“I’m running away…” “You don’t deserve this so goodbye” “I love you OK, but I don’t deserve someone like you” “I need to go to confession…” “I should just kill myself, it would do you a favour”
“I simply can’t afford to send the children to holiday care every day so I need to work from home even though I WILL NOT get paid next week and week after in addition to the time we are in the UK as I HAVE NO LEAVE LEFT.”
“I am trying to tie up some admin matters on this trip…”
“The boys were upset and wanted to know why their father wanted to stay with his girlfriend rather than come to them at this time. As he refused, they told me they didn’t want to speak to him.”
“I know this sounds really mean, but I wish he would die from Coronavirus”
“Dear Judge, I would like to stay in the UK because I've had a nice life here for the past six months. It's been very nice here, the weather for one thing and the friends and family I have. If you could tell D to stop doing this it would very nice. It would be very nice if you could tell D on the computer to stop doing this: stop making up lies and doing all this, how he's forcing us back to Australia where we do not want to go”
“I feel like my father is angry or has misguided something or he wants to get things done his own way or get revenge on my mum, and, and I don't thing he really feels comfortable about us now. In Australia I was commuting four hours each day. Now we're prospering he doesn't like this, just wants to make us feel like we need him or need him to be there for us and we don't need him now because we're doing fine by ourselves.”
“When he got them, I felt really sad as his stepson is the same age as me so I felt like he’d replaced me. His stepson doesn't have anything wrong with him so it feels like he got a replacement so he could feel like he was a normal dad and he had normal kids.”
“Dear Judge, I feel like I want to stay in England because the life that I have here now is so much better than the life I was living back in Australia. The life I was living in Australia included so many things that I've listed in my Notes, such as bullying at my old school, the loss of two of the most important people in my life, racist comments, my father never being there for me, my father never supporting me emotionally or physically and the hot weather. I find it hard to function in hot weather, it just throws my concentration out completely. I want this because I want to feel like I am free, like no one can control me or force me do anything I don't want to do. I want this because the opportunities that come in England are not available to me in Australia and would disadvantage me completely if I was to return.”
“to secure the prompt return of children wrongfully removed to or retained in any Contracting State.”
“Where a child has been wrongfully removed or retained in terms of Article 3 and, at the date of the commencement of the proceedings before the judicial or administrative authority of the Contracting State where the child is, a period of less than one year has elapsed from the date of the wrongful removal or retention, the authority concerned shall order the return of the child forthwith.”
“Notwithstanding the provisions of the preceding Article, the judicial or administrative authority of the requested State is not bound to order the return of the child if the person, institution or other body which opposes its return establishes that – (a) the person institution or other body having the care of the person of the child was not actually exercising the custody rights at the time of removal or retention, or had consented to or subsequently acquiesced in the removal or retention; or (b) there is a grave risk that his or her return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation. The judicial or administrative authority may also refuse to order the return of the child if it finds that the child objects to being returned and has attained an age and degree of maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of its views.”
“If a left-behind parent with rights of custody gave consent, by which I therefore mean prior consent, to the child’s removal, how can he successfully complain that it was in breach of his rights within the meaning ofarticle 3 of the Convention ? There is no good answer to this question. So the poor draftsmanship of the Convention gives rise to a conundrum: although Art 13 expressly suggests that the consent of the left-behind parent is something which the removing parent may seek to establish by way of defence, is not its absence, rather, something which the left-behind parent must establish as part of his case under Art 3 that the removal was in breach of his rights of custody and thus, in effect, wrongful? But the conundrum is an old chestnut and I would not wish to say anything which might prompt resurrection of it, even if such were possible. In re P (A Child) (Abduction: Consent)[2005] Fam 293 this court decided that the specificity of the reference to consent in Art 13 sufficed to draw all issues of consent into it and out of Art 3; as it happens, I also consider that the decision was correct.”
“the court is primarily concerned, not with the question of the other parent's perception of the applicant's conduct, but with the question whether the applicant acquiesced in fact.” (2) The subjective intention of the wronged parent is a question of fact for the trial judge to determine in all the circumstances of the case, the burden of proof being on the abducting parent. (3) The trial judge, in reaching his decision on that question of fact, will no doubt be inclined to attach more weight to the contemporaneous words and actions of the wronged parent than to his bare assertions in evidence of his intention. But that is a question of the weight to be attached to evidence and is not a question of law. (4) There is only one exception. Where the words or actions of the wronged parent clearly and unequivocally show and have led the other parent to believe that the wronged parent is not asserting or going to assert his right to the summary return of the child and are inconsistent with such return, justice requires that the wronged parent be held to have acquiesced.”
“If it is clear, viewing a parent's words and actions as a whole and his state of knowledge of what is planned by the other parent, that he does consent to what is planned, then in my judgment that is sufficient to satisfy the requirements of Art 13. It is not necessary that there is an express statement that ‘I consent’. In my judgment it is possible in an appropriate case to infer consent from conduct.”
“I now turn to how the law will work in practice. I do not intend to say a great deal on this score. The judges who try these cases do so regularly and build up huge experience in dealing with them, as do the CAFCASS officers who interview the children involved. I do not think that they need (or will be assisted by) an analysis of how to go about this part of their task. In making his or her findings and evaluation, the judge will be able to draw upon the entirety of the material that has been assembled in relation to the child's objections exception and to pick from it those features which are relevant to his or her determination. The starting point is the wording of Article 13 which requires, as the authorities which I would choose to follow confirm, a determination of whether the child objects, whether he or she has attained an age and degree of maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of his or her views, and what order should be made in all the circumstances.”
“[67] The law in respect of the defence of harm or intolerability under Art 13(b) was examined and clarified by the Supreme Court inRe E (Children) (Abduction:Custody Appeal)[2011] UKSC 27 ,[2012] 1 AC 144 ,[2011] 2 WLR 1326 ,[2011] 2 FLR 758 . The applicable principles may be summarised as follows: (i) There is no need for Art 13(b) to be narrowly construed. By its very terms it is of restricted application. The words of Art 13 are quite plain and need no further elaboration or gloss. (ii) The burden lies on the person (or institution or other body) opposing return. It is for them to produce evidence to substantiate one of the exceptions. The standard of proof is the ordinary balance of probabilities, but in evaluating the evidence the court will be mindful of the limitations involved in the summary nature of the Convention process. (iii) The risk to the child must be ‘grave’. It is not enough for the risk to be ‘real’. It must have reached such a level of seriousness that it can be characterised as ‘grave’. Although ‘grave’ characterises the risk rather than the harm, there is in ordinary language a link between the two. (iv) The words ‘physical or psychological harm’ are not qualified but do gain colour from the alternative ‘or otherwise’ placed ‘in an intolerable situation’. ‘Intolerable’ is a strong word, but when applied to a child must mean ‘a situation which this particular child in these particular circumstances should not be expected to tolerate’. (v) Article 13(b) looks to the future: the situation as it would be if the child were returned forthwith to his or her home country. The situation which the child will face on return depends crucially on the protective measures which can be put in place to ensure that the child will not be called upon to face an intolerable situation when he or she gets home. Where the risk is serious enough the court will be concerned not only with the child’s immediate future because the need for protection may persist.
“[68] In Re E, the Supreme Court made clear that in examining whether the exception in Art 13(b) has been made out, the court is required to evaluate the evidence against the civil standard of proof, namely the ordinary balance of probabilities whilst being mindful of the limitations involved in the summary nature of the Convention process (which include the fact that it will rarely be the case that the court will hear oral evidence and, accordingly, rare that the allegations or their rebuttal will be tested in cross-examination). Within the context of this tension between the need to evaluate the evidence against the civil standard of proof and the summary nature of the proceedings, the Supreme Court further made clear that the approach to be adopted in respect of the harm defence is not one that demands the court engage in a fact-finding”
“[69] However, as I have had cause to note in a number of cases recently, the methodology endorsed by the Supreme Court in Re E by which the court assumes the risk relied upon to establish the exception under Art 13(b) at its highest is not an exercise that is undertaken in the abstract. The requirement, made clear in Re E, for the court to evaluate the evidence against the civil standard of proof whilst taking account of the summary nature of the proceedings, must also mean that the analytical methodology endorsed by the Supreme Court in Re E by which the court assumes the risk relied upon at its highest is not an exercise that excludes consideration of relevant evidence before the court. Indeed, in Re C (Children) (Abduction: Article13(b))[2018] EWCA Civ 2834 ,[2019] 1 FLR 1045 , Moylan LJ held as follows by reference to the judgment of Black LJ (as she then was) in Re K (1980 HagueConvention: Lithuania)[2015] EWCA Civ 720 (unreported) 14 July 2015 : ‘[39] In my view, in adopting this proposed solution, it was not being suggested that no evaluative assessment of the allegations could or should be undertaken by the court. Of course, a judge has to be careful when conducting a paper evaluation, but this does not mean that there should be no assessment at all about the credibility or substance of the allegations. In Re W (Abduction:Intolerable Situation)[2018] EWCA Civ 664 ,[2018] 2 FLR 748 , I referred to what Black LJ (as she then was) had said in Re K (1980 Hague Convention: Lithuania)[2015] EWCA Civ 720 , (unreported)14 July 2015 when rejecting an argument that the court was “bound” to follow the approach set out in Re E. On this occasion, I propose to set out what she said in full: “[52] The judge’s rejection of the Article 13b argument was also criticised by the appellant. She was said wrongly to have rejected it without adequate explanation and to have failed to follow the test set out in para [36] of Re E in her treatment of the mother’s allegations. In summary, the argument was that she should have adopted the ‘sensible and pragmatic solution’ referred to in para [36] of Re E and asked herself whether, if the allegations were true, there would be a grave risk within Article 13b and then, whether appropriate protective measures could be put in place to obviate this risk. That would have required evidence as to what protective steps would be possible in Lithuania, the submission went. [53] I do not accept that a judge is bound to take this approach if the evidence before the court enables him or her confidently to discount the possibility that the allegations give rise to an Article 13b risk. That is what the judge did here. It was for the mother, who opposed the return, to substantiate the Article 13b exception (see Re E supra para [32]) and for the court to evaluate the evidence within the confines of the summary process. Hogg J found the mother’s evidence about what had happened to be inconsistent with her actions in that she had continued her relationship with the father and allowed him to have the care of E, see for example what she said in para [37] about the mother not having done anything to corroborate her evidence. She also put the allegations in context, bearing in mind what Mr Power had said about something good having happened in E’s parenting, which she took as a demonstration that E would not be at risk if returned to Lithuania (para [36]). The Article 13b argument had therefore not got off the ground in the judge’s view. The judgment about the level of risk was a judgment which fell to be made by Hogg J and we should not overturn her judgment on it unless it was not open to her (see the important observations of the Supreme Court on this subject at para [35] of Re S, supra). Nothing has been said in argument to demonstrate that the view Hogg J took was not open to her; in the light of it, it was unnecessary for her to look further at the question of protective measures. She would have taken the same view even if the child had been going back to the father’s care, but the Article 13b case was weakened further by the fact that the mother had ultimately agreed to return with E.” ‘[40] As was made clear in Re S (A Child) (Abduction: Rights of Custody)[2012] UKSC 10 ,[2012] 2 AC 257 ,[2012] 2 WLR 721 ,[2012] 2 FLR 442 , at para [22], the approach “commended in Re E should form part of the court’s general process of reasoning in its appraisal of a defence under the Article”
“[52] The judge’s rejection of the Article 13b argument was also criticised by the appellant. She was said wrongly to have rejected it without adequate explanation and to have failed to follow the test set out in para [36] of Re E in her treatment of the mother’s allegations. In summary, the argument was that she should have adopted the ‘sensible and pragmatic solution’ referred to in para [36] of Re E and asked herself whether, if the allegations were true, there would be a grave risk within Article 13b and then, whether appropriate protective measures could be put in place to obviate this risk. That would have required evidence as to what protective steps would be possible in Lithuania, the submission went. [53] I do not accept that a judge is bound to take this approach if the evidence before the court enables him or her confidently to discount the possibility that the allegations give rise to an Article 13b risk. That is what the judge did here. It was for the mother, who opposed the return, to substantiate the Article 13b exception (see Re E supra para [32]) and for the court to evaluate the evidence within the confines of the summary process. Hogg J found the mother’s evidence about what had happened to be inconsistent with her actions in that she had continued her relationship with the father and allowed him to have the care of E, see for example what she said in para [37] about the mother not having done anything to corroborate her evidence. She also put the allegations in context, bearing in mind what Mr Power had said about something good having happened in E’s parenting, which she took as a demonstration that E would not be at risk if returned to Lithuania (para [36]). The Article 13b argument had therefore not got off the ground in the judge’s view. The judgment about the level of risk was a judgment which fell to be made by Hogg J and we should not overturn her judgment on it unless it was not open to her (see the important observations of the Supreme Court on this subject at para [35] of Re S, supra). Nothing has been said in argument to demonstrate that the view Hogg J took was not open to her; in the light of it, it was unnecessary for her to look further at the question of protective measures. She would have taken the same view even if the child had been going back to the father’s care, but the Article 13b case was weakened further by the fact that the mother had ultimately agreed to return with E.” ‘[40] As was made clear in Re S (A Child) (Abduction: Rights of Custody)[2012] UKSC 10 ,[2012] 2 AC 257 ,[2012] 2 WLR 721 ,[2012] 2 FLR 442 , at para [22], the approach “commended in Re E should form part of the court’s general process of reasoning in its appraisal of a defence under the Article”
“[70] In the circumstances, the methodology articulated in Re E (Children)(Abduction: Custody Appeal)[2011] UKSC 27 ,[2012] 1 AC 144 ,[2011] 2 WLR 1326 ,[2011] 2 FLR 758 forms part of the court’s general process of reasoning in its appraisal of the exception under Art 13(b) (see Re S (A Child) (Abduction: Rights ofCustody)[2012] UKSC 10 ,[2012] 2 AC 257 ,[2012] 2 WLR 721 ,[2012] 2 FLR 442 ), which process will include evaluation of the evidence before the court in a manner commensurate with the summary nature of the proceedings. Within this context, the assumptions made with respect to the maximum level of risk must be reasoned and reasonable assumptions based on an evaluation that includes consideration of the relevant admissible evidence that is before the court, albeit an evaluation that is undertaken in a manner consistent with the summary nature of proceedings under the 1980 Hague Convention.”
“[42] In Convention cases, however, there are general policy considerations which may be weighed against the interests of the child in the individual case. These policy considerations include, not only the swift return of abducted children, but also comity between the contracting states and respect for one another's judicial processes. Furthermore, the Convention is there, not only to secure the prompt return of abducted children, but also to deter abduction in the first place. The message should go out to potential abductors that there are no safe havens among the contracting states. [43] My Lords, in cases where a discretion arises from the terms of the Convention itself, it seems to me that the discretion is at large. The court is entitled to take into account the various aspects of the Convention policy, alongside the circumstances which gave the court a discretion in the first place and the wider considerations of the child's rights and welfare. I would, therefore, respectfully agree with Thorpe LJ in the passage quoted in para 32 above, save for the word “overriding” if it suggests that the Convention objectives should always be given more weight than the other considerations. Sometimes they should and sometimes they should not. [44] That, it seems to me, is the furthest one should go in seeking to put a gloss on the simple terms of the Convention. As is clear from the earlier discussion, the Convention was the product of prolonged discussions in which some careful balances were struck and fine distinctions drawn. The underlying purpose is to protect the interests of children by securing the swift return of those who have been wrongfully removed or retained. The Convention itself has defined when a child must be returned and when she need not be. Thereafter the weight to be given to Convention considerations and to the interests of the child will vary enormously. The extent to which it will be appropriate to investigate those welfare considerations will also vary. But the further away one gets from the speedy return envisaged by the Convention, the less weighty those general Convention considerations must be.”
“[46] In child's objections cases, the range of considerations may be even wider than those in the other exceptions. The exception itself is brought into play when only two conditions are met: first, that the child herself objects to being returned and second, that she has attained an age and degree of maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of her views. These days, and especially in the light of article 12 of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child, courts increasingly consider it appropriate to take account of a child's views. Taking account does not mean that those views are always determinative or even presumptively so. Once the discretion comes into play, the court may have to consider the nature and strength of the child's objections, the extent to which they are “authentically her own” or the product of the influence of the abducting parent, the extent to which they coincide or are at odds with other considerations which are relevant to her welfare, as well as the general Convention considerations referred to earlier. The older the child, the greater the weight that her objections are likely to carry. But that is far from saying that the child's objections should only prevail in the most exceptional circumstances.”