“There remain, therefore, two issues for me to determine: i) Should I grant Mr and Mrs A’s application to adopt W, their application including an application pursuant to sections 47(2)(c) and 52(1)(b) of theAdoption and Children Act 2002 to dispense with the consent of her father and mother, or should W be returned to the care of her father? ii) If the former, should I make any order in relation to post-adoption contact?”
“The starting point has to be W’s current reality. As far as she is concerned, Mr and Mrs A are her daddy and mummy. They are her parents, emotionally, psychologically and socially. They and their son are, and, so far as she can remember, always have been, her family. It may be that she has the implicit memory referred to by Dr Willemsen, but she has no actual memory of her birth family or of any other family. She may be familiar with the words “tummy mummy”, but she has no real understanding of what they mean or of their significance. Given her age and stage of development there is little that could be done to prepare her for a move to her father’s care, nor would it be possible to explain to her, in a way which would have any real meaning for her, what is happening to her, whether before, during or after the move.”
“249 I am, at the end of the day, driven to the conclusion, which in the event I arrive at unhesitatingly, that W must, for her own good, for her own happiness and for her welfare, now, in the years to come, into and through adulthood, indeed for the whole of what I appreciate may be a very long life – she may well live into the 22nd century – remain with what for her is her family, that is, with Mr and Mrs A and their son … 250 Drawing the statutory threads together, the sad reality is that W does not now have, did not at the time of the hearing before me have, any meaningful relationship with her birth family; the most important, indeed from her perspective the dominating, relationship for W is and has for some time been with Mr and Mrs A and their son. The value to W of that relationship continuing is enormous. And while I recognise – how could I not? – the strength of the father’s wishes and feelings, and his absolute commitment to W and unconditional willingness to provide for her every need, one has to question his ability to do so; not because of any failings or limitations on his part, because for all practical purposes there are none, but because what would be demanded of him would probably be almost too much for any parent in his situation. 251 … the stark reality here, in my evaluation of what the future in all likelihood holds, is that the future for W if she returns to her father is not one of merely short-term or transient problems; far from it. The risks of moving W from Mr and Mrs A are simply too great, and potentially so unmanageable, as to demand that they not be run. 252 Given that analysis, given my conclusion that W’s welfare demands that she remains with Mr and Mrs A, I am also driven to the conclusions (a) that W’s welfare requires that she be adopted – for her long-term welfare cannot otherwise be secured – and, a separate matter, (b) that her welfare “requires” (in the sense explained in the authorities) that her parents’ consent to her adoption be dispensed with. Adoption is demanded by the overriding necessity of W’s interests and welfare. Nothing else will do.”
“There was a clear consensus among all the experts that, if W is to remain with Mr and Mrs A, it is in her best interests that there should be increased contact leading to direct contact with her birth family as soon as is practical. There was general agreement that W’s long-term psychological wellbeing – her ability to understand her status as an adopted person and to put her particular ‘narrative’ in context – would be best safeguarded if contact with her birth family took place sooner rather than later. I agree with that. I also agree that there should be no order for contact, something which no expert recommended. If Mr and Mrs A are to be W’s adoptive parents, and this is the hypothesis on which the question arises, it must be for them to decide when, how and in what circumstances contact should begin and develop. And, quite apart from that, it is quite impossible at this point to spell out any of these matters with the kind of precision which would be required in an order. All that said, I agree with Dr Blincow’s view, expressed in answer to questions from Mr Bennett, that Mr and Mrs A need to “commit themselves” to making such contact work and that “it is very, very important … that [they] adopt that course of action wholeheartedly.””
“[The father] has expressed fears that, as a family with American and Italian heritages and extended families in both those countries, we may move permanently from England to either Italy or the USA once an adoption order is made in our favour. It is impossible for any family to know exactly what the future will hold but as a family we have put our roots down in this country and our son has always been educated here and lived here since he was one year old. Mrs A is about to submit an application for British citizenship and her “Life in the UK” test is scheduled for [date]. Apart from this being an acknowledgement of our settled residence here, it will mean that Mrs A has the same nationality and connection with this country as W.”
“Our position in relation to our future living arrangements is as follows. It is correct that we have ties to other countries (indeed this was, we believe, one of the main reasons for being matched with W in that her birth family had asked the local authority to look for adopters who could reflect her part-Italian heritage). However we have built our lives together in the UK and established careers and friendships which now go back many years. We keep in frequent contact with our family members abroad and they visit us, and we them, on a regular basis, but the UK is our home. Our family is rooted and settled in our local area. … Mr Hatter suggested during the experts’ meeting (although not in either of his reports) that he was concerned by our failure to offer a ‘guarantee’ that we would not move abroad during W’s minority. We have never been asked to offer this, by Mr Hatter or by anyone else, so it is not right that we have refused or failed to do so. It is our view, however, that such a guarantee would be meaningless. We have no plans or intentions to move abroad and something significant and unanticipated would have to occur before we would contemplate doing so; in those sorts of circumstances, if there were some real imperative compelling us to move, it is hard to see what weight we could give to a guarantee offered before the unforeseen event took place.”
“Q … needing to move abroad was something you envisage might happen in the future? A I think I said it was a possibility, so that is why we did not have a special guardianship order, we can move freely as a family without having to ask permission. Q That must remain a possibility? A No plans. … Q … you also said that you may have to move a family to the States? A I did not say we would, I said it is a possibility, because we are both foreigners you never know if circumstances arise, my husband is Italian but it was also an issue if some family member was sick and we might have to spend extended time, we wanted to be able, that is a good thing for us to be able to have that flexibility.”
“W was seen in … on 12th May with prospective adoptive parents … They informed a colleague that they plan to move to the US but that we should not mention this in any letters. They were advised that the hearing aid that we planned to fit was government property and would have to be returned on leaving the UK.”
“provide to the parents and to the local authority a copy of any letter(s) received from any health professional in relation to W’s hearing problems and the treatment to be undertaken.”
“… If this is correct, this is wholly contrary to the assurances given to the court that Mr and Mrs A would remain based in England … and committed to direct contact … If in fact, Mr and Mrs A were intending to leave the jurisdiction permanently and concealed this from the court, we would argue that this goes to the heart of your decision … We ask that you grant a short further stay of your adoption order and permit the matter to be restored urgently for further directions …”
“I have just received confirmation from the court office that the adoption order was sealed on 18 April. I am therefore functus officio and can do nothing absent an application to set aside the AO.”
“We will take instructions in light of any information to come from Mr and Mrs A on Tuesday.”
“Issue both applications immediately List both applications before PFD on Friday23 June 2017 at 10.30 for directions and (if appropriate) urgent interim relief (elh 1 hour).”
“I have decided to DISMISS both the application under the inherent jurisdiction seeking the setting aside of the adoption order and the application seeking a post-adoption contact order under section [51A] of theAdoption and Children Act 2002 . My reasons will follow on Monday. Can you please agree, and email me, a form of order to give effect to my decision. The order will be dated 10 July.”
“An adoption order is not immune from any challenge … The authorities show, I am sure correctly, that where there has been a failure of natural justice, and a party with a right to be heard on the application for the adoption order has not been notified of the hearing or has not for some other reason been heard, the court has jurisdiction to set aside the order and so make good the failure of natural justice. I would also have little hesitation in holding that the court could set aside an adoption order which was shown to have been obtained by fraud (emphasis added).”
“My clients are conscious that a potential move to the US has been raised within these proceedings before (at a time when there was no such possibility) as a complicating factor. They accept that they asked the audiologist not to mention their conversation because there is no certainty around this issue and, frankly, they wanted to avoid just this scenario. This was certainly a mistake and they also accept that. Apologies are offered.”
“32 … a party who has practised deception with a view to a particular end, which has been attained by it, cannot be allowed to deny its materiality. Furthermore, the court is in no position to protect the victim from the deception, or to conduct its statutory duties properly, because the court too has been deceived … 33 The only exception is where the court is satisfied that, at the time when it made the consent order, the fraud would not have influenced a reasonable person to agree to it, nor, had it known then what it knows now, would the court have made a significantly different order, whether or not the parties had agreed to it. But in my view, the burden of satisfying the court of that must lie with the perpetrator of the fraud. It was wrong in this case to place upon the victim the burden of showing that it would have made a difference.”
“It is a duty owed to the court both by the parties and by their legal representatives to give full and frank disclosure … in all matters in respect of children.”