you don’t want to give me that chance, then let me go back, visit a police station and make a report about everything, absolving you of anything to do with it. It’s your choice. I am able to contain this situation and so are you. I suppose in reality I need a different life as much as you do. None of this was sustainable. I beg you to give me the chance I’ve asked for.”
‘I’m sorry I had to spoil it with lies and deceit over money. You’re my only friend. And now I’m alone again. I’m sorry’
“I think there are some things you are going to have to understand before you make choices that destroy people’s lives. I’m sorry you feel hurt and betrayed but please just read.”
“We have the capacity to resolve this issue; but you have no willingness to do so. I feel your anger and desire to punish me is causing you to make poor judgments…. You could have chosen to fix this problem. There was a lawful solution. The numbers don’t really matter. Instead you’re choosing to make it bigger – with the risk of unintended consequences. I don’t think it’s the right choice – for me or for you. It’s a totally unnecessary step into the dark. I think you should reconsider. I’ve already lost you. I have nothing else to lose.”
“I came to [State B] because I wanted my friend back. I needed you to stop ignoring me, lying to me, to end the cruelty and to stop having sex with men. I wanted to forgive you, to be friends, to spend time together again – and truly hoped you would have the sense to do the same. That was all I wanted. I don’t really feel I achieved my goal – and I didn’t really expect to – but I know I tried as hard as I could. We used to be so close and I feel pain every single day that we’re not anymore. I desperately needed your help last year when you left me homeless. I struggled because of your hatred and cruelty. You have no idea how close I came to losing my life. I am not going to make a specific demand of you and give you the opportunity to call it blackmail – but I will be clear it is not right to leave someone without a penny after a ten year relationship. It just isn’t right. When I go back to England I have no home to go to and a lawsuit from my landlord to deal with. ….. If the definition of insanity is to keep doing the same thing again and again expecting different results – then it’s insane to visit [State B] to sit around for two weeks in case you decide to make time for me – so I’ll have to stay somewhere instead. I don’t have money to waste. You should have used this opportunity to put things right between us. I would have accepted you getting married and building a family – but I won’t be buried.”
“…As for the money – every single time I have asked for your help it’s because I have needed it. We were in a relationship for ten years and you left me homeless, broke and suicidal. I accept that if I didn’t depend on your [sic] so much when we were together I wouldn’t have been in that situation – but that didn’t change what happened. I still have no home to go back to and a lawsuit from my landlord to deal with that I can’t afford to pay. Of course, in the long term I’ll work something out – I’m really not stupid – but I wish you could have helped. It would have made a real difference and I would have been grateful. … I took a gamble coming here. It cost me everything I have. I think it was worthwhile going to the wedding and reaching out to you. I had to leave earlier than planned because I can’t afford to stay here. I’ll be gone in four days. I truly wish you would use that time to understand where I’m coming from and make peace with me. Please.”
“I do not have any accommodation to return to. I don’t have the ability to set up a home in the places where it’s easiest for me to find employment. Realistically, I need at the very least£1200 or so to pay a first month’s deposit and rent. If you were able to lend me£2400 so that I could pay for these things I could repay you£200 a month out of what I earn for 12 months…. I’m aware that if I didn’t come here things could have been slightly easier but I don’t regret it. The situation between us was really hurting me and I needed to come to try to fix things.”
“I asked you for an apology and for you to stop seeing other men. I was hardly being unreasonable. I need you to acknowledge the things you’ve done to me. Sadly, it’s a long list: your persistent lack of care for me when you knew I was vulnerable; cheating on me with [KK] and the men online; denying my existence to everyone for over ten years; your part in the financial mess I was forced into in Lexington; turning me away from the home we shared in [State B]; leaving me homeless; refusing to help me when I was in danger; meeting men for sex when my life was falling apart; pushing me towards suicide; the completely insane hatred and cruelty you subjected me [sic] this past eighteen months. Words don’t even fully capture how much hurt you’ve caused me. I didn’t deserve to be treated that way. Not at all …. You kept me a secret – that gave you enormous power over my life and left me totally without security. That is the root cause of my problems. Would you have treated me that way if other people knew? I don’t think you would. No-one would have let you …. I gave up my education and opportunities – partly to be with you when you were always on the move building your career and partly because I couldn’t cope on my own. I am struggling to put the pieces together because my whole adult life was about being with you. … I can’t tolerate you having sex with other men. It fills me with rage. For you to cast aside after ten years, destroy my life, and then imagine you can replace me with another boy is deeply, deeply hurtful. You spoke – when you didn’t realise you were chatting to me – about meeting someone special and trying to build a future with another man. That will be over my dead body… It’s just the way it is. I do want all the names and contact details of these sluts you’ve met – especially the ‘special’ one. I probably won’t do anything so it certainly isn’t going to be worth it for you to protect them. I was seriously doing you a big favour – honestly and with the best of intentions and good will – by promising not to interfere in your relationship with [KK] (if there even is one). You see, I truly do not want you back because you’ve done too much to hurt me deliberately. I wouldn’t have denied you having a family because I think it would bring you some happiness. But you have to be realistic that it’s not something you can achieve successfully if you don’t make peace with me and stop seeing other men. [X and Y] have invited me to Bali for ten days in March. She’s pregnant and they have asked me to be the godfather. I’ll be in [State B] at the start of April for about two weeks. I should be able to give you most of the money I owe you by then. I hope you use the opportunity to spend time with me and stop treating with me contempt [sic]. If I haven’t received a true apology by then I there’s [sic] no point seeing you when I come. I can’t threaten you into an apology. It’s worthless if you don’t mean it – but you’ve had long enough to think about it. If you insist on seeing other men or refuse to promise that you’ve stopped – then you will be deliberately hurting me, provoking me and this time you really won’t get away with it.”
“… I want you to stop having sex with men and to end all contact with those you’ve been meeting. I’m not changing my position on it. The only thing that will end my pain is if you stop. I think you are making a serious mistake if you carry on. You are destroying your friendship with me and risking your own future happiness. I’m not going to drop it. I won’t be buried. Do not test me.”
“I’m still waiting for an apology. You are testing my patience and severely underestimating you strongly held my grievances are [sic].”
“What did all this abuse, anger, hatred get you in the end? You almost destroyed your best friend so now you think you have the freedom to invite diseased sluts around to [address]? It’s utterly shameful that you left me homeless and without a penny after a ten-year relationship – yet have spent millions on an apartment. I haven’t demanded money from you – I don’t need it or want it. I am all too aware that you’d love to accuse me of blackmail. I don’t trust you. I know you’d throw me under a bus if you had the chance. You will never be in a position to threaten me. You are dishonest, hateful and cruel. You only get away with the things you’ve done because you manage to keep it a secret. I’m not entire sure [sic] why I allow that. …. You made a terrible choice when you set yourself against me. There was a time when I had given you a kidney if you needed one [sic] – now, I don’t care what happens to you. I am not afraid of letting others judge what you have done. I have learned too much about your true nature to want to be your friend. I could never trust you. But I would like you to acknowledge what you did to me. I would like you to sincerely apologise. I would like you to stop whoring yourself out to men. I want the names and contact details of the many men you’ve been meeting. I want you to drop the hate and start acting like a decent human being. That’s what it would take for me to find peace and to forgive you. I would rather forgive you but it isn’t going to happen until you accept your behaviour was completely out order [sic]. I will not let you bury what you have done to me…”
“You have made no acknowledgement and given no apology for the hell you have out me through. You have given no indication that you will ever change. You are immune to reason. You clearly have so much hate inside you. I offered you forgiveness and peace. Honestly, I don’t want hatred in my life. I never sought to be your enemy. I did everything possible to make peace with you and you offered me nothing but cruelty in return. I won’t let you get away with what you’ve done. It was absolutely monstrous and has done so much damage to me. …..You encouraged me to kill myself. You bullied me, threatened me, subjected me to an onslaught of cruelty and abuse. You set out to destroy me. You did this knowing I was a vulnerable person and absolutely distraught. I have no doubt whatever that you were trying to force me to take my own life because you would have been able to keep your lies a secret. It was out of order and I am determined not to let it drop. Don’t underestimate my resolve and that even from the other side of the world – I can hold you to account…. I cannot forgive you until you change how you’re dealing with me …. This hatred and deliberate cruelty was a terrible choice to have made and I don’t think that either of us know what the consequences are going to be.”
“I have done everything I could to make peace with you. A year ago I was so hopeful that things would be okay. I know I had tried my best. How could I have done more? I wanted peace and forgiveness between us. Discovering you were whoring yourself to men again in December broke my heart all over again. It was nowhere near the worst thing you had done to me – but it just broke me. You knew this wasn’t acceptable to me and deeply hurtful. I pleaded with you for an apology for months. Reporting your immigration fraud was a warning shot. I just wanted you to stop hurting me. You asked me in [State B] if we are “even now”
“Sorry, I made clear that I won’t be meeting with you. In the past you have used our secret meetings to intimidate me, to threaten me, to deny and to distort facts. I do not feel safe with you and do not trust you. You should have accepted responsibility for your cruelty and abuse. I truly never deserved it. You should have been fair and compassionate. I suffer with severe psychological trauma because of what you did to me. If you won’t take responsibility or even apologise then it’s right that you are held to account. It’s Karma – you reap what you sow. My conscience is clear. Make no mistake: I would truly prefer for there to be peace, understanding and forgiveness between us. I want to let bygones be bygones. I want to move on with my life and don’t want you to be a part of it. If you have something to say to me then please put it in writing. Before you say anything you may regret, I’d suggest you think about how to deal with this legally, fairly and morally.”
“I pleaded with you for peace, forgiveness, compassion and fairness. I did so in good faith and with sincerity. You ignored it. I’ve been through hell and I suffer every day because of your hate and abuse. It never leaves me. You went too far and have done real damage. What do you suggest would put this right?”
“Well, let’s talk, cause I don’t know what your present situation is and why you are going out of your way to destroy my reputation. I have always been kind to you and supported you for many years, but now you are saying all these things about me which are untrue. It would be silly to ask you if this is fair cause you don’t seem to care about fairness, but only to damage my name. But I don’t really know what your present life situation is like.” situation is like.”
“There’s nothing to talk about that can’t be written down. That protects me and it protects you. I don’t trust you and I know that you will use discussions to bully, deny or even entrap. My present situation is that I suffer with PTSD as a result of your abusive conduct during our secret relationship. I am using the website to hold you to account for your conduct. You only got away with what you did to me because it was a secret. I am very offended that you think you were “always kind”
‘It is already widely known to many people so this would be completely pointless’
“The question is to what extent it is legitimate to protect one person's privacy when another connected person has a right of privacy and also, correspondingly, a right to waive it in the exercise of freedom of expression …. This is why it is so important for me to have in mind the recent pronouncements in Von Hannover v Germany to the effect that protection of privacy will extend to relations with other persons and embrace a social dimension. It must follow, in broad terms, that if a person wishes to reveal publicly information about aspects of his or her relations with other people, which would attract the prima facie protection of privacy rights, any such revelation should be crafted, so far as possible, to protect the other person's privacy. This is important particularly, of course, in the context of “kiss and tell” stories. It does not follow, because one can reveal one's own private life, that one can also expose confidential matters in respect of which others are entitled to protection if their consent is not forthcoming.”
“(1) Whether article 7(2) of Regulation No 1215/2012 must be interpreted as meaning that a person who alleges that his personality rights have been infringed by the publication of incorrect information concerning him on the internet and by the failure to remove comments relating to him can bring an action for rectification of that information and removal of those comments before the courts of each member state in which the information published on the internet is or was accessible. (2/3) Whether article 7(2) of Regulation No 1215/2012 must be interpreted as meaning that a legal person claiming that its personality rights have been infringed by the publication of incorrect information concerning it on the internet and by a failure to remove comments relating to that person can bring an action for rectification of that information, removal of those comments and compensation in respect of all the damage sustained before the courts of the member state in which its centre of interests is located and, if that is the case, what are the criteria and the circumstances to be taken into account to determine that centre of interests.”
“[44] …article 7(2) of Regulation No 1215/2012 must be interpreted as meaning that a legal person claiming that its personality rights have been infringed by the publication of incorrect information concerning it on the internet and by a failure to remove comments relating to that person can bring an action for rectification of that information, removal of those comments and compensation in respect of all the damage sustained before the courts of the member state in which its centre of interests is located.”
“[48] …in the light of the ubiquitous nature of the information and content placed online on a website and the fact that the scope of their distribution is, in principle, universal (the eDate case, para 46), an application for the rectification of the former and the removal of the latter is a single and indivisible application and can, consequently, only be made before a court with jurisdiction to rule on the entirety of an application for compensation for damage pursuant to the case law resulting from Shevill’s Case[1995] 2 AC 18 , paras 25, 26 and 32 and the eDate case, paras 42 and 48, and not before a court that does not have jurisdiction to do so. [49] In the light of the above, the answer to the first question is that article 7(2) of Regulation No 1215/2012 must be interpreted as meaning that a person who alleges that his personality rights have been infringed by the publication of incorrect information concerning him on the internet and by the failure to remove comments relating to him cannot bring an action for rectification of that information and removal of those comments before the courts of each member state in which the information published on the internet is or was accessible.”
“1 Prohibition of harassment (1) person must not pursue a course of conduct— (a) which amounts to harassment of another, and (b) which he knows or ought to know amounts to harassment of the other... … (3) Subsection (1) … does not apply to a course of conduct if the person who pursued it shows — (a) that it was pursued for the purpose of (1) person must not pursue a course of conduct— (a) which amounts to harassment of another, and (b) which he knows or ought to know amounts to harassment of the other... … (3) Subsection (1) … does not apply to a course of conduct if the person who pursued it shows — (a) that it was pursued for the purpose of (b). that it was pursued under any enactment or rule of law or to comply with any condition or requirement imposed by any person under any enactment, or (c). that in the particular circumstances the pursuit of the course of conduct was reasonable. 171. 2 Offence of harassment (1) A person who pursues the course of conduct in breach of section 1 is guilty of an offence… 172. 3 Civil remedy (1) An actual or apprehended breach of section 1 may be the subject of a claim in civil proceedings by the person who is or may be the victim of the course of conduct in question. (2) On such a claim, damages may be awarded for (among other things) any anxiety caused by the harassment and any financial loss resulting from the harassment… 173. 7 Interpretation of this group of sections. … (2) References to harassing a person include alarming the person or causing the person distress (3) A ‘course of conduct’ must involve — (a) in the case of conduct in relation to a single person, conduct on at least two occasions in relation to that person …. (4) ‘Conduct’ includes speech.”
“(1) publication of individuals’ names on websites in the knowledge that such publications will inevitably come to their attention on more than one occasion and on each occasion cause them alarm and distress constitutes harassment; and; (2) that where publication is an ongoing one on a prominent website, the distress and alarm caused by the publication will also be continuous. It is reasonable to infer in every case that those posted would suffer such distress and alarm on at least two occasions.”
‘I will not let you bury me’
‘Don’t dare accuse me of blackmail again when I haven’t asked you for a penny’
“…for the court to comply with HRA s.3, it must hold that a course of conduct in the form of journalistic speech is reasonable under PHA s.1(3)(c) unless, in the particular circumstances of the case, the course of conduct is so unreasonable that it is necessary (in the sense of a pressing social need) and proportionate to prohibit or sanction the speech in pursuit of one of the aims listed in Art 10(2), including, in particular, for the protection of the rights of others under Art 8. ”
“1. Unless otherwise provided for in this Regulation, the law applicable to a non-contractual obligation arising out of a tort/delict shall be the country in which the damage occurs irrespective of the country in which the event giving rise to the damage occurred and irrespective of the country or countries in which the indirect consequences of that event occur. 2. However, where the person claimed to be liable and the person sustaining damage both have their habitual residence in the same country at the time when the damage occurs, the law of that country shall apply. 3. Where it is clear from all the circumstances of the case that the tort/delict is manifestly more closely connected with a country other than that indicated in paragraphs 1 or 2, the law of that other country shall apply. A manifestly closer connection with another country might be based in particular on a pre-existing relationship between the parties, such as a contract, that is closely connected with the tort/delict in question.”
“11. Choice of applicable law: the general rule. (1) The general rule is that the applicable law is the law of the country in which the events constituting the tort or delict in question occur. (2) Where elements of those events occur in different countries, the applicable law under the general rule is to be taken as being— (a) for a cause of action in respect of personal injury caused to an individual or death resulting from personal injury, the law of the country where the individual was when he sustained the injury; (b) for a cause of action in respect of damage to property, the law of the country where the property was when it was damaged; and (c) in any other case, the law of the country in which the most significant element or elements of those events occurred…. 12. Choice of applicable law: displacement of general rule. (1) If it appears, in all the circumstances, from a comparison of— (a) the significance of the factors which connect a tort or delict with the country whose law would be the applicable law under the general rule; and (b) the significance of any factors connecting the tort or delict with another country, that it is substantially more appropriate for the applicable law for determining the issues arising in the case, or any of those issues, to be the law of the other country, the general rule is displaced and the applicable law for determining those issues or that issue (as the case may be) is the law of that other country. (2) The factors that may be taken into account as connecting a tort or delict with a country for the purposes of this section include, in particular, factors relating to the parties, to any of the events which constitute the tort or delict in question or to any of the circumstances or consequences of those events. (a) for a cause of action in respect of personal injury caused to an individual or death resulting from personal injury, the law of the country where the individual was when he sustained the injury; (b) for a cause of action in respect of damage to property, the law of the country where the property was when it was damaged; and (c) in any other case, the law of the country in which the most significant element or elements of those events occurred…. (a) the significance of the factors which connect a tort or delict with the country whose law would be the applicable law under the general rule; and (b) the significance of any factors connecting the tort or delict with another country, that it is substantially more appropriate for the applicable law for determining the issues arising in the case, or any of those issues, to be the law of the other country, the general rule is displaced and the applicable law for determining those issues or that issue (as the case may be) is the law of that other country. (1). Nothing in this Part applies to affect the determination of issues relating to tort which fall to be determined under the Rome II Regulation….”
‘virtually all of my possessions were now inaccessible to me’
“(1) The Claimant does not have his centre of interests in England and Wales and therefore is not able to obtain an injunction on an internet publication as per the ECJ in Bollagsupplysningen [sic]. He is not entitled to claim damages for alleged harm outside the jurisdiction as per the ECJ in EDate/Martinez. (2) No alleged act or alleged harm has occurred in England and Wales. Neither party was in England and Wales on the relevant dates. The applicable law unders11 Private International Law Act 1995 is [State B] law. The tort of misuse of private information and the Protection fromHarassment Act 1997 do not exist in [State B] law. (3) The injunction interferes with my rights under Article 10 andArticle 8 of the ECHR relying on a cause of action that does not exist in the applicable law. The injunction is an unlawful breach of my Convention rights as the restriction is not prescribed by any applicable law. (4) Further and (sic) alternatively, the disputed Website content was not accessed or read by any third party in England and Wales (or elsewhere). The claim is an abuse of process as per Jameel v Dow Jones. (5) Further and alternatively, the claim is an abuse of process as the “nub” of the Claimant’s claim is about reputation and the truth of falsity (sic) of what is alleged. The claim is a disguised defamation claim brought in the tort of misuse of private information to avoid the Bonnard v Perryman rule against prior restraint. (6) Further and alternatively, the Claimant should not be entitled to any equitable relief as his comprehensively dishonest witness statements and targeted acts of intimidation since starting these proceedings engages (sic) the clean hands doctrine. If the Court is unable to strike out the claim, I seek an order that refers the proper interpretation of centre of interests to the European Court of Justice under the Article 267 TFEU procedure.”
“For present purposes, it is enough to note the exceptional nature of the order and to record the conditions that are necessary before it can be made. I would summarise these as follows: 1. The respondent is in contempt. 2. The contempt is deliberate and continuing. 3. As a result, there is an impediment to the course of justice. 4. There is no other realistic and effective remedy. 5. The order is proportionate to the problem and goes no further than necessary to remedy it.”