BM v AM [2024] EWFC 383 (B)

[2024] EWFC 383 (B)Case No ZC105/23
IN THE CENTRAL FAMILY COURT
Before
HIS HONOUR JUDGE MARIN
Between
BMApplicantAMFirst RespondentBFSecond RespondentXThird RespondentThe London Borough of SouthwarkInterested Party___________________________Ms A Bewley (instructed by Philcox Gray) for ApplicantMr T Pye (instructed by Russell Cooke) for First Respondent for The Second Respondent did not appear.Ms Wild, Solicitor, of Creighton and Partners for Third RespondentMs Z Essa instructed by the legal department of the Interested Party.___________________________Hearing Hearing dates: 14 and 15 November 2024.Judgment: 26 November 2024___________________________Approved Judgment___________________________This judgment was delivered in private. The anonymity of the child and members of the family must be strictly preserved. All persons, including representatives of the media, must ensure that these conditions are strictly complied with.Failure to do so will be a contempt of court.HIS HONOUR JUDGE MARIN:Date 2024-11-26
[1]This judgment arises from an application made by the birth mother of a child who wants to have direct contact with her child who has been adopted. The application is opposed by the adopter whose position is supported by the local authority and the child’s guardian.[2]Given the sensitivity of this application, I have anonymised the names of the parties.[3]I shall refer to the child as X, the birth mother as BM, the birth father as BF, the adoptive mother as AM and the guardian representing X as CG. The local authority involved with X is the London Borough of Southwark (“the local authority”). Given their interest in these proceedings, they asked to attend the hearing as an interested party.[4]The court was provided with various bundles containing the case papers which included relevant reports, statements and documents as well as legal authorities. The parties also filed position statements.[5]The parties were all represented. I am very grateful to the advocates for the professional and sensitive way they presented their cases.[6]BM was in court throughout the hearing. BF played no part in the application. AM attended remotely with a link to her Counsel in court.[7]By way of background, X is a little girl who is now four years old. The local authority has been involved with her birth family for some years. It issued proceedings in late 2020 regarding X which reached a final hearing before me in July 2022.[8]After a hearing over ten days when the court heard extensive evidence, in a written reserved judgment which ran to thirty-five pages, the court concluded that the threshold to make a final care order had been passed. The extensive evidence referred to BM’s lack of insight, neglect, a serious lack of hygiene in the family home, a lack of empathy, a failure to protect another child of the family from sexual abuse and critical deficits in her parenting.[9]When considering if a final care order should be made and whether the local authority’s application for an order allowing X to be placed for adoption should be granted, the court considered various options for X’s care which ultimately were not viable. Final care and placement orders were therefore made. The court’s decisions were not appealed.[10]In February 2023, X was matched with AM and the following month, BM had a last contact session with X. In July 2023, AM applied to the court for an adoption order and in September 2023, BM applied to seek permission to oppose the granting of an adoption order. She also sought contact with X.[11]In December 2023, the court heard BM’s application to oppose the adoption order. After a fully contested hearing when the court heard evidence as well as full submissions from the parties, BM was refused leave to oppose the adoption application. That order was not appealed. BM’s application for post-adoption contact was adjourned being premature as no adoption order had yet been made.[12]The substantive application for an adoption order was heard in February 2024 when a final adoption order was made in favour of AM. Thereafter, BM’s post-adoption contact application was listed for a hearing in March 2024.[13]At the March 2024 hearing, AM produced a report from CAMHS which advocated against contact between BM and X. The court was also informed that later that month, AM had agreed to meet BM. The court therefore adjourned the contact application for nine months to allow CAMHS to undertake more work with X and also hoping that the meeting between BM and AM would yield an agreement as to the way forward without further recourse to the court.[14]Meanwhile, CG had started to work with the family. Concerned for X, she applied some time later to the court to bring forward the determination of the contact application which led to this hearing.[15]The position now is that BM seeks direct contact with AM once or twice each year. She also wants letter box contact to be properly set up for her and X’s siblings.[16]AM is not opposed to direct contact but maintains that now is not the time for it to start. Her position is that she would be guided by the professionals working with X as to when direct contact was appropriate for X and at that point, she would have no objection to it taking place. Meanwhile, AM had no objection to indirect contact between X and BM and her siblings. CG and the local authority supported AM’s position.[17]I turn now to the law.[18]The relevant legislation is the Adoption and Children Act 2002. The starting point is section 1 which addresses the court’s approach generally when dealing with matters, namely: (2) The paramount consideration of the court or adoption agency must be the child’s welfare, throughout his life. (3) The court or adoption agency must at all times bear in mind that, in general, any delay in coming to the decision is likely to prejudice the child’s welfare. (4) The court or adoption agency must have regard to the following matters (among others)—(a) the child’s ascertainable wishes and feelings regarding the decision (considered in the light of the child’s age and understanding),(b) the child’s particular needs,(c) the likely effect on the child (throughout his life) of having ceased to be a member of the original family and become an adopted person,(d) the child’s age, sex, background and any of the child’s characteristics which the court or agency considers relevant,(e) any harm (within the meaning of the Children Act 1989) which the child has suffered or is at risk of suffering,(f) the relationship which the child has with relatives, with any person who is a prospective adopter with whom the child is placed, and with any other person in relation to whom the court or agency considers the relationship to be relevant, including— (i) the likelihood of any such relationship continuing and the value to the child of its doing so, (ii) the ability and willingness of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, to provide the child with a secure environment in which the child can develop, and otherwise to meet the child’s needs, (iii) the wishes and feelings of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person,regarding the child.[19]Section 51A of the Act addresses post-adoption contact. Section 51A(1)(b) provides that it applies when the court is “making or has made an adoption order in respect of the child” which it has done in this matter.[20]Section 51A(2)(a) sets out the powers of the court regarding contact in the following terms: (2) When making the adoption order or at any time afterwards, the court may make an order under this section—(a) requiring the person in whose favour the adoption order is or has been made to allow the child to visit or stay with the person named in the order under this section, or for the person named in that order and the child otherwise to have contact with each other, or(b) prohibiting the person named in the order under this section from having with the child.[21]BM as X’s birth mother is allowed to make the application as she comes within section 51A(3)(a) being a “person who (but for the child's adoption) would be related to the child by blood…”[22]BM also needs to obtain the court’s permission to make the application. Section 51A(4) provides that: (4). An application for an order under this section may be made by—(a) a person who has applied for the adoption order or in whose favour the adoption order is or has been made,(b) the child, or(c) any person who has obtained the court's leave to make the application. BM’s application would fall under within subsection (c).[23]Section 51A(5) sets out the matters to which the court must have regard considering whether or not to grant leave to make the application as follows: (3) In deciding whether to grant leave under subsection (4)(c), the court must consider—(a) any risk there might be of the proposed application disrupting the child's life to such an extent that he or she would be harmed by it (within the meaning of the 1989 Act),(b) the applicant's connection with the child, and(c) any representations made to the court by— (i) the child, or (ii) a person who has applied for the adoption order or in whose favour the adoption order is or has been made.[24]Once the question of leave is decided, the court then turns to the substantive application for contact.[25]In this regard, I have been referred to and considered a number of authorities whichaddress the issue of post-adoption contact including Re C (Adoption Contact) [2005]EWCA Civ 1128; Re T [2010] EWCA Civ 1527; Re C (A Child) (Adoption by FosterCarers) [2024] EWFC 87; Re B (A Child) (Post Adoption Contact) [2019] EWCA Civ29; Re R and C (Adoption or Fostering) [2024] EWCA Civ 1302. These authorities inturn refer to other cases. The parties’ position statements also set out the relevant lawwhich is not in dispute.[26]The principle for many years was that a court should not make an order for post-adoption contact with members of the birth family against the wishes of the adopterssave in “exceptional circumstances”. Lord Justice Baker in Re R and C referred to thisprinciple as having been “firmly applied.”[27]The introduction of section 51A was at a time when the thinking was more towards aconcept of “greater openness in terms of post-adoption contact” (per Sir AndrewMacFarlane P in Re B).[28]However, as

Lord Justice Baker remarked in Re R and C:

“30. In the event, any "sea change" in the years following theimplementation of the 2002 Act did not extend to a wider imposition oforders for post-adoption contact against the wishes of the adopters. Insubsequent cases, this Court reiterated the principle that it would beextremely unusual to impose on prospective adopters orders forcontact with which they were not in agreement…”
[29]He said further:
“31. Following the introduction of s.51A, the issue was reconsideredby this Court in Re B (A Child: Post-Adoption Contact) [2019] EWCACiv 29. In that case, Sir Andrew McFarlane P (in a judgment withwhich the rest of the Court agreed) summarised the position asfollows: "52. The starting point for any consideration of this issue must bethe settled position in law that had been reached by the decisionin Re R, which was confirmed by this court in the Oxfordshire caseand in Re T. The judgment in Re R was, itself, on all fours, so far asimposing contact on unwilling adopters, with the position describedby Lord Ackner in Re C. "52. The starting point for any consideration of this issue must bethe settled position in law that had been reached by the decisionin Re R, which was confirmed by this court in the Oxfordshire caseand in Re T. The judgment in Re R was, itself, on all fours, so far asimposing contact on unwilling adopters, with the position describedby Lord Ackner in Re C. 53. As stated by Wall LJ in Re R, prior to the introduction of ACA2002, s 51A, the position in law was, therefore, that 'the impositionon prospective adopters of orders for contact with which they arenot in agreement is extremely, and remains extremely, unusual.' 54. Although s 51A has introduced a bespoke statutory regime forthe regulation of post-adoption contact following placement foradoption by an adoption agency, there is nothing to be found in thewording of s 51A or of s 51B which indicates any variation in theapproach to be taken to the imposition of an order for contact uponadopters who are unwilling to accept it." 32. In response to submissions about the interpretation and applicationof s.51A, the President added further guidance: "59. ACA 2002, s 51A has been brought into force at a time whenthere is research and debate amongst social work and adoptionprofessionals which may be moving towards the concept of greater'openness' in terms of post-adoption contact arrangements, bothbetween an adopted child and natural parents and, moreparticularly, between siblings. For the reasons that I have given,the juxtaposition in timing between the new provisions and thewider debate does not indicate that the two are linked. The impactof new research and the debate is likely to be reflected in evidenceadduced in court in particular cases. It may also surface in termsof advice and counselling to prospective adopters and birth familieswhen considering what arrangements for contact may be the bestin any particular case. But any development or change fromprevious practice and expectations as to post-adoption contact thatmay arise from these current initiatives will be a matter that maybe reflected in welfare decisions that are made by adopters, or by acourt, on a case by case basis. These are matters of 'welfare' andnot of 'law'. The law remains, as I have stated it, namely that it willonly be in an extremely unusual case that a court will make an orderstipulating contact arrangement to which the adopters do notagree. … "61. Post-adoption contact is an important issue which should begiven full consideration in every case [ACA 2002, s 46(6)]. Whilstthere may not have been a change in the law in so far as theimposition of a contact regime against the wishes of prospectiveadopters is concerned, there is now a joined-up regime containedwithin the ACA 2002 for the consideration of contact both at theplacement for adoption stage and later at the hearing of anadoption application. Further, and in contrast to the situation priorto 2014 where the issue of contact on adoption was determinedunder s.8 by applying the CA 1989, s.1 welfare provisions, issuesunder both s.26 and s.51A of the ACA 2002 will be determined byapplying the bespoke adoption welfare provisions in ACA 2002, s.1,where the focus is not just upon the welfare of the subject of theapplication during childhood but throughout their life. 62. A placement for adoption hearing has the potential for havingan important influence upon the development of any subsequentlong-term contact arrangements. As required by ACA 2002,s.27(4), the court must consider the issue of contact and any plansfor contact before making a placement for adoption order. Thecourt's order may well, therefore, set the tone for future contact, butthe court must be plain that, as the law stands, whilst there may bejustification in considering some form of direct contact, the ultimatedecision as to what contact is to take place is for the adopters andthat [it] will be 'extremely unusual' for the court to impose acontrary arrangement against the wishes of adopters.”
[30]In November 2024, the Public Law Working Group’s adoption sub-committeepublished a report entitled “Recommendations for best practice in respect of adoption.”[31]The report considered the issue of post-adoption contact saying that “we recommendthat there needs to be a greater focus on the issue of contact with the birth family aslong as it is safe.”[32]Referring to the provisions of section 51A of the ACA, it noted that there was “littlereported case law to suggest that these provisions are being actively used” and thatthere needed to be a “sea change in the approach to the question of fact-to-face contactbetween the adopted child and the birth family or other significant individuals.”[33]Equally though, the report recognised that “imposing an order on unwilling adopters isa very serious matter, and that the decision of the Court of Appeal in Re B outlines thelimits in which it is appropriate. Adoptive parents will need to be fully involved indecisions about contact with a strong emphasis on the needs of the child.”[34]I turn now to the evidence.[35]L is the social worker who has worked with X since 2022. She filed statements, the lastone in February 2024, and gave oral evidence.[36]L said that X had settled well with AM who wanted the best outcome for X. She wasnot sure what X remembered about BM. She did not recommend contact with BM.[37]However, L said that she had not seen X since May 2024; life story work had not beendone even though X had been living with AM for nineteen months which L acceptedwas “not acceptable.” L also accepted that indirect contact forms had not beenprocessed or even sent direct to X’s siblings. She had also not considered the commentsabout contact in the judgment following the care proceedings.[38]L attended a meeting in March 2024 between BM and AM at the local authority’soffices which went well and which she remarked “bodes well for the future.”[39]CG filed an analysis in December 2023 and gave oral evidence to bring matters up todate.[40]In her analysis, regarding post-adoption contact CG said that:
“59. I am not opposed to post adoption contact and it is my view thatthis needs to be approached on an individual, case by case basis. Thereare pros and cons to this when it comes to children’s overall welfare. 60. …I think that there would be some value to [X] in having postadoption contact with [BM]. Unfortunately, [X] is too young tounderstand the situation and it [sic] I think it would cause herconfusion and impact her current stability.”
[41]At that time therefore, CG supported letter box contact only.[42]In her oral evidence, CG referred to X being at a “tricky age” and that direct contactwould be easier if she were younger or older. Age was a main factor in her view thatthere should not be direct contact between X and BM now.[43]The CAMHS report had also increased CG’s concerns about introducing direct contactwith BM. X had to be “at the centre” when making decisions and X needed “one thingat a time.” If CAMHS were saying that specific work was needed with X, that shouldbe undertaken first. Introduction of BM now would be confusing for X who might feelher security with AM was “threatened.”[44]CH described herself as a “senior CAMHS clinical specialist and under 5’s lead”. Shehas worked in this role for thirty-five years which includes dealing with looked afterand adopted children.[45]CH works with X and AM seeing one or both weekly. As well as giving oral evidence,she filed reports in February and October 2024. Her views and conclusions were basedon her assessment of X.[46]Commenting in her February 2024 report on X’s presentation, CH noted that:
“While she has been helped by the prospective adopter to feel settledenough to ‘let go’ and relax more she remains somewhat vigilant andanxious about the predictability of her life. This is understandable given the severity of her early life adversity. Itis common for us to see this vulnerability to change in children whohave experienced anxiety at a very early age where they had no meansto manage this emotionally, physically, or psychologically. The earlyexperience of overwhelming and intolerable stress can often take along time to recover from and plays a significant part in why [X] isstill very sensitive and can be easily alarmed and anxiously predictschange where there is none taking place. The fact that she has adaptedas well as she has to some new experiences, e.g., nursery, is largelyattributable to the thoughtful and predictable support that theprospective adopter has put in place for her. [X]’s longstanding low expectations of adults to provide her with caredoes impact on her sense of self-worth and confidence that she can beloved and treasured by an adult caregiver. [X] is emotionally movingon gradually from this position and is claiming the prospective adopterin a very healthy appropriate way. However, as if often seen, this canbe steered off course easily with emotional demands made on [X] toadjust too much to others e.g., this was clear from the previous contactwith her foster carer.”
[47]She referred to X easily being “emotionally derailed” when experiencing some changeto her routine or a new event:
“However, it is clearly evident from everyday situations where [X]naturally experiences some change to her routine, or a new event, thatshe can easily be emotionally derailed, with consequences that affecther functioning to a greater degree than would be expected within theordinary range for her age. The effects of her having to managesituations which cause her to feel higher levels of stress highlights thather underlying vulnerability is significant and can easily be triggered,commonly seen in young children with a history of significant earlyadversity. Whilst she cannot be sheltered from all change it will beimportant for the next few years that this is at a level that could beconsidered as in the “low” or “tolerable” stress range.”
[48]CH also felt that if there were “repeated challenges” to X to adapt beyond her emotionalcapacity, it could put the relationship between X and AM at risk.[49]In her October 2024 report, CH referred to X’s “complex needs” and again to her abilityto become “emotionally derailed” with “consequences for both her functioning,development and her attachment with adoptive mum.”[50]X was a “sensitive child with complex social-emotional and attachment needs” whowas making good progress although it was “early days”. A significant challenge wasalso presented by X’s “overly controlling behaviour.”[51]Overall, CH concluded that direct contact would cause X “anxiety and confusion thatwill be detrimental to her emotional development, attachment relationships and mentalhealth and would crucially set her back in her pathway to recovery.”[52]Moreover, she felt that:
“…security of the relationship between [X] and [AM] is the greatestprotective factor for this young girl now. There are challenges anddemands on the parenting role as [X] is a complex and needy child. Itis vital that this relationship is not further strained for [X] as itsstability will play the single most important role in her pathway toemotional recovery and developmental progress.”
[53]In her oral evidence, CH described X as a “bright girl” although there was a “differentpicture emotionally.” X had knowledge or an awareness of the changes in her lifealthough she struggled to understand. If contact were introduced with BM now, it wouldhave a significant and long-term impact on X.[54]BM and AM did not give evidence although they both filed statements.[55]BM has given evidence before me in the care and placement proceedings and when sheapplied to oppose the adoption. She also appeared at the substantive adoption hearingalone and addressed the court.[56]My judgment in the care proceedings set out why BM was not considered able to carefor X. I do not propose to repeat those findings now save to note that everyone involvedin the earlier proceedings accepted that BM dearly loved X. I accept that her love hasnot diminished in any way.[57]Throughout these difficult proceedings though, BM has always behaved with dignityand been polite. When without representation, she was respectful and accepting of thecourt’s decision. Throughout this hearing, she sat in court politely listening andmaintaining a personal dignity in the face of what must have been an emotionallydifficult hearing for her. Given her presentation, it was not surprising that the meetingin March 2024 between BM and AM went smoothly.[58]I also observe that although the court has made adverse findings about BM herself andher parenting, there has never been a suggestion that she has been malicious or behavedin an iniquitous way towards X.[59]AM also deserves praise. I met her at the final adoption hearing a few weeks after thehearing when the adoption order was made. AM is an intelligent and successful ladybut also someone who came over as kind and dedicated to X.[60]AM’s position all along has been that she wants the best for X. She has not closed thedoor on direct contact between BM and X. Her position is that she puts X first and willfollow the professional advice as to when the time is right for X to have direct contactwith BM. In other words, direct contact is not for now but later; not if but when, as herCounsel put it.[61]I accept this as a genuine position. AM willingly attended the meeting with BM earlierthis year at the local authority’s office. That attendance cannot be understated; for anadoptive parent, meeting the birth parent must have been very difficult but the meetingwent well which is as much a credit to AM as it was to BM.[62]AM has also sent photographs of X to BM; she has no issues with indirect contactbetween X and BM or her siblings; she engages fully with CAMHS and no professionalin this case has cast any doubt about AM being genuine in her position about directcontact.[63]That leaves X. I have also met her when she attended the final adoption hearing withAM. She is a lovely little girl. However, she has suffered and is in need still of furthertherapeutic work.[64]As to the evidence before the court, I found L’s evidence disappointing. There is nodoubt that the local authority has let down not only X but also BM and AM.[65]The absence of any proper progress on the life story work is unacceptable. It has deniedX the opportunity to start to come to terms with and understand her situation andcrucially for professionals to address this matter.[66]Indeed, as long ago as March 2024, X had already asked AM if she came from her“tummy.” Had the life story work been completed, it would have given CAMHS thebasis to address how best to deal with these questions and offered AM appropriateguidance.[67]It is to the credit of AM that when she received a draft seven or eight page (as it wasreferred to) version of some or all of the life story work in June 2024, that she did notshow it to X as she felt it was inappropriate to share an unfinished piece of work.[68]Of course, the lack of the life story work also denied AM the opportunity to seekappropriate guidance and worse still, it delayed any opportunity for the time to arrivewhen direct contact between X and BM could be considered seriously.[69]It was also worrying that L had not properly processed the indirect contact forms; X’ssiblings were not contacted direct for no real reason. I was also concerned to be toldthat photographs sent by AM at one point were deliberately fuzzy because the localauthority had told her to send them in this manner.[70]I found the local authority’s approach to direct and indirect contact unacceptable in thecontext of this matter.[71]During the care and placement proceedings, I was told that the local authority wantedto explore direct contact between BM and X’s adopter. It was for this reason that Icommented on direct contact in my judgment. Thereafter, the signs were encouragingespecially when I was told during the application by BM for leave to oppose theadoption that a meeting was to be set up between BM and the proposed adopter.[72]What I do not understand therefore is why during most of this year, the local authorityhas done little to help progress being made. L’s evidence left me with the feeling thatafter the proceedings ended and an adoption order was made, the local authority justwalked away from the issue of contact.[73]CG did her best to help the court. I agree with the general points she made although Iwas not satisfied that she addressed the issue of direct contact with sufficient depth andunderstanding of the contemporary research and trends in this challenging anddeveloping field.[74]Her position regarding direct contact was primarily based on X’s age and a heavyreliance on CH’s evidence. Although CG said that she had “catch ups” with AM, hadvisited X and read the evidence, I was left with the impression that her involvementwith the parties was superficial which detracted from the overall value of her evidence.[75]I found CH to be a thoroughly professional and impressive witness.[76]On behalf of BM, CH’s background in occupational therapy was questioned as was thefact that no CV was available, together with concern about her role as a treatingclinician and not being objective.[77]CH’s involvement in this matter came about at an early hearing when her first reportwas produced by AM. There was no objection to its inclusion in the evidence andpermission was given for an updated report. The parties also agreed that she could giveevidence at the final hearing. There was no objection at any time to her involvementnor was there a suggestion that an independent expert might be more appropriate.[78]I found CH to be entirely objective and her evidence was crucial and immensely helpful.CH sees AM and/or X weekly. I am satisfied that she was fully qualified to express anopinion working for CAMHS and having many years of experience and training beyondoccupational therapy. No issue of patient confidentiality compromising her evidencearose. She was unfazed by cross-examination and explained her views carefully andclearly.[79]I place substantial weight on CH’s views and opinion which to my mind were soundand sensible based on her years of experience and having an intimate psychologicalknowledge of X. To my mind, this was the best evidence before the court.[80]Taking everything together, I turn now to my conclusions. I record that the parties allmade final submissions at the end of the hearing. I do not intend to repeat what theysaid save to say that I have considered those submissions carefully.[81]The first stage is to consider whether to give BM leave to make her application for post-adoption contact.[82]Turning to the factors in section 51A(5), BM has a connection with X as she is her birthmother (section 51(A)(5)(b)).[83]I take into account the representations made by CG on behalf of X (section51(A)(5)(c)(i)) as well as those made on behalf of AM (section 51(A)(5)(c)(ii)).[84]That leaves section 51(A)(5)(a) which refers to any risk of the application disruptingX’s life to the extent that X would be harmed by it.[85]Harm is defined by reference to the Children Act 1989 where at section 31 it includesimpairment of health or development.[86]I have reached the conclusion that if I were to give leave for the application to be made,there is an almost guaranteed risk of harm being caused to X.[87]X is four years old. She is starting to explore her world and it is clear that positive workhas been done to help her to address her past and present difficulties. However, thework done so far is really only a beginning.[88]I accept CH’s evidence as to X’s situation. In particular, her view that direct contactcould destabilise X and cause her to become emotionally derailed; the potential threatto the relationship between X and AM and the confusion and anxiety X would suffer.[89]I am in no doubt that if direct contact were to take place now or in the short term, therewould almost certainly be a risk of disruption to X’s placement and to her life andemotional wellbeing. X needs time to adjust to her new life and to benefit fromprofessional help to work through the many issues and matters identified by CH. Thoseissues are clearly not straight forward or easy to resolve.[90]Added to the matters identified by CH is the fact that life story work has not startedproperly. As I have said, this is vital and part of the path to direct contact or at the veryleast to allow X to understand her past life.[91]When considering the welfare check list in section 1 of the ACA, it is the potential foremotional harm that would almost certainly be suffered by X through direct contact thatstands out as a factor against allowing this application to proceed. There is also the needfor X to enjoy stability in her placement and to continue her work with CAMHS. I alsonote that X’s connection to her birth family can be provided by indirect contact and lifestory work.[92]Accordingly, I refuse leave to make the application. For the sake of completenessthough, if I had given leave, I would have refused to make an order for direct contact atthis point of time. It would be against the wishes of AM which are well founded, basedon X’s welfare needs and not a whim of her own and should therefore not be ignoredor overridden; X would suffer emotional harm as evidenced by CH’s evidence and thefall out from direct contact would more likely than not harm X as well as AM with thepotential to damage her placement. Direct contact would not be in X’s welfare interests.Indeed, the factors I refer to in refusing leave would apply equally here.[93]Turning to the future though, I accept AM’s assurance that she will facilitate directcontact at a point when the professional advice she receives is that X would beemotionally safe and such contact would be appropriate and in X’s welfare interests.[94]I direct the local authority to finalise its life story work by the end of January 2025 andto ensure that indirect contact is formalised in the next four weeks not only between Xand BM but also between X and her siblings.[95]My hope is that CH will continue her work and progress matters to reach a point whenX can deal with direct contact and all that brings with it. X’s welfare interests reflecther whole life and not just her childhood and X will need a solid emotional base toaddress direct contact and all the issues that flow from it which include stability of herlife with AM. At what point in time direct contact may be viable is therefore impossibleto say. X is a child with complicated needs and resolution of her issues cannot be rushed.Meanwhile though, indirect contact and life story work is sufficient.[96]Accordingly, as I have said, I refuse leave to BM to apply for direct contact with X. Ibelieve that indirect contact is agreed between the parties but if any points ariseregarding that or generally, I can deal with them either on paper or at a short hearing. Igive permission for this judgment to be shared with CAMHS. I would invite Counselto agree an order to reflect my judgment.[97]That is my judgment.