"From my recent interview with [the father] and having considered his evidence at the last hearing, I wonder also if there is not perhaps a lost in translation issue, firstly at a language level, and, secondly, in a cultural sense that might also go some way to explain his answers and the perception of him by the social workers. When I interviewed him and [the mother], I gained this impression. I also tried to get as much information from both of them via my questions but I thought it would be additionally helpful to both me and the court in determining the right future for [H]. I also do not think that a lost in translation explanation gives the complete picture either. I believe that [the father] finds it hard to accept or does not want to hear that [the mother] has difficulties that impair her parenting abilities. I also do not believe that [the father], despite it being explained to him many times, has any real understanding as to why this would place [H] and the new baby in danger."
"In the context of private law disputes relating to children, there is no presumption in favour of a parent... In a private law case, whilst the fact of parenthood is to be regarded as an important and significant factor in considering which proposals better advance the welfare of the child, the only principle is that the child's welfare is to be afforded paramount consideration." "
"22. In Re B-S[2013] EWCA Civ 1146 ,[2014] 1 WLR 563 at [18 - 28], Munby P set out the fundamental principles to be applied when the court is considering adoption, emphasising the severe nature of adoption and the need for rigorous and careful analysis of the options where the starting point is the natural family. Extracts from [18 – 28] are set out below: '18. We start withArticle 8 of the European Convention for the Protection of Human Rights and Fundamental Freedoms. …The overarching principle remains as explained by Hale LJ, as she then was, in Re C and B[2001] 1 FLR 611 , para 34: "
"family ties may only be severed in very exceptional circumstances and … everything must be done to preserve personal relations and, where appropriate, to 'rebuild' the family. It is not enough to show that a child could be placed in a more beneficial environment for his upbringing." 20. Section 52(1)(b) of the 2002 Act provides, as we have seen, that the consent of a parent with capacity can be dispensed with only if the welfare of the child "requires" this. "
"the court should begin with a preference for the less interventionist rather than the more interventionist approach. This should be considered to be in the better interests of the children … unless there are cogent reasons to the contrary." 25. Implicit in all this are three important points emphasised by Lord Neuberger in Re B 26. First (Re B paras 77, 104), although the child's interests in an adoption case are paramount, the court must never lose sight of the fact that those interests include being brought up by the natural family, ideally by the natural parents, or at least one of them, unless the overriding requirements of the child's welfare make that not possible. 27. Second (Re B para 77), as required by section 1(3)(g) of the 1989 Act and section 1(6) of the 2002 Act, the court "must" consider all the options before coming to a decision. As Lady Hale said (para 198) it is "necessary to explore and attempt alternative solutions"
"the test for severing the relationship between parent and child is very strict: only in exceptional circumstances and where motivated by overriding requirements pertaining to the child's welfare, in short, where nothing else will do."
"...the court of the other state would be better placed to hear the case or a specific part thereof and where this is in the best interests of the child."
"The question is whether the transfer is in the child's best interests. This is a different question from what eventual outcome to the case will be in the child's best interests. The focus of the inquiry is different, but it is wrong to call it 'attenuated'. The factors relevant to deciding the question will vary according to the circumstances. It is impossible to be definitive. But there is no reason at all to exclude the impact upon the child's welfare, in the short or the longer term, of the transfer itself."
"...would require ongoing support and supervision to ensure her child's needs were met in all areas of basic care. She needed constant prompts and reminders to complete tasks required to meet a child's changing needs."
"[The mother] needs support to complete complex tasks or tasks that have not been part of her routine for a long time. [The mother] has had limited educational opportunities when she was a child and so some difficulties she currently has may be due to lack of opportunities to learn and develop when she was younger. [The mother] appears to need verbal prompts to do unfamiliar tasks to a good standard. [The mother's] husband advised he is helping her to learn new tasks but that [the mother] needs lots of repetition and seems to forget what he has tried to teach her. Therefore, [the mother] may benefit from accessible information with pictures or photos to break down tasks so that she can remember how to do them."
"At times, she was able to remember some things. For example, when we were making a bottle using the flat side of a knife. She could remember that and get that right every session but the numbers, the ratios, she could not show that she had remembered that from session to session."
"I personally would look after him. It is not true that mother cannot look after him. She is his mum and she feels very painful when she hears this."
"I think the worries I would have were that the support could be there for some time but the rest of the time we would rely on father to look after H and I am not sure or convinced that he might not, with the best of intentions, be tempted to go to work. I do not think it would cover the weekends. Because of the worries I have about mother's ability or inability to anticipate H's needs, I would be worried that would risk H being scalded or walking out into the road, not getting enough food, not having the right clothing. Despite the support, the essential is for the father to be with the mother all the time and I am not sure that would be the case."
"H's attachment, contact, and permanency needs and his medical (his Klinefelter diagnosis) cultural identity, birth roots and diversity needs, his living circumstances, his parents' particular circumstances and intentions, and/or their support or not for whatever permanent option, as well as the proposed local authority plans for H are some of the important, bespoke, and relevant factors for H that inform the best welfare plan for him."
"We consider that if a Romanian child is adopted abroad without his parents' agreement, without the other member state's approval, disobeying the provisions of both national and international legal framework, the best interests of the child might be affected. Please receive the assurance of our full cooperation with a view to safeguard the best interests of the Romanian children. We would kindly ask you to inform the court on the above-mentioned considerations. We confirm we will not attend the court hearings but we are requesting to keep us updated about this case."
"Just as we must respect and trust the competence of other member states, so must they respect and trust ours."