“42. M has a family life and school life in England, he has friends and has adapted to the change in his country of residence. It is my assessment that he has achieved a settled status in the physical sense of being established in his community, and in an emotional and physical sense, feeling secure and stable in his current life. The court will question how a child can be considered settled when residing in the country prevents them from a relationship with the absent parent. Whilst I recognise and accept that there is an element of his psychological settlement missing, given the absence of a regular and clear pattern of time with his father, I do not believe that this has prevented him from establishing a stable life in England.”
“21 So, what is the position of both parents? The father, who is the applicant, says that there was an unlawful retention of M and therefore a breach of his custody rights under Article 3 of the Hague Convention. He says that the relevant date is either a date in November, post10 November 2018 , after the mother’s engagement or, in the alternative, a date in April 2019 when the mother removed M from Poland and brought him back to England. He says that if I find that those Article 3 rights have been breached, then I must order M’s return to Poland, unless one of the exceptions that are stated in the legislation apply. Those would be consent under Article 13A or grave harm under Article 13B. He says neither of those exceptions apply in this case and therefore I am mandated to order M’s return to Poland. 22 The mother says that there is evidence – and I put it no higher than that – of the father consenting to the arrangements, i.e. the permanent removal to England, and that although the situation was an evolving picture, the evolution of the picture was such that by January 2019 the father knew that she was going to live in England permanently. She had reconstituted a family for herself and M and that the father had visited her family in February and in April 2019 and he was quite content with the arrangements for the child living in England permanently. The mother says that even if she is wrong about that, M is so well settled here, he has a family that he has craved for, he has half-siblings, and that it would be a major disruption for him were I to order that he returns to Poland for the issues concerning his welfare to be determined.”
“The mother told me that the father knew that she was engaged by January 2019; he understood that M was going to stay here and acquiesced in him staying here.” and acquiesced in him staying here.”
“THE DEPUTY JUDGE: It seems to be the mother's case that she did not really obtain your client's acquiescence clearly and unequivocally. Is that what you gather from---- MS BAKER: My Lord, I think your questions have gone some way to provide clarity on the mother's consent/acquiescence defence. Of course consent in ordinary terms is something very different to consent under the Convention, and so there is no criticism made of the mother for the way her case has been put thus far. THE DEPUTY JUDGE: No. MS BAKER: But it seems to me that she falls foul of the acid test set out in Re P-J. As my Lord has identified, there was no clear and unequivocal consent and no subsequent acquiescence.”
“MS BAKER: … We have now, I think, my Lord -- we have put the nail in the coffin, if I may, on consent and acquiescence.”
“33. Applying the law to those findings, what conclusions do I draw? Ms Baker, on behalf of the father, says that the relevant date for the purposes of determining the father’s application is, firstly,10 November 2018 , being the date when the mother became engaged to her partner. I am not sure that I can be as precise as that. The mother told me – and I accept this – that she did not come to a conclusion on a specific day, rather like a light switch, that she would be staying in England. Asked by me whether, in getting engaged to a man who lived in this country, who had lived in this country for 14 years, and who had two children with whom he was having good and regular contact, she was in effect in a position where she was saying that she was going to live in this country permanently. The mother, I think I am right in saying, accepted that her decision to get engaged could reasonably be seen as her decision to remain in this country. 34. The mother’s engagement and reconstitution of her family in this country repudiated the father’s rights of custody in that the mother unilaterally decided that M would live permanently in this jurisdiction. It flies in the face of common sense to imagine that the mother would have agreed to the engagement without contemplating the consequences for M or on her declared intention to return to Poland. It is reasonable, in my view, to conclude that once she made that commitment the reasonable fallout would be permanence in the UK or in England and the repudiation of the father’s rights, unless, of course, the father was consenting to the child remaining here. I do not find that there is evidence that he did so clearly and unequivocally. 35. If I am wrong about that, Ms Baker points out that, as an alternative, May or June 2019 when the mother removed M from Poland without the father’s consent and despite being in the midst of Polish proceedings, was in breach of the father’s rights of custody. I have some sympathy for that argument. The difficulty with the argument, however, is that it stretches the question of habitual residence, but Ms Baker says that the way around that concern really is to say that although habitual residence may have changed to England, at the point at which the father removed the child from the mother’s care and brought him back to Poland, then the pendulum, as it were, or the seesaw, swung back to Poland and therefore his habitual residence was in Poland. I hope I have accurately and favourably reflected Ms Baker’s argument. I have to say, that has some force as well. 36. So, if asked whether or not there was a breach of the father’s custody rights, I would say undoubtedly in the affirmative, yes. When is the relevant date? This court says some time in November 2018. It does not endorse Ms Baker’s bold point about the 10 November. The point at which the mother made the decision that she was going to be engaged to her partner in England and live here, she repudiated the father’s rights of custody. I consider that those circumstances fall squarely within the repudiatory retention as defined by Lord Hughes in para. 51 of Re C (above). If I am wrong about that, my view is that the second date of June 2019, when the mother removed M from Poland without the father’s consent and despite them being in the midst of Polish proceedings was, in my view, in breach of his custody rights. 37. I cannot agree with the mother when she says that the father consented to these arrangements. I find a dearth, if not the absence, of evidence of consent to the requisite standard. I do not believe there was clear, unequivocal consent in this case and therefore I do not find any basis for any of the exceptions that would ordinarily be considered by the court. 38. My decision is, therefore, that it will have to be the Polish court that determines the welfare issues that are crying out to be dealt with in this case. At the outset of the case, I asked the parties about arrangements were I to accede to the father’s application for a return order. I was told that the father would be prepared to wait until the end of this half term and for the return to be effected during the half term. The mother was to find out when the half term would be and was to tell the court and I will have that discussion with the parties in due course. 39. The father offered financial assistance to the mother for flights and for the payment of accommodation. He also offered undertakings which are set out on page C157 of the bundle. He is not to attend the airport on the return date. He is not to use or threaten violence against the mother, nor to instruct or encourage any person to do so. He is not to separate or cause separation of M from his mother, save for the purposes of the contact with him. I am going to add that he is not to denigrate or, indeed, discuss the mother’s family with M and, of course, he has undertaken to provide maintenance for M whilst the Polish court determines this issue. THE DEPUTY JUDGE: That is my decision, Ms Baker. Is there anything which you think I have missed out? MS BAKER: My Lord, I would be very grateful if I could just clarify one point with you. THE DEPUTY JUDGE: Yes, certainly. MS BAKER: It is in respect of the alternative May 2019 retention. You were very clear that you would find in the alternative that there was a breach of father’s rights of custody. What I would invite you to clarify is whether you have found that at that stage M was habitually resident in Poland, as at the date of removal in May 2019. THE DEPUTY JUDGE: Yes.”
“Clarification on habitual residence Whilst M made good connections in England and appears to have integrated somewhat into the mother’s reconstituted family, I find ultimately that he was not sufficiently uprooted from Poland to lose his habitual residence there. In my judgment M’s degree of integration in England was not such that his habitual residence in Poland changed to England primarily due to the significant degree of uncertainty that continued to exist throughout 2019 about the mother’s, and thus M’s, future plans, which meant that their stay in England can only reasonably be described as temporary or intermittent, for example; • There was a distinct lack of clarity from the mother about her intentions. Even after her engagement in November 2018 when I found that she formed an intention to remain, there remained a general state of flux regarding her plans and there was a lot of uncertainty about her future. • The establishment and success/failure of her proposed business would influence whether the mother stayed in England permanently or not. • There were a number of discussions between the parents and the mother sent mixed messages to the father about her intentions. • She said in terms on at least one occasion (paragraph 30) that she (and therefore M) wanted to live in Poland and not England and that the child would not be staying permanently in England. • In a telephone conversation between the parents on 14.04.2019, which the mother accepted took place, I found that the mother told that father that M would be returned to Poland at Easter that year or at the end of the academic year. • M continued to retain his links with Poland e.g. he spent periods with his father in England and in Poland. He also spent time with his maternal grandmother in Poland in April/May 2019. • The mother applied to the Polish Court in April 2019 for permission to remove M permanently to England which presupposes that she accepted that the child was still habitually resident in Poland and that Poland was the appropriate court to make decisions about M’s welfare – which is a conclusion with which I agree.”
“[38] The key to the concept of early wrongful retention, if it exists in law, must be that the travelling parent is thereafter denying, or repudiating, the rights of custody of the left-behind parent and, instead of honouring them, is insisting on unilaterally deciding where the child will live. In the absence of a better expression, the term which will be used here will, for that reason, be “repudiatory retention”.” and “[43] … So long as the travelling parent honours the temporary nature of the stay abroad, he is not infringing the left-behind parent’s rights of custody. But once he repudiates the agreement, and keeps the child without the intention to return, and denying the temporary nature of the stay, his retention is no longer on the terms agreed. It amounts to a claim to unilateral decision where the child shall live. It repudiates the rights of custody of the left-behind parent, and becomes wrongful.” and “[51] … The question is whether the travelling parent has manifested a denial, or repudiation, of the rights of the left behind parent. Some markers can, however, be put in place.”
“To bring these strands together, in my view the applicable principles are as follows. (1) For the purposes ofarticle 13 of the Convention , the question whether the wronged parent has "acquiesced" in the removal or retention of the child depends upon his actual state of mind. As Neill L.J. said in In re S. (Minors) (Abduction: Acquiescence) [1994] 1 F.L.R. 819, 838: ‘the court is primarily concerned, not with the question of the other parent's perception of the applicant's conduct, but with the question whether the applicant acquiesced in fact.’ (2) The subjective intention of the wronged parent is a question of fact for the trial judge to determine in all the circumstances of the case, the burden of proof being on the p abducting parent. (3) The trial judge, in reaching his decision on that question of fact, will no doubt be inclined to attach more weight to the contemporaneous words and actions of the wronged parent than to his bare assertions in evidence of his intention. But that is a question of the weight to be attached to evidence and is not a question of law. (4) There is only one exception. Where the words or actions of the wronged parent clearly and unequivocally show and have led the other parent to believe G that the wronged parent is not asserting or going to assert his right to the summary return of the child and are inconsistent with such return, justice requires that the wronged parent be held to have acquiesced.”
“2. The concept of ‘habitual residence’ under article 8(1) of Council Regulation (EC) No 2201/2003 must be interpreted as meaning that it corresponds to the place which reflects some degree of integration by the child in a social and family environment. To that end, in particular the duration, regularity, conditions and reasons for the stay on the territory of a member state and the family’s move to that state, the child’s nationality, the place and conditions of attendance at school, linguistic knowledge and the family and social relationships of the child in that state must be taken into consideration. It is for the national court to establish the habitual residence of the child, taking account of all the circumstances specific to each individual case.”
“(i) All are agreed that habitual residence is a question of fact and not a legal concept such as domicile. There is no legal rule akin to that whereby a child automatically takes the domicile of his parents. (ii) It was the purpose of the 1986 Act to adopt a concept which was the same as that adopted in the Hague and European Conventions. The Regulation must also be interpreted consistently with those Conventions. (iii) The test adopted by the European court is ‘the place which reflects some degree of integration by the child in a social and family environment’ in the country concerned. This depends on numerous factors, including the reasons for the family’s stay in the country in question. (iv) It is now unlikely that that test would produce any different results from that hitherto adopted in the English courts under the 1986 Act and the Hague Child Abduction Convention. (v) In my view, the test adopted by the European court is preferable to that earlier adopted by the English courts, being focussed on the situation of the child, with the purposes and intentions of the parents being merely one of the relevant factors …”