“I am proud of what I have managed to achieve, but it was at a cost. I have gone through tremendous hardship in order to generate the wealth that I have today. I worked 7 days a week from morning until night-time, took few, if any, holidays and, frankly, rarely saw my children as they grew up; nor did I have a social life.”
“Sometime in 1996, I was introduced to [H] by one of my clients. We became friends. My flat [in Baker Street] was not in a re-possession list as stated by [H]. I did not have assets of note but I had a property The house in Pennsylvania , I had an income, I had my children, I was living in a country where I wanted to live and I enjoyed my independence. I was not “looking” for a love interest.”
“I am bound to say that, on reflection, I do regret marrying [W]. It has not been a happy marriage and, more or less from the date we married, I came under persistent and increasing pressure to transfer property to her, so that everything should be in our joint names. I never agreed to this, particularly as [W]’s reasons for wanting this were transparent and it had nothing to do with love or our being in a partnership: she simply wanted my money. When [she] finally realised I would not put any properties into her name she withdrew any love or affection for me.”
“What is true is that [H] met me, a woman 17 years younger than him, and persuaded me to share his life. I did that and then in effect spent the majority of our marriage working incredibly long and back breaking hours, whilst [H] watched on, as I single handed [sic] prevented his bankruptcy/gross financial failure, so that he finds himself in the advantageous position he finds himself in today. He consigns my efforts to history and would wish the court to believe his fantastical version of history in place.”
“Whilst I was pleased for [him], he seemed to completely ignore the fact that I was his wife and it was I, not his children, who had spent the previous decade and more putting him back into a financially secure position.”
“It needs to be stressed, however, that the methodology is a tool and not a rule. The overarching duty upon the court is to exercise its statutory duty undersection 25 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 (as amended) and to exercise the wide discretionary powers conferred upon, and entrusted to, it by Parliament in a way which is principled and above all fair to both parties on the facts and in the circumstances of the particular case.”
“We agreed that if I moved into his home, I would have a joint interest in the property. This was so I could feel secure about where I live, and it was only on the basis of this agreement that I was prepared to move in with him. In 1998, we entered into a written agreement that I would own 50% of the property … This agreement was witnessed by his sister-in-law, [OJ], who has passed away.”
“If I had known that [T] was going to be entitled to 40% of the shareholding, I would have taken a salary for the hard work I did in turning the company around and making it profitable.”