“We could justify a transitional move to foster care if there is a very high likelihood indeed that it will lead to a resumption of a strong relationship with the men, with this relationship growing and consolidating over time, while retaining a relationship with the women. My own view is this is at best a possibility, and is far from a probability. We would have for example to countenance [A] running away or self-harming – do we persist with the plan under such circumstances? I think not.” “I am afraid that I have little doubt that if they are to be left where they are, M2 at least is likely to see this as a comprehensive vindication of her previous views, and I am afraid not likely to have a nuanced approach … leaving them where they are may in the end be the most compassionate (albeit exceptionally unsatisfactory) option of all the unsatisfactory available alternatives. … this question should depend mostly on the overall quality of care that the girls are now receiving, and should depend less on the more unknown issue of whether the move into foster care would ever lead to a restoration of contact with the men… In other words if the current care of the children is clearly not good enough, and cannot be remedied then a move to foster care becomes potentially justifiable. But if the current care is just about good enough, then we may unfortunately have to view the situation as one of the possible tragic outcomes of assisted fertilisation and furthermore one which can no longer be undone or reversed. In that case we should now leave the girls be”
“I phoned M1 to ask [B] about contact, I asked for permission. M1 had said that would be fine. I then phoned M2, and she was encouraging me to speak to [B]. … M2 asked me to come by and visit her and [P] on the way back from the school. M2 did not object. They were encouraging me [to interview contact].”
“There shall be reasonable interim contact between [B] and the fathers. This shall take place on 16 December, supervised by the social worker, and for a duration as may be determined by the social worker. Thereafter the contact shall take place at a frequency and duration as may be determined by the social worker in consultation with [B].”