“ 34. The wife came across in evidence as a particularly nervous person which was acknowledged by the husband, very fairly, in my view. He said she had always been anxious and nervous. She is particularly anxious about health matters, both for herself and the children and about safety. She only feels safe in that very small area of London. This is not to say that the wife has any physical or mental disability - I was not provided with any evidence that she does - but it is certainly the case that she is acknowledged to be very anxious. I've thought long and hard about how this should be managed and I asked her, if she had a certain amount of money to buy a house, what would her priority be: The safety issue or the size of the accommodation? She did not hesitate to say that for her it was safety that came first.”
“30. I find that the parties each have a need for approximately£40,000 of income to live at a standard not unrelated to the way they lived during the marriage, but by no means at the standard that they enjoyed during the marriage. The husband said that he did not expect to be able to obtain better paid employment than the employment he has with [the bank in Milan]. I do not know if he is right, but he is certainly an ambitious man and at 41 he is not too old to think in terms of a better paid job once again though I recognise the difficulties that face him in the current climate and with his particular experience ------------- ”
“ 32. As the resources are not there to meet the budget which I find is appropriate for each of the parties to the marriage, I decided that the fairest thing to do was to share the available income equally and they will both have to manage as best they can ------------”
“40. I need to deal with the question of contribution. The husband's contribution to the welfare of this family has been very significant. He supports the family financially. He has brought in the assets including those that he acquired before the marriage because needs dictated that they be brought in. He will contribute by paying maintenance in future to the best of his ability. The wife will also make a full contribution as the mother and main carer of the two children, who will not have recourse to practical help from the husband who will be living overseas. The wife's homemaking and childcare contribution will last, at least, a further 13 years. It is difficult to quantify a wife's contribution in terms of money and I shall not try. But the care of young children and of teenagers has a value and she contributes all of the value of that care that she will provide for the children. 41. Having regard to all of these circumstances, the fact that the wife’s future earning capacity will be depressed due to her responsibilities for the children and her entitlement to share in the family assets because of her future contribution, I conclude that the provision made by my order is as fair as it can be. It is hard for both the husband and a wife because they will have to scale down their households and their spending. There is no alternative to it. In a sense, what I have done is to equalise the pain as best I can. That will be my order. ”
“36. It does, of course, encroach into the husband's personal property as described in the marriage settlement document. I place limited weight on that document for the reasons I have already explained, but, most importantly, because the wife needs to have access to some of the husband's personal property in order to satisfy the basic housing requirement of herself and the children. 37. I considered whether there should be a charge back in favour of the husband when the children leave home or at one of the other trigger events. There are problems with a Mesher Order. The likelihood is that the trigger would not fire until about 15 years or so from now at which time the financial position of the husband and wife are likely to be completely different from what they are now. It may be a problem for the wife at that time whilst being meaningless to the husband who may have recouped the capital provision that he has had to pay to the wife by rebuilding. The wife is not in a position to rebuild capital because her earning capacity is limited due to her responsibilities to the children. Her capital will all be tied up in a property whereas the husband has the opportunity to invest and grow capital. Alternatively, there can be real unfairness to the person who is kept out of what would otherwise be his, i.e. the husband’s, fair share of capital. 38. I concluded that the Mesher Order, if made, would be less than 10% of the value of the house because on my calculations£750,000 is 58% of the matrimonial ready capital. The additional sums which have to be paid to put the wife into the house are not reflected in the capital value of the asset that she will have. Due to the greater earning capacity of the husband when he is able to exploit it by getting a better paid job, the disparity in capital is not so great that it would be unfair to the husband to make the capital provision and outright order with no charge back in favour of the husband. ”
“ We, [the wife and the husband], agreed to marry, and we hereby agree upon the following Marriage Settlement. All property that is now owned by [the husband], including any future return yield hereof property (sic), shall be his private property, and [the wife] has consequently no right to marital property in this property. All property that any one of us may inherit or receive from a will, or as a gift, as well as the yield hereof (sic) shall be the inheritor’s / the receiver's private property. All other property that any one of us acquires during the marriage shall be marital property. Swedish law shall be applicable to this Marriage Settlement. A list of the property that [the husband] now owns is enclosed to this Marriage Settlement ”
“ 15. The difficulty with this agreement is that it does not spell out at all what was to happen if the marriage broke down. It is perfectly clear that it was intended to identify the husband's personal property and that the wife would have no right to marital property in his private property. It is clear that all other property acquired during the marriage - other than by inheritance, will or gift, which would be private property - would be marital property. In a sense all that the marriage settlement does, so far as the husband's private property is concerned, is to identify that he owned it prior to the marriage being celebrated and that it was not to be treated as joint property. It does not define the party's entitlements in the event of marital breakdown. It is silent as to the arrangements for S (the child already born to the parties) and it is silent as to any future children that the parties may have. It is correct that the wife was not legally advised about the agreement, as Mr Swift in his document sets out. It is correct that the husband's bargaining position was strong in that it was a condition of the marriage, that the parties were already engaged to be married, and the husband knew that the wife really wanted to be married. 16. As the settlement does not specify what would happen in the event of marriage breakdown or divorce, the weight that I can attach to the prenuptial agreement is limited. I accept it does what it says it does no more. ”
“I concluded that the Mesher Order, if made, would be less than 10% of the value of the house because on my calculations£750,000 is 58% of the matrimonial ready capital”