“Last night you mentioned money a number of times...as you did when we came to you for dinner a few weeks ago. I really do not want there to be any surprises/disappointments on this subject. But the fact that you mention it so often means that it may already be a subject of friction, or that it could become a subject of friction in the future. First, your mother has half of my money (including my pensions). So I have less to spend/invest/waste/pass on. Second, Pam and I intend to live for a long time and we intend to spend all of our money. It would be wrong for you to have any expectations, and in any event there is not likely to be very much to pass on. Third, I am not expecting any money from my mother, and it has been at times pretty distasteful to see how Bridgett has viewed her potential inheritance from that source. I would not want you to feel the same way. It gives the impression at times that Bridgett feels that she has a right to some say in how granny spends/invests/wastes her own money. Fourth, you might have heard that I inherited a lot of money from Betty and John through Quarter. That is a very different story, and indeed keeping Quarter going before I sold it cost me a very great deal of money and effort. After the taxes and costs that I have paid, the net amount was not that great. Fifth, over the last 35 years or so I have spent a great deal of money providing the family lifestyle (e.g. holidays, education, etc etc). I have also provided substantial deposits for both you and Juliet. Once I started working aged 19 I never expected any money from my father or mother. They paid for the occasional 3 or 4 day trip at Christmas in Arosa and they gave me the odd present at Christmas/birthday. They did provide money for a small deposit on your mother’s and my first house. So I think that you have already received almost everything that you can expect. I am delighted that you are now earning a decent salary and well done to you for that. But from now on you are on your own financially. I would not approve of it any other way. You can expect the odd present (probably a lot smaller than you might think appropriate) and my love, company, advice and support etc. I hope that you will take this in the right way and we can put this subject to rest.”
“I have enjoyed having daughters, though that may surprise you. On the whole I have enjoyed having the two of you; there have been many very good times, though some appalling times. I am sure that you will both recognise that. On the whole I think I have been pretty tolerant. I have always set out to show you the options from which you could choose. But to let you make your own decisions and to guide you in which you chose. So I am satisfied that on the whole you are what each of you is due to the decisions that you have each taken personally, and you have mostly done that by seeing the options that [were] available. So I actually am at peace that I have done my job reasonably well. In your different ways I am proud of both of you. I am very glad that Lauretta has chosen to keep in touch and to accept Pam as the most important part of my life. I am desperately sorry that Juliet has not, and that I have hardly seen Indy. You may think that is my fault, but I don’t care whose fault it is, merely that I regret it.”
“I had been unhappy for a number of years, and truthfully I think your mother felt the same, this is not something we chose to share with you or Juliet until we had decided to divorce. As you must know, when a couple divorces there are always other casualties. I doubt that the mother of Mark’s children is exactly delighted to hear of your forthcoming nuptials. It must bring back all sorts of bitter memories. But at least it’s easier to get through things if the truth is told. I have tried very hard to tell you and Juliet the truth and I wrote to you both when it all happened between your mother and me. Neither of you repliedwhich hurt me very much indeed and made me feel very pushed out into the cold. Perhaps I wasn’t the perfect father, but I sure as Hell worked as hard as I could to keep the whole family circus on the road. As you will discover, it takes a lot of money to support the kind of lifestyle we enjoyed as a family. And the sort of lifestyle you and Juliet enjoyed went way beyond what you appear to think was my ‘responsibility’ as a parent.”
“NB How will Juliet fund this payment?”
“Having lost both my parents I can tell you that in the wee small hours you will revisit any differences you had with them after they have gone and the thought of them will tear you up. From what I gather you didn’t exactly have an underprivileged childhood. Don’t you think it’s time to show a bit of respect and tolerance for those who have provided it for you?”
“We all know what you really mean. Again it says exactly what type of individual you are.”
“I thought that, when you left your teenage years, things would improve. But they haven’t. … Your treatment of me leading up to your wedding was disgraceful. I have no idea what I did to deserve that, other than to tell you that I didn’t like Mark. But to make sure that I was excluded, and then to threaten me physically, is beyond any words. There can be no excuses about emotional build up, influences from your mother and husband to be, or anything, you were just… … You know, I gave you life; And paid for all your education and support. I took you to places round the world. But you have learned to hate me, the way that your mother did. You can’t even be bothered to find the time to meet or contact me. Anyway, are you surprised if I am so hurt. I still love you, and have missed you.”
“You are such a lovely woman who has done so well in your career. I am very proud of you for that. You have always made bad choices of men, though none as bad as Mark. You realised that by starting to divorce him, and you told me that that was because you had “found out that he is not a nice person”
“Section 1 Application for financial provision from deceased’s estate. (1) Where after the commencement of this Act a person dies domiciled in England and Wales and is survived by any of the following persons:— (a) the spouse or civil partner of the deceased; (b) a former spouse or former civil partner of the deceased, but not one who has formed a subsequent marriage or civil partnership; … (c) a child of the deceased; … (e) any person (not being a person included in the foregoing paragraphs of this subsection) who immediately before the death of the deceased was being maintained, either wholly or partly, by the deceased; that person may apply to the court for an order under section 2 of this Act on the ground that the disposition of the deceased’s estate effected by his will or the law relating to intestacy, or the combination of his will and that law, is not such as to make reasonable financial provision for the applicant. (2) In this Act “reasonable financial provision”— … (b) in the case of any other application [i.e. other than by a spouse or civil partner] made by virtue of subsection (1) above, means such financial provision as it would be reasonable in all the circumstances of the case for the applicant to receive for his maintenance. Section 2 Powers of court to make orders. (1) Subject to the provisions of this Act, where an application is made for an order under this section, the court may, if it is satisfied that the disposition of the deceased’s estate effected by his will or the law relating to intestacy, or the combination of his will and that law, is not such as to make reasonable financial provision for the applicant, make any one or more of the following orders:— (a) an order for the making to the applicant out of the net estate of the deceased of such periodical payments and for such term as may be specified in the order; (b) an order for the payment to the applicant out of that estate of a lump sum of such amount as may be so specified; Section 3 Matters to which court is to have regard in exercising powers under s. 2. (1) Where an application is made for an order under section 2 of this Act, the court shall, in determining whether the disposition of the deceased’s estate effected by his will or the law relating to intestacy, or the combination of his will and that law, is such as to make reasonable financial provision for the applicant and, if the court considers that reasonable financial provision has not been made, in determining whether and in what manner it shall exercise its powers under that section, have regard to the following matters, that is to say— (a) the financial resources and financial needs which the applicant has or is likely to have in the foreseeable future; (b) the financial resources and financial needs which any other applicant for an order under section 2 of this Act has or is likely to have in the foreseeable future; (c) the financial resources and financial needs which any beneficiary of the estate of the deceased has or is likely to have in the foreseeable future; (d) any obligations and responsibilities which the deceased had towards any applicant for an order under the said section 2 or towards any beneficiary of the estate of the deceased; (e) the size and nature of the net estate of the deceased; (f) any physical or mental disability of any applicant for an order under the said section 2 or any beneficiary of the estate of the deceased; (g) any other matter, including the conduct of the applicant or any other person, which in the circumstances of the case the court may consider relevant. … (3) Without prejudice to the generality of paragraph (g) of subsection (1) above, where an application for an order under section 2 of this Act is made by virtue of section 1(1)(c) or 1(1)(d) of this Act, the court shall, in addition to the matters specifically mentioned in paragraphs (a) to (f) of that subsection, have regard to the manner in which the applicant was being or in which he might expect to be educated or trained… (4) Without prejudice to the generality of paragraph (g) of subsection (1) above, where an application for an order under section 2 of this Act is made by virtue of section 1(1)(e) of this Act, the court shall, in addition to the matters specifically mentioned in paragraphs (a) to (f) of that subsection, have regard— (a) to the length of time for which and basis on which the deceased maintained the applicant, and to the extent of the contribution made by way of maintenance; (b) to whether and, if so, to what extent the deceased assumed responsibility for the maintenance of the applicant. (5) In considering the matters to which the court is required to have regard under this section, the court shall take into account the facts as known to the court at the date of the hearing. (6) In considering the financial resources of any person for the purposes of this section the court shall take into account his earning capacity and in considering the financial needs of any person for the purposes of this section the court shall take into account his financial obligations and responsibilities.”
“23. It has become conventional to treat the consideration of a claim under the 1975 Act as a two-stage process, viz (1) has there been a failure to make reasonable financial provision and if so (2) what order ought to be made? That approach is founded to an extent on the terms of the Act, for it addresses the two questions successively in, first, section 1(1) and 1(2)and, second, section 2. In In re Coventry[1980] Ch 461 , 487 Goff LJ referred to these as distinct questions, and indeed described the first as one of value judgment and the second as one of discretion. However, there is in most cases a very large degree of overlap between the two stages. Although section 2does not in terms enjoin the court, if it has determined that the will or intestacy does not make reasonable financial provision for the claimant, to tailor its order to what is in all the circumstances reasonable, this is clearly the objective. Section 3(1)of the Act, in introducing the factors to be considered by the court, makes them applicable equally to both stages. Thus the two questions will usually become: (1) did the will/intestacy make reasonable financial provision for the claimant and (2) if not, what reasonable financial provision ought now to be made for him? 24. There may be some cases in which it will be convenient to separate these questions, particularly if there is an issue whether there was any occasion for the deceased to make any provision for the claimant. But in many cases, exactly the same conclusions will both answer the question whether reasonable financial provision has been made for the claimant and identify what that financial provision should be. In particular, questions arising from the relationship between the deceased and the claimant, questions relating to the needs of the claimant, and issues concerning the competing claims of others, are all equally applicable to both matters. The Act plainly requires a broadbrush approach from the judge to very variable personal and family circumstances. There can be nothing wrong, in such cases, with the judge simply setting out the facts as he finds them and then addressing both questions arising under the Act without repeating them...”
“Nevertheless, the reasonableness of the deceased’s decisions are undoubtedly capable of being a factor for consideration within section 3(1)(g), and sometimes section 3(1)(d). Moreover, there may not always be a significant difference in outcome between applying the correct test contained in the Act, and asking the wrong question whether the deceased acted reasonably. If the will does not make reasonable financial provision for the claimant, it may often be because the deceased acted unreasonably in failing to make it. For this reason it is very easy to slip into the error of applying the wrong test. It is necessary for courts to be alert to the danger, because the two tests will by no means invariably arrive at the same answer. The deceased may have acted reasonably at the time that his will was made, but the circumstances of the claimant may have altered, for example by supervening chronic illness or incapacity, and the deceased may have been unaware of the full circumstances, or unable to make a new will in time.”
“13. This limitation to maintenance provision represents a deliberate legislative choice and is important. Historically, when family provision was first introduced by the 1938 Act, all claims, including those of surviving unseparated spouses, were thus limited. That demonstrates the significance attached by English law to testamentary freedom. The change to the test in the case of surviving unseparated spouses was made by the 1975 Act, following a consultation and reports by the Law Commission…[He then noted the mischief to which the change in the law recommended by the Law Commission was directed] The mischief to which the change was directed was the risk of a surviving spouse finding herself in a worse position than if the marriage had ended by divorce rather than by death. For claims by persons other than spouses the maintenance limitation was to remain, and has done so. 14. The concept of maintenance is no doubt broad, but the distinction made by the differing paragraphs of section 1(2)shows that it cannot extend to any or every thing which it would be desirable for the claimant to have. It must import provision to meet the everyday expenses of living.”
“is helpful and has often been cited with approval”: “The applicant has to show that the will fails to make provision for his maintenance: see In re Coventry[1980] Ch 461 . In that case both Oliver J at first instance and Goff LJ in the Court of Appeal disapproved of the decision in In re Christie[1979] Ch 168 , in which the judge had treated maintenance as being equivalent to providing for the well-being or benefit of the applicant. The word ‘maintenance’ is not as wide as that. The court has, up until now, declined to define the exact meaning of the word ‘maintenance’ and I am certainly not going to depart from that approach. But in my judgment the word ‘maintenance’ connotes only payments which, directly or indirectly, enable the applicant in the future to discharge the cost of his daily living at whatever standard of living is appropriate to him. The provision that is to be made is to meet recurring expenses, being expenses of living of an income nature. This does not mean that the provision need be by way of income payments. The provision can be by way of a lump sum, for example, to buy a house in which the applicant can be housed, thereby relieving him pro tanto of income expenditure. Nor am I suggesting that there may not be cases in which payment of existing debts may not be appropriate as a maintenance payment; for example, to pay the debts of an applicant in order to enable him to continue to carry on a profit-making business or profession may well be for his maintenance.”
“regard to be had in awards under the 1975 Act to the fact that some people have a more expensive or extravagant way of life than others. Having regard to what standard of living is appropriate to him means that one does not apply some objective standard of what is reasonable for everybody; it is a standard which has to be flexible to suit the circumstances of the case. It is what is appropriate to that case and that means looking at what style of life the claimant was accustomed to live with the deceased during his lifetime.”
“It seems perfectly plain to me in the light of those two judgments that, in assessing in any particular case what is or is not reasonable maintenance, the court must have regard to the nature and quality of the lifestyle previously enjoyed by the applicant and the deceased.”
“In my respectful opinion that is an impossible construction of section 3(1)(d). While it is true that it requires regard to be had to obligations and responsibilities which the deceased "had," that cannot mean "had at any time in the past." At all events as a general rule, that provision can only refer to obligations and responsibilities which the deceased had immediately before his death. An Act intended to facilitate the making of reasonable financial provision cannot have been intended to revive defunct obligations and responsibilities as a basis for making it.
“[The judge] held that the obligations under section 3(1)(d) need not exist at the time of death. In my judgment that was wrong as a matter of law. The deceased's freedom of action to dispose of his property must be judged at the time of death, and it is only his then current obligations and responsibilities that must be taken into account. Some undischarged responsibilities from the past may still be current - for instance a child of the deceased might have given up a university place to nurse the deceased through his long last illness and now wish to go to take up that place. The moral obligation there would be both current and clear. But where the undischarged responsibility does not amount to an obligation present at the date of death, the statute does not require it to be taken into account.”
“I do not consider that, objectively, Mary owed an obligation or responsibility to Hetty arising out of her role as quasi-parent to do more than give Hetty a sound financial start in life, which she did.”
“The deceased owed the claimant the ordinary obligations of a father to an adult and fully emancipated daughter. He did not owe her any special obligations or have any particular responsibilities for her unless arising out of what he knew or ought to have known of her financial, personal and medical circumstances at the time he made his last will – a topic I return to below.”
“The fact that by the time the deceased came to make his last will the claimant was living in severely straightened circumstances and looking forward to a financially stringent retirement. The fact is that her only capital consisted of shares worth about£200,000 . She was living in a miserably small rented flat and had few personal possessions beyond the clothes she stood up in. She had no private pension. For the future all she had to look forward to was surviving on the state pension and the income from her shares.”
“It was not correct to say of the wishes of the deceased that because Parliament has provided for claims by those qualified under section 1 it follows that that by itself strikes the balance between testamentary wishes and such claims (para 51(iv) [of the judgment of the Court of Appeal]). It is not the case that once there is a qualified claimant and a demonstrated need for maintenance, the testator’s wishes cease to be of any weight. They may of course be overridden, but they are part of the circumstances of the case and fall to be assessed in the round together with all other relevant factors.”