“The mother’s grounds of appeal rely largely on a number of alleged procedural irregularities. However, I grant permission to appeal because I consider that the proposed appeal has a real prospect of success in particular in respect of the judge’s approach and his substantive decision. It is arguable that the judge adopted the wrong legal approach having regard to the fact that his decision was, in its effect, a long-term welfare decision and not simply a decision on whether to make a summary return order. It is also arguable that the judge’s welfare analysis was flawed and his decision wrong.”
“It is clear they have a strong sense of belonging to the UAE, and by comparison X feels unfamiliar and unstable to them.”
“(a) display clear indicators of having sustained some emotional harm as a result of exposure to harmful adult behaviour; (b) have felt hopelessly caught in the middle of the highly acrimonious and volatile separation of their parents at the same time as being uprooted from their home, school and friends; (c) have both experienced a difficult adjustment; (d) are likely to have been emotionally harmed through this and are now considered vulnerable by social services as a result.”
“The Cafcass officer goes on to state as follows: (a) If the mother’s allegations in respect of the father are accurate this would “…present a significant concern for both her and the children’s safety in the care of their father in the UAE”; (b) her understanding of the situation in UAE is that there would be little scope for her allegations to be investigated there; (c) there would be ongoing “…. potential risk to the children in this scenario if they were to remain unassessed.”
“the deteriorating marriage was a significant source of stress and frustration that he found challenging to manage, especially in the context of excessive alcohol use by him.”
“in a general sense that he found aspects of caring for the children at times challenging”
“it may well indeed have been the case that the mother had financial expectations that exceeded their capacity and she sought for them to live beyond their means. However, I am equally satisfied that the father exercised a degree of unhealthy control over her in relation to finances. He held the financial ‘whip hand’ which he would use in the course of arguments with her. I am satisfied that this would have had a disempowering effect on her and was, to a degree, abusive. The impact of this control must also be seen in the context of the culminative impact on her of the other findings of abuse set out in this judgment.”
“3. I received the court’s judgment dated 22/05/23, which, in summary, declines to make findings of significant coercive and controlling abuse, and sexual abuse. A finding of financial abuse was made, illustrating that the father held an ‘unhealthy’ level of control over the family finances, but caveated this as being on the ‘less serious end of the spectrum’ of controlling abuse.4. The court’s judgement sets out that both parents were capable of initiating aggression towards one another and have at times been mutually verbally abusive. Alcohol has likely been an exacerbating factor in terms of the parents’ abilities to manage the deterioration in their relationship.”
“I understand why a return to a patriarchal society where she would enjoy fewer rights than the father, having emerged from a relationship where she was victim of financially controlling behaviour might be an unwelcome prospect for the mother. I am however mindful of the fact that [she] chose to make UAE her home of her own accord before meeting and marrying the father, with this being the location where the couple met. [She] was able to have a life of independence there prior to her marriage, and presumably could do so again following their separation, with the assurances from the father that it would be safe and legal for her to do so.”
“Ultimately, my recommendation for the children rests on where I feel they would most likely be afforded the opportunity to have all their important relationships facilitated and promoted to the best standard. My assessment is that this would be in UAE, either under a shared care arrangement with both parents living in separate houses, or under the primary care of their father, and spending holidays with their mother. I am concerned that the children remaining in X under the primary care of their mother is restrictive for them in terms of how frequently their father can travel back to the UK to visit them, given the responsibilities of his position as director of his own business, and the family finances. The mother is neither financially solvent enough nor willing to promote trips to the UAE for the children to spend time there.”
“In relation to the court’s fact-finding judgment, [she] felt that, whilst both parents accepted the outcome, neither of them agreed with all aspects of it. She felt that the judgment explored the “power dynamic” between the parents. She felt that whilst there was a finding against the father in relation to past finances, she did not form the view that this was a “pattern” that extended to all aspects of his conduct towards her. The judgment coincided with her own view that each parent was capable of behaving badly towards the other, to which the children had been exposed.”
“I remind myself again of the fundamental principle that the children's welfare is my paramount consideration. I must have regard to the welfare checklist withinsection 1(3) Children Act 1989 . I have to decide whether to order summary return to the UAE or whether a further welfare enquiry and assessment should be made whilst the children remain in this jurisdiction.”
“vi) It is clear that the children were exposed to their parents' dysfunctional relationship both in their home in the UAE and during visits to the family home in X; vii) I have found that both parents were responsible for the dysfunction and toxicity in their relationship; viii) I have made a number of findings against the father in the fact-finding judgment in terms of domestic abuse and controlling behaviour. However, it is fair to further record that these findings fundamentally relate to the period of the marriage. I also agree with [the Cafcass officer’s] assessment that father's controlling behaviour did not pervade all aspects of the mother's life and would not lead him to act inappropriately in relation to the children in the future; ix) I also remind myself that I have found that the father used unacceptable physical chastisement towards the children in the past. However, I am satisfied that he has gained insight in relation to the inappropriate nature of such parenting methods. There have been no recent alleged incidents of this kind. I also bear in mind [the Cafcass officer’s] evidence that the children demonstrate no sense of fear of their father. They clearly love him; x) In short, in my judgment, the earlier findings against the father do not preclude him from discharging a full and enduring role as a parent in the children's lives in the future.”
“However, in my judgment, any application by the mother to remove the children from the UAE would be very likely to fail in any event. The children's very strong connections to the UAE set out above, together with the father's ongoing residence there and the mother's retention of the children in August 2022 would all count against any court granting a relocation application as being in the best interests of the children.”
“Sadly, as indicated more than once already, both children have been exposed to significant emotional harm by the parents, which has adversely interrupted the development of their appropriate attachments to them. This has potential long term adverse implications for them as they mature in adults.”
“I now turn to the parents' deficiencies. I start by reflecting again on my fact-finding judgment. Frankly, both parents have previously failed their children as a consequence of the way they conducted their disintegrating relationship. Whilst the worst of this is now behind the children, with some damage having already been done to the children, there are still flashpoints around handovers and ongoing indirect contact.”
“I do bear in mind the findings that I have made against him. However, I have equally found that they do not disqualify him from fulfilling a full role in the children's lives. It is clear that the mother is struggling to come to terms with this reality.”
“191. There are a number of factors in support of the children remaining with the mother in X. In particular, this would be a continuation of the current arrangements thereby avoiding the impact of change, their basic needs will be met by her as their primary carer, they will remain physically close to members of the paternal family, they will accept such an outcome and, in Y’s case, there will probably be appropriate special educational provision in the event that she has special need/s in this respect. 192. Nevertheless, in my judgement there are significant, and ultimately compelling, reasons in support of their summary return to the UAE. In particular, they will return to the familiarity of their ‘home’ in what is, in reality, their ‘home country’, they will have their needs met there, they will be exposed to less negativity in relation to the other parent and they will have their needs for appropriate contact with their mother and their wider extended families properly met in the future. 193. Accordingly, albeit following anxious reflection in a finely balanced case, I have ultimately reached the clear conclusion that the children should return to the UAE.”
“Failure to have adequate regard to all the facts found in the fact-finding judgement against the father when making the final welfare decision (flawed welfare analysis). Relying heavily on the CAFCASS’s updated report in circumstances where the author of that report has not explicitly referred to/factored in the adverse findings made against the father before arriving at her conclusions.”
“1. This Practice Direction applies to any family proceedings in the Family Court or the High Court under the relevant parts of theChildren Act 1989 or the relevant parts of theAdoption and Children Act 2002 in which an application is made for a child arrangements order, or in which any question arises about where a child should live, or about contact between a child and a parent or other family member, where the court considers that an order should be made. 2. The purpose of this Practice Direction is to set out what the Family Court or the High Court is required to do in any case in which it is alleged or admitted, or there is other reason to believe, that the child or a party has experienced domestic abuse perpetrated by another party or that there is a risk of such abuse.”
“The mother points out, however, that, by para 1, the Practice Direction applies only to proceedings under the relevant parts of the 1989 Act (which would include an application for a specific issue order) or of theAdoption and Children Act 2002 . Therefore it does not expressly apply to the determination of any application under the inherent jurisdiction, including of an application governed by consideration of a child’s welfare in which disputed allegations of domestic abuse are made. Nevertheless, as in relation to the welfare check-list, a court which determines such an application is likely to find it helpful to consider the requirements of the Practice Direction; and if it is considering whether to make a summary order, it will initially examine whether, in order sufficiently to identify what the child’s welfare requires, it should, in the light of the Practice Direction, conduct an inquiry into the allegations and, if so, how extensive that inquiry should be.”
“35. When deciding the issue of child arrangements the court should ensure that any order for contact will not expose the child to an unmanageable risk of harm and will be in the best interests of the child. 36. (1) In the light of- (a) any findings of fact, (b) admissions; or (c) domestic abuse having otherwise been established, the court should apply the individual matters in the welfare checklist with reference to the domestic abuse which has occurred and any expert risk assessment obtained. (2) In particular, the court should in every case consider any harm- (a) which the child as a victim of domestic abuse, and the parent with whom the child is living, has suffered as a consequence of that domestic abuse; and (b) which the child and the parent with whom the child is living is at risk of suffering, if a child arrangements order is made. (3) The court should make an order for contact only if it is satisfied- (a) that the physical and emotional safety of the child and the parent with whom the child is living can, as far as possible, be secured before, during and after contact; and (b) that the parent with whom the child is living will not be subjected to further domestic abuse by the other parent. 37. In every case where a finding or admission of domestic abuse is made, or where domestic abuse is otherwise established, the court should consider the conduct of both parents towards each other and towards the child and the impact of the same. In particular, the court should consider – (a) the effect of the domestic abuse on the child and on the arrangements for where the child is living; (b) the effect of the domestic abuse on the child and its effect on the child's relationship with the parents; (c) whether the parent is motivated by a desire to promote the best interests of the child or is using the process to continue a form of domestic abuse against the other parent; (d) the likely behaviour during contact of the parent against whom findings are made and its effect on the child; and (e) the capacity of the parents to appreciate the effect of past domestic abuse and the potential for future domestic abuse.” (a) any findings of fact, (b) admissions; or (c) domestic abuse having otherwise been established, (a) which the child as a victim of domestic abuse, and the parent with whom the child is living, has suffered as a consequence of that domestic abuse; and (b) which the child and the parent with whom the child is living is at risk of suffering, if a child arrangements order is made. (a) that the physical and emotional safety of the child and the parent with whom the child is living can, as far as possible, be secured before, during and after contact; and (b) that the parent with whom the child is living will not be subjected to further domestic abuse by the other parent. (a) the effect of the domestic abuse on the child and on the arrangements for where the child is living; (b) the effect of the domestic abuse on the child and its effect on the child's relationship with the parents; (c) whether the parent is motivated by a desire to promote the best interests of the child or is using the process to continue a form of domestic abuse against the other parent; (d) the likely behaviour during contact of the parent against whom findings are made and its effect on the child; and (e) the capacity of the parents to appreciate the effect of past domestic abuse and the potential for future domestic abuse.”