“39. The assessment of the grandmother’s ability to provide safe care for B is not limited to her ability to care for him physically, however. By far the greater issue regarding the grandmother is her ability to protect B from his parents. There is no suggestion that either of B’s parents would deliberately harm him but as a result of the court assessment of their parenting ability generally any exposure to the parents would put B at risk of emotional harm and maybe physical harm if he were to become caught up in one of their arguments as his half sibling was. I must therefore go on to assess the maternal grandmother’s ability to protect. 40. If B were to be placed with the maternal grandmother on the basis of a special guardianship order the court would have to be satisfied that the maternal grandmother is capable of protecting B from his parent’s toxic relationship. Any doubt established on the balance of probabilities that the grandmother was either unwilling or unable to protect B would lead to a conclusion that a special guardianship placement would be unsustainable and would expose B to a risk of significant harm. Thus, in order to quantify this risk it is appropriate to consider the relationship between the maternal grandmother and each parent in some detail.”
“51. … My conclusion that B cannot be placed with his parents is based upon my finding that satisfactory home conditions are unlikely to be maintained and that the toxicity of the relationship between the parents will be a constant threat to B’s emotional and physical safety. I am satisfied that the maternal grandmother is incapable of protecting B from that dangerous relationship. 52. Regarding the court’s requirement to look at all the aspects of the case holistically and only to make a placement order if nothing else will do, I have considered whether long term fostering will meet B’s need; it will not. B needs the security that a fostering placement will not provide. If B were to be placed in long term foster care, he would be able to develop a relationship with his siblings. This is a significant factor in the balance. He would also maintain contact with his immediate and extended family; again, this is also a significant factor. However, the inherent uncertainty that accompanies foster placements mean that the opportunity for a permanent home in a loving family unit, in my judgment, outweighs the advantages of foster care. 53. There is no other realistic option to consider as there are no other possible family carers. 54. Having regard to the welfare checklist inThe Adoption of Children Act 2002 and considering B’s welfare for the whole of his life I am satisfied that the only option which will meet B’s welfare needs is adoption. If B is adopted, not only will he have the opportunity of living within a safe family setting for his minority, he will become blended into an extended family which will provide him with a supportive environment for the whole of his life. 55. In so far as the parents will not consent to such an order I dispense with their consent finding that B’s welfare requires such. 56. Finally I am satisfied that the orders I will make are consistent with the B’s and his family’s individual human rights.”