“On6 April 2022 , we went to a restaurant with some friends. During the meal I needed to use the bathroom. EF was adamant she was going to show me where the bathroom was. I asked the respondent to keep EF at the table with her, however she refused and therefore EF came with me. I instructed EF not to touch anything in the stall, but to my surprise she touched my “penis”
“On the 6th of April 2022, me EF and AB were together in [Portugal] and were having dinner with a friend in a restaurant. When we were about to leave, EF grabbed my hand and told me that she held her father’s penis when he was peeing in the toilet. Earlier AB went to the toilet and he didn’t know where it was and EF went to show him. I had stayed at the table. I paid the dinner, called an Uber taxi at 1:04 and on our way home, I asked EF if what she had told me was true and she told me that it was. When we got home I asked EF to go to the bedroom and I confronted AB with what she told me. He denied that it happened. I then called EF and ask her to repeat what she just told me before and she did it. AB’s face went red and I asked him for an explanation of what happened and the only thing he said to me was “…what do you want me to say to you?!”
“On questioning AB, who was at the scene, he said that, when he had gone to the bathroom to urinate, his daughter had gone with him and that she had not touched his genitals as described above. AB also said that there was never any type of incentive on his part that would lead to sexual behaviour or behaviour harmful to the rights or to the physical or moral integrity of his daughter, on that date or at any other time. When the police spoke to the minor and in view of the fact that she was only 5 years old, the child said that, on her own initiative, when her father was urinating, she had touched his genitals and that he had quickly removed her hand as a sign of disapproval. The child also said that she had done that and I quote “Because I wanted to”. …. When I questioned CD, the child’s mother, she said that her daughter’s version was exactly what she had told her, but she had found the behaviour strange, on which account she asked for it to be recorded. When asked about any history that might indicate a sexual reprimand by AB, CD immediately said that there had been nothing to record, no history and no previous sign that might indicate abusive or harmful acts regarding the minor. This document, entitled Participation, has been drawn up for all relevant purposes. It has been read and reviewed in full and is duly signed by the reporting officer”
“EF - “I like my Dad, but not when she (he) make me do that much, I don’t like him. In Portugal, not where I have my home - after I have ice cream of the day and after it’s night time I go to somewhere where they cook”
“The Convention shall apply to any child who was habitually resident in a Contracting State immediately before any breach of custody or access rights. The Convention shall cease to apply when the child attains the age of sixteen years”
“In case of wrongful removal or retention of the child, the authorities of the Contracting State in which the child was habitually resident immediately before the removal or retention keep their jurisdiction until the child has acquired a habitual residence in another State, and a) each person, institution or other body having rights of custody has acquiesced in the removal or retention; or b) the child has resided in that other State for a period of at least one year after the person, institution or other body having rights of custody has or should have had knowledge of the whereabouts of the child, no request for return lodged within that period is still pending, and the child is settled in his or her new environment”
“Where a child has been wrongfully removed or retained in terms of Article 3 and, at the date of the commencement of the proceedings before the judicial or administrative authority of the Contracting State where the child is, a period of less than one year has elapsed from the date of the wrongful removal or retention, the authority concerned shall order the return of the child forthwith”
“'…the whole purpose of the Convention is…to ensure that parties do not gain adventitious advantage by either removing a child wrongfully from the country of its usual residence, or having taken the child, with the agreement of the other party who has custodial rights, to another jurisdiction, then wrongfully retain the child.”
“Notwithstanding the provisions of the preceding Article, the judicial or administrative authority of the requested State is not bound to order the return of the child if the person, institution or other body which opposes its return establishes that— …. (b) there is a grave risk that his or her return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation. The judicial or administrative authority may also refuse to order the return of the child if it finds that the child objects to being returned and has attained an age and degree of maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of its views. In considering the circumstances referred to in this Article, the judicial and administrative authorities shall take into account the information relating to the social background of the child provided by the Central Authority or other competent authority of the child’s habitual residence”
“I have asked EF whether she wants to go back to Portugal and she has said clearly to me that she does not. Her counsellor believes that she is really traumatised by what has happened to her and gets very angry about it. She will be dealing with this for some time. She still have nightmares about what has happened to her and, as said, the calls that she has with her father, despite my encouragement, do not go well. It would completely break her heart to go back”
“Article 13(b) The respondent submits that if the child is ordered to be returned there will be a grave risk that such return would expose [her] .. to physical or psychological harm or place [her] .. in an intolerable situation. The respondent submits this is evidenced as a result of: (i) the applicant is subject to an ongoing investigation by the Police in Portugal further to allegations made by the child that the applicant sexually abused her (ii) the child herself does not wish to engage in contact with her father (iii) there remains no suitable plan for the child if it was Ordered that they be returned to Portugal” returned to Portugal”
“I cannot see how a return to Portugal would work as the Court is aware that I work here in the UK”
“When we talked about the possibility of returning to Portugal, the prospect was not inconceivable but rather her preference was to remain living in England, with her mother”
“EF spoke fondly of Portugal and she did not voice any objections of returning, but rather her preference was to remain in England with her mother. EF’s main attachment to England is her relationship with her mother”
“46. However, it is also important to note that a conscious refusal by a parent to return, which refusal itself creates the situation on which the parent seeks to rely to establish a defence under Art 13(b), will not inevitably lead to the conclusion that the defence cannot be made out. To so conclude would be to place on the words of Art 13(b) a gloss which they cannot not bear. Within this context, in S v B and Y[2005] EWHC 733 (Fam) at [49] Sir Mark Potter, P held as follows having considered C v C (Minor: Abduction: Rights of Custody): “The principle that it would be wrong to allow the abducting parent to rely upon adverse conditions brought about by a situation which she herself has created by her own conduct is born of the proposition that it would drive a coach and horses through the 1985 Act if that were not accepted as the broad and instinctive approach to a defence raised under Art 13(b) of the Convention. However, it is not a principle articulated in the Convention or the Act and should not be applied to the effective exclusion of the very defence itself, which is in terms directed to the question of the risk of harm to the child and not the wrongful conduct of the abducting parent. By reason of the provisions of Arts 3 and 12, such wrongful conduct is a 'given' in the context of which the defence is nonetheless made available if its constituents can be established.” 47. Thus, accepting the imperative need to maintain fidelity to the aims of the Convention, it is important in cases where a parent refuses to return that, in determining whether a defence under Art 13(b) is made out, the primary focus of the court remains on the question of the risk of harm or intolerability to the child rather than the conduct of the abducting parent. Within this context, it is important again to bear in mind that Art 13(b) looks to the situation as it would be if the child were returned forthwith to his or her home country and that the situation which the child will face on return depends crucially on the protective measures which can be put in place to ensure that the child will not be called upon to face an intolerable situation when he or she gets home. The significance for the situation the child will face upon return of a parent's refusal to return must in each case be evaluated in the context of the protective measures that can be put in place to mitigate the impact of the same”