“….it is important for the court to keep in mind that…… (ii) the court cannot turn back the clock – for good or ill the children's circumstances have changed as a result of their wrongful removal or retention; and (iii) when considering the Art 13(b) defence, the court is engaged in an assessment of risk not of welfare.”
“11. I found that many of the characteristics I had observed in [mother] over the years, emotional instability, fear of abandonment, and impulsivity (such as an unplanned move to [Country B] for a child) were seemingly consistent with BPD presentations. I suggested to [mother] that she consult a specialist in personality disorders. She reacted with considerable upset, rejected any suggestion that BPD might be relevant, and declined to pursue this. A formal BPD assessment requires a psychiatrist or clinical psychologist experienced in personality disorders. 12. I accept that [mother] has described herself as being depressed, feeling lonely, feeling isolated. I don’t accept that is a full picture of her life (or G’ life) in [Country A]. On [mother]’s own evidence it is where G’ grandparents live, who they are both close to; I know that [mother] has numerous friends and extended relatives in [Country A] and throughout [Country A]. As [mother]’s sets out, she is only now making friends in [Country B] – with parents from G’ school, as school he has only been attending since January 2026.”
“…the interests of children are of paramount importance in matters relating to their custody”; and “The objects of the present Convention are - a) to secure the prompt return of children wrongfully removed to or retained in any Contracting State; and b) to ensure that rights of custody and of access under the law of one Contracting State are effectively respected in the other Contracting States.” and in any Contracting State; and Contracting State are effectively respected in the other Contracting States.”
“The third underlying concept is that, as a rule, the courts of the child’s State of habitual residence are best placed to determine the merits of a custody dispute (which typically involves a comprehensive “best interests” assessment) as, inter alia, they generally will have fuller and easier access to the information and evidence relevant to the making of such determinations. Therefore, the return of the wrongfully removed or retained child to his or her State of habitual residence not only restores the status quo ante, but it allows for the resolution of any issues related to the custody of, or access to, the child, including the possible relocation of the child to another State, by the court that is best placed to assess effectively the child’s best interests. This third underlying concept is founded on international comity, which requires that the Contracting Parties “[…] be convinced that they belong, despite their differences, to the same legal community within which the authorities of each State acknowledge that the authorities of one of them – those of the child's habitual residence – are in principle best placed to decide upon questions of custody and access.”
“60. Where assertions of grave risk based on economic or developmental disadvantages upon the return of the child are made, the analysis should focus on whether the basic needs of the child can be met in the State of habitual residence. The court is not to embark on a comparison between the living conditions that each parent (or each State) may offer. This may be relevant in a subsequent custody case but has no relevance to an Article 13(1)(b) analysis. More modest living conditions and / or more limited developmental support in the State of habitual residence are therefore not sufficient to establish the grave risk exception. If the taking parent claims to be unable to return with the child to the State of habitual residence because of their difficult or untenable economic situation, e.g., because his / her living standard would be lower, he / she is unable to find employment in that State, or is otherwise in dire circumstances, this will usually not be sufficient to issue a non-return order. In particular, dependency on State benefits or other institutional support does not in itself amount to a grave risk. Only very exceptional circumstances might lead to a grave risk to the child. Where circumstances have been established that would amount to a grave risk, courts may consider whether protective measures can protect the child from such risk, such as the provision of some urgent financial assistance for the short-term period until the court of competent jurisdiction in the State of habitual residence can make any necessary orders. 63. Assertions of grave risk of psychological harm or of being placed in an intolerable situation resulting from a separation of the child from the taking parent when this parent is unable or unwilling to return are frequently raised in return proceedings in a wide range of circumstances. Judicial decisions from numerous Contracting Parties demonstrate, however, that the courts have only rarely upheld the Article 13(1)(b) exception in cases where the taking parent cannot or will not return with the child to the child’s State of habitual Residence. 64. The primary focus of the grave risk analysis in these instances is the effect on the child of a possible separation in the event of an order for return or of being left without care, and whether the effect meets the high threshold of the grave risk exception, taking into account the availability of protective measures to address the grave risk. The circumstances or reasons for the taking parent’s inability to return to the State of habitual residence of the child are distinct from, although they may form part of, the assessment of the effect on the child of a possible separation. 65. Where the separation from the taking parent would meet the high threshold of grave risk, the circumstances or reasons for the taking parent’s inability to return to the State of habitual residence of the child may in particular be relevant in determining what protective measures are available to lift the obstacle to the taking parent’s return and address the grave risk. Examples are provided below (paras 67-72) of some common obstacles raised by taking parents and the types of measures that courts may wish to consider under various scenarios. Alternatively, where the obstacles to the return of the taking parent cannot be lifted, other considerations in assessing possible protective measures may include the option for the left-behind parent or other person to care for the child upon his or her return to the child’s State of habitual residence until a court in that State is able to make a custody determination. 66. Where to address a grave risk it is important that pending custody proceedings in the State of habitual residence are listed promptly, the court ordering the return could require, as a measure of protection for the child, that custody proceedings should take place as soon as possible in the State of habitual residence of the child upon return. Where appropriate under the relevant laws and procedures, the parties could be informed about accelerated procedures which might exist in the child’s State of habitual residence. In addition, depending on the circumstances, and where this is possible in both States concerned, the court ordering the return could also help facilitate the prompt listing of proceedings through direct judicial communications.”
“ in assessing the likelihood of a parent not returning, the court is not addressing a binary issue of fact (such as consent: see Re W at [58]). Instead, it is asking whether, factoring its assessment on this issue into the evidence as a whole, that parent has established an Article 13(b) grave risk to the child if a return order is made. In that context, the court is assessing likelihood on a summary basis, not finding facts.”
“The applicable principles may be summarised as follows: i) There is no need for Art 13(b) to be narrowly construed. By its very terms it is of restricted application. The words of Art 13 are quite plain and need no further elaboration or gloss. ii) The burden lies on the person (or institution or other body) opposing return, in this case the mother. It is for the mother to produce evidence to substantiate the exception on which she relies. The standard of proof is the ordinary balance of probabilities but in evaluating the evidence the court will be mindful of the limitations involved in the summary nature of the Convention process. iii) The risk to M must be 'grave'. It is not enough for the risk to be 'real'. It must have reached such a level of seriousness that it can be characterised as 'grave'. Although 'grave' characterises the risk rather than the harm, there is in ordinary language a link between the two. iv) The words 'physical or psychological harm' are not qualified but do gain colour from the alternative 'or otherwise' placed 'in an intolerable situation'. 'Intolerable' is a strong word, but when applied to M it must mean 'a situation which this particular child in these particular circumstances should not be expected to tolerate'. v) Art 13(b) looks to the future: the situation as it would be if M were returned forthwith to Sweden or Denmark. The situation which M will face on return depends crucially on the protective measures which can be put in place to ensure that M will not be called upon to face an intolerable situation when she gets home. Where the assessed risk is serious enough the court will be concerned not only with M's immediate future because the need for protection may persist.”
“The critical question is what will happen if, with the mother, the child is returned. If the court concludes that, on return, the mother will suffer such anxieties that their effect on her mental health will create a situation that is intolerable for the child, then the child should not be returned. It matters not whether the mother’s anxieties will be reasonable or unreasonable. The extent to which there will, objectively, be good cause for the mother to be anxious on return will nevertheless be relevant to the court assessment of the mother’s mental state if the child is returned.”
“On [Mother’s] return to Country A I knew nothing about her suicidal ideation. I take this seriously and do not minimise it; however, I note that this episode occurred in [Country C], not in [Country A], arising from relational disappointment rather than from any particular living environment. This is a further illustration of the point I make throughout: [Mother’s] mental health difficulties follow her across jurisdictions and are not caused or resolved by location”
“Where medical reasons involving the taking parent are established, the characteristics and seriousness of the medical condition (physical or psychological) and the possibility of suitable medical treatment in the State of habitual residence may be considered to assess the merits of the taking parent’s inability to return. If necessary treatment is accessible or can be arranged, the alleged obstacles to the taking parent’s return may be lifted. There may be instances, however, where the availability of medical treatment may not be sufficient to lift the obstacles to the taking parent’s return. This may be the case, for example, if the taking parent risks an extreme deterioration of his or her psychological health (footnote 105), if he or she were to return to the State of habitual residence. In such instances, the court would have to assess the asserted grave risk to the child, as described above in paragraphs 63 and 66. As part of its assessment, the court would consider any protective measures to protect the child from the grave risk upon his or her return to the State of habitual residence.”
“See, e.g., Director-General, Department of Families v. R.S.P. [2003] FamCA 623,26 August 2003 , Full Court of the Family Court of Australia (Australia) [INCADAT Reference: HC/E/AU 544] where the Court found, on the basis of unchallenged evidence of a psychiatrist, that if the child were returned there would be a grave risk the taking parent would commit suicide, and that the effect of the taking parent’s suicide on the child would have been devastating. See also: Re S. (A Child) (Abduction: Rights of Custody)[2012] UKSC 10 , [2012] 2 A.C. 257,14 March 2012 , United Kingdom Supreme Court (England and Wales) (the UK) [INCADAT Reference: HC/E/UKe 1147] where the Court accepted medical evidence at trial that the health of the taking parent, who suffered from a form of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder known as Battered Women's Syndrome, would suffer greatly if she were required to return to Australia, and in the light of the fragility of the taking parent’s psychological health, the protective measures offered would not obviate the grave risk that, if returned to Australia, the child would be placed in an intolerable situation.”