“The dilemma must, in fact, be a very old one. Although no statistics are available, many children must have been adopted over the years, outside their birth families, and with no knowledge by, or investigation of, other members of the birth family. Adoption exists to serve many social needs. But high among them has been, historically, the desire or need of some mothers to be able to conceal from their own family and friends, the fact of the pregnancy and birth. So far as I know, it has not previously been suggested, nor judicially determined, that that confidentiality of the mother cannot be respected and maintained. If it is now to be eroded, there is, in my judgment, a real risk that more pregnant women would seek abortions or give birth secretly, to the risk of both themselves and their babies … There is, in my judgment, a strong social need, if it is lawful, to continue to enable some mothers, such as this mother, to make discreet, dignified and humane arrangements for the birth and subsequent adoption of their babies, without their families knowing anything about it, if the mother, for good reason, so wishes.”
“upon the court indicating that the information required under paragraph 2 below is necessary in the interests of [L]’s welfare throughout her life and urging [the mother] to provide the information.”
“Upon [the mother] in person confirming to the court that she has no further information concerning the identity of [L]’s father And upon the court having no further information concerning the identity of [L]’s father notwithstanding its order of15th June 2007 … IT IS ORDERED 1 The [local authority] need not and should not take any further steps to seek to identify [L]’s father or to inform or consult him regarding [L]’s birth or the intention to place her for adoption. 2 The [local authority] need not and should not take any further steps to seek to identify or to inform or consult any members of the paternal family regarding L’s birth or the intention to place her for adoption.”
“There is no power to compel her to reveal the identity and, in the circumstances, all proceedings must necessarily take place without notice or reference to the father or further information about him, than that which the mother has volunteered.”