“Thank you for all your thoughts and thoughtful expressions. You are my first wife and the best wife by far that I could ever imagine. I may need some time to develop concrete answers to all of your questions, but I don’t need any time to tell you that I know what I want to do and that from November 5 [the birth of the triplets] you and our sons come ahead of everything else. Please don’t be so concerned about money: it’s not that important and there’s always plenty of it. I would like to hear more about what this opportunity in Europe is all about. I think it would be great if you could find a way to earn a living and make some kind of career. I worry about the risks and of course you’ve heard how badly some of these ‘opportunities’ often turn out. No matter what you do or what happens to you, my love, I’m always (ALWAYS) here for you. I’ll write again tomorrow when I’ve had a bit more time to reflect on everything that you are saying. I am proud to be the father of our three sons and even prouder to be honoured by calling you my wife, and I’ll accept whatever are the consequences of those wonderful events in my life… I’m not shirking from this responsibility and challenge, and I know you aren’t, and that you’ll let me know what we need to do to make this work…”
“The way the [First Defendant] had overtly expressed herself in public to show she has an affair with the [Claimant] in adulterous affairs caused damage to the [Claimant’s wife’s] fame, prestige and very much humiliation among [her] society because the [Claimant’s wife] had been elected to hold high positions in various organisations… After the members of these organisations [discovered] the adulterous affairs between [the Claimant and the First Defendant] that caused humiliation to [the Claimant’s wife] because the other members saw the [Claimant’s wife] defective in performance of the wife’s duty that the husband [had an affair] with another woman. From such humiliation, the [Claimant’s wife] had to resign from many charity organisations in order to prevent these organisations from [suffering] detriment from the story…”
“there is still insufficient information to determine whether I am [the father]…”
“Sperm donor or dad? Thai ruling stands”
“Harlow – a US citizen who was married to an American woman – worked in Thailand as an economic analyst from 2001 to 2006. He and Wipaporn began a personal relationship in 2001, and the two participated in a traditional Thai wedding ceremony in 2004. The two never legally registered their marriage. After encountering conception issues, Harlow and Wipaporn agreed to try conception through gamete intrafallopian transfer using his sperm. Harlow consented to this procedure and signed a consent form on the line marked ‘husband’. The successful procedure led to the birth of three sons in November 2008. Harlow supported the mother and children financially until September 2009…”
“on the express understanding that their relationship would at all times be kept secret from the Claimant’s family (in particular the Claimant’s wife), friends and business associates”
“… it is abundantly clear that [the Defendants’] motivation for bringing the US case is purely financial and unrelated to the needs of the children. [The Claimant] is of the view that exactly the same motivation lay behind the fake Facebook page. This was clearly not set up for only ‘family members’ to view… It was self-evidently set up to somehow try and bolster [the Defendants’] position in the litigation that was then ongoing in Thailand and the USA…”
“42. The children were less than 2 years old when proceedings for child support commenced. They are now approaching 9 years of age. Their childhood has therefore been lost to them largely, as they have had little in the way of support in any sense from their father during their formative years. 43. It has been distressing and at times humiliating for me to raise three children without their biological father’s involvement. It has been very difficult for my husband and I to make ends meet financially. We spend almost every penny of our disposable income on funding legal fees to defend the children’s position in Thailand and the US. We are now having to waste what little money we have left in contesting these proceedings in England. 44. The Claimant has access to virtually unlimited resources due to his family wealth and his high level of income from his work. This disparity in resources between the Claimant and the Defendants could not be much greater. 45. I am certain that the issue of these proceedings is just another action intended by the Claimant to bully me into submission. I have been bullied for years in this way. The US Court was well aware of BWK’s continuous attempts to do this in the US litigation. See for example the remark from the Illinois Circuit Court in an order made in June 2014 that the Claimant had generated ‘needless delay’ in the US proceedings, and that it was ‘clear that [BWK] has used his rather extraordinary resources to attempt to exhaust [my] legal representation.’…”
“… this is a case about abuse of the process of the High Court. It concerns the inherent power which any court of justice must possess to prevent misuse of its procedure in a way which, although not inconsistent with the literal application of its procedural rules would nevertheless be manifestly unfair to a party to litigation before it, or would otherwise bring the administration of justice into disrepute among right-thinking people. The circumstances in which abuse of process can arise are very varied… It would… be most unwise … to say anything that might be taken as limiting to fixed categories the kinds of circumstances in which the court has a duty (I disavow the words discretion) to exercise this salutary power.”
“… the Claimants do not contend that the Programme caused them any particular loss or damage other than distress... Nevertheless, the Programme did involve the disclosure of their private information to 9.65 million viewers. While the information in question was not of the highest degree of sensitivity, it was fairly sensitive. Moreover, the Programme had a voyeuristic quality.”