“She has been clear that she wants nothing to do with the past. I do not think that she will want to be involved and there is a real risk that by serving her with notice I have made this application will just make her shut down and I fear that my relationship with her will be severed by her. When my mother fell pregnant with me, she told no one. She did not tell her parents or her friends. She had me in secret and when she signed the paperwork for the adoption in 1964 giving me up for adoption, I do not doubt that she thought that was forever. The world has changed, but I believe that my birth mother is entitled to her own space, privacy, freedom and anonymity … if this court were to write to her, I do not think that she would engage in these proceedings and I know that to take this step would emphatically mean the end of our very fragile relationship … I still want to retain, where possible, some semblance of relationship with my birth mother. My mother’s name is not being removed from the birth certificate. The application I am making is about my father and I. It will not affect her status on my birth registration.”
“… [the biological mother] would have married the putative father if she had had a chance. But the young man is practicing Roman Catholic as are all his family and the priest was consulted and he advised against it….. ”
“Why is the child offered for adoption?”, the following was recorded: “My parents think I’m too young to keep a baby”
“My adoptive parents were open with me about the fact that I had been adopted and gave me as much information as they knew about the circumstances surrounding my adoption… My adoptive parents knew about and supported my efforts to locate my birth parents.”
“A Declaration of Parentage is personally a very important step for me as it strongly relates to my identity. My bloodline connection is important in terms of both my long-term psychological and material welfare.”
“Technically, my locus standi in relation to my application is not just as applicant, but also adopted child. As such, I am the host of the complex legal and factual situation of adoption; factually, I was born of my birth parents but I am also the legal child of my adoptive parents. I have grown up knowing I have a foot in both camps, each as formative as the other in terms of formulating my identity for myself. However, having been adopted in the 1960s, I am also part of a model of broken connection, which has in part, been decided upon through statute, decisions of the court and by rules relating to birth registration. Adoption in the 1960s very often responded to the stigma of illegitimacy and the circumstances meant adoptees were unable to have any voice in this process. Now adoption is far more open and inclusive; birth families are acknowledged through open contact and the child’s welfare is paramount (Adoption and Children Act 2002 ). As an adult, I am no longer considered a child of course, but being an adopted child never ceases; childhood may end, but adoptees continually define themselves by this identity because adoption is a continuous feature of their identity. … Since my adoption, I have been a grateful recipient of a series of legislative rights, that have allowed adoptees to gain more knowledge about their origins, entitling me to information on my original birth certificate, and receiving counselling before accessing that information (Children Act 1975 andAdoption Act 1976 ). In pursing the knowledge of my origins, I am hoping to create stability for my identity. The All Party Parliamentary Group Inquiry into Creating Stable Adoptive Families (2019) highlights that adoptive stability (and thus welfare) involves the importance of knowing. Having knowledge confirmed may go some way to addressing the loss and pain many adoptees experience, referred to in literature as ‘The Primal Wound’ or various forms of embodied pre-cognitive trauma that is hidden in the body well into adulthood.”
“As I expect many adopted children feel, I longed to have information about my birth identity and as soon as I was an adult, with the support of my adoptive parents, I began looking for my birth parents. I had my birth certificate, with my mother’s name and I was able to obtain my adoption records, … I found my father’s name and his address at the time in these records.”
“I have never ever felt so loved or accepted in my whole life. It was like I had never left… the more I find out about him, the more I can see where certain elements of my personality come from.”
“(2) The making of an adoption order operates to extinguish— (a) the parental responsibility which any person other than the adopters or adopter has for the adopted child immediately before the making of the order”
“…satisfied that the court does have jurisdiction in an appropriate case, pursuant tosection 55A(1) of the Family Law Act 1986 , to grant to a birth parent a declaration of parentage in respect of a child following the lawful adoption of that child under Part 1 of theAdoption and Children Act 2002 ”
“… giving the term ‘any person’ insection 55A(1) of the Family Law Act 1986 its ordinary meaning does not bring that section into conflict with the term ofsection 67 of the Adoption and Children Act 2002 ” (§44). As will be apparent (see §25 above) the statutory phrase ‘any person’ is qualified only by reference to ‘jurisdiction’ and ‘standing’ in section 55A(2)/(3)/(4). As MacDonald J also said (§44 in Re H No.1): “The natural and ordinary meaning of the expression “any person” needs no elaboration. Dicey, Morris & Collins on the Conflict of Laws, 15th ed (2012), para 20-007 state that the effect of section 55A is to widen the range of persons who may seek declarations of parentage.”
“[14] The petitioner seeks the declaration because he wishes for recognition by the state of the historical truth of his natural origins and that it is a matter deeply important to his self perception and sense of identity. He feels that officially and currently his natural father has been labelled as unknown and that there is some stigma attached to that. He wishes to pass on to his children and grandchildren an accurate and recognised account of his ancestry and, in my terms, bloodline”
“Issues of status, such as parentage, can be expected to be approached with some formality in circumstances where they concern not only the individual but also the public generally which has an interest in the status of an individual being spelled out accurately and in clear terms and recorded in properly maintained records.”
“In principle … it is clear that there is authority for the proposition that the court has jurisdiction undersection 55A(1) of the Family Law Act 1986 and in an appropriate case, to grant to a birth parent in the position of the applicant a declaration of parentage in respect of a child following the lawful adoption of that child under the Part 1 of theAdoption and Children Act 2002 .”
“It is arguable that the adoption order does not have the effect of generating an absolute termination of article 8 rights from the perspective of the child. This is particularly true in the present two applicants’ cases because of the issues which arise in respect of their potential for entitlement to a different nationality as a result of the grant of the declaration sought. There would be a coherent case to suggest in particular that an entitlement to share nationality with other members of one’s family (as is the case both for H and C) is part of one’s private and family life and therefore it is likely to be entitled to protection under the convention.”
“(1) Where, in the case of a person whose birth has been registered in England and Wales— (a) the Registrar General receives, by virtue of section 55A(7) or 56(4) of theFamily Law Act 1986 , a notification of the making of a declaration of parentage in respect of that person; and (b) it appears to him that the birth of that person should be re–registered, he shall authorise the re–registration of that person’s birth, and the re–registration shall be effected in such manner and at such place as may be prescribed. (2) This section shall apply with the prescribed modifications in relation to births at sea of which a return is sent to the Registrar General.”
“… remedy the ‘broken connection’ of being an adopted child without a named birth father.”