“I told [the mother] I was aware about her affair with [her head teacher] from December. Your going to have some spicy gossip when [the mother’s friend] gets home”
“I have made [the mother] aware that I know she has been having an affair with her head teacher at school since December 2024…I believe [the mother is going through a huge midlife crisis but I can no longer be the one to support her, which I have been doing knowing all about the affair…She needed to step up and be called out on her leaving the house most nights and lying about where she is going and getting home at gone 11pm.”
“In helping me consider what is in Z’s best interests regarding the contact arrangements between her and the father going forward, I have also completed the Safety of Spending Time Arrangements tool to ensure that my decision-making is clearly evidenced, structured and grounded in an assessment of risk and protective factors. This tool has supported a balanced analysis of both the emotional risks identified within the parental relationship and the clear benefits to Z of maintaining her relationship with her father. While the assessment highlights risks arising from the parental dynamics, particularly the emotional pressure Z experiences and the impact of the ongoing conflict between her parents, it is also evident that Z enjoys her relationship with her father, values the time she spends with him, and wishes for this relationship to continue. Maintaining this positive connection is therefore important for Z’s identity, continuity of family relationships and emotional development, provided that any time she spends with him can be managed in a safe, structured and predictable way that supports her emotional wellbeing and does not place her under additional stress or responsibility”
“I cannot make a properly founded and reasoned conclusion that it is more likely than not that R was sexually abused by Mr B as she alleges… … on an approach founded on evidence and reasoning, and not on suspicion and/or concern, I am unable to conclude that there is no real possibility that Mr B sexually abused R as she asserts or substantially as she asserts and I have therefore concluded that there is a real possibility that he did.”
“(b) include a statement identifying the document(s) containing the material instructions and the substance of any oral instructions and, as far as necessary to explain any opinions or conclusions expressed in the report, summarising the facts and instructions which are material to the conclusions and opinions expressed”
“give details of any literature or other material which has been relied on in making the report;”