“Everyone agrees there is a bond between the children and their grandparents and that removal would be distressing, unsettling and emotionally harmful.”
“the children may already feel unsettled and uncertain about their future. They may already be preparing themselves for a change in home and primary carer and therefore the inevitable harm if I order removal today may be slightly less than would otherwise be the case.”
“60. Drawing all of the threads together now, I am of the view that in the care of the grandparents, there is a risk of emotional and/or psychological harm from: the children seeing their grandparents as short-term carers (leading to feelings of instability); the lack of boundaries and inappropriate threatened consequences for misbehaviour adding to this; witnessing a domestic incident between the grandparents and within their household; and witnessing the conflict between the grandparents and other family members – set against a background of serious incidents arising from conflict within the family. For the avoidance of doubt, I make clear that those are in increasing order of seriousness, from least serious to most. 61. As I indicated at the start of my analysis, in considering the risk of harm, I have to consider the chance of the harm occurring and the seriousness if it does. It is a balancing exercise. With the maternal grandparents, the greater harm seems to arise from incidents involving conflict within the household or within the family. It has rightly been noted on behalf of the Guardian that public law proceedings are stressful proceedings. They are proceedings in which allegations are made and have already been made between members of this family. They are proceedings in which emotions run high. There is perhaps a greater risk of conflict within the family, as a result, than there was before proceedings started. 62. What can I do to manage the risk of conflict in the family, or the risk of abuse within the household? The Local Authority cannot be present 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Initially, I was comforted with the suggestion there had perhaps been only one incident a couple of months ago and that the maternal aunt had taken safeguarding action in reporting it to the police. She is not there to do that now. In the event of an incident or conflict arising, be it domestic abuse within the household, or a violent or damaging incident of conflict with the wider family, she is not there to take the safeguarding action. 63. There was a written agreement in place at one time before those police proceedings. It was broken on more than one occasion. My problem is that any breach of the rules or parameters set by the court or by the Local Authority, or any matter affecting the children’s immediate safety, needs to be reported. The only person to have reported matters to the authorities from within the grandparents’ household is not there now. When I consider the inevitability of deep, emotional distress and another disruption from uprooting these children again from their primary carer, do I consider that the children’s safety or psychological or emotional welfare demands separation from their grandparents and that such a separation until the final hearing, with the harm it will cause, is a proportionate response to the risks if I leave the children in their grandparents’ care? After a great deal of thought, I am afraid that I do.”