“don't tell me how to look after my effin son.”
“5. … I haven’t heard any evidence from that foster carer. I’ve seen an e-mail from her, which indicates that there may be a real issue over the reasons why that placement ended, and I am urged, and accept, as it wouldn’t be appropriate at this preliminary stage, to take that (or indeed the breakdown of the placement with her mother) into account. 6. I must, and do, restrict myself solely to the evidence which I have heard, namely about the current placement, which is necessary to decide this application”
“8. … Before considering the placement in detail, it’s important to bear in mind and make allowances for the fact that the mother is herself very young. … It cannot have been easy, moving to a strange house and having to comply with not just the safety plan but also house rules. Set against that, she can have been under no illusion which she indicated on oath on the 18th of September that she understood the importance of the safety plan, and of the need for her to comply with it, if Andy was to remain with her. 9. … I have absolutely no doubt that the mother’s account, both in her statement and in her oral evidence, that the foster mother told her that she'd seen some awful cases, and that over half the mother and baby placements she had had with her had failed, are lies. 10. They’re lies deliberately told to try and cover up for her behaviour, and for her responsibility towards the breakdown of this placement. Similarly, the mother's statement, that she believes the local authority was setting her up to fail by placing her with this foster carer, was totally mis-founded. The truth is that from the start, for whatever reason, the mother set out to sabotage this placement. …”
“23. The law. We are of course at an interim stage in the proceedings. It follows that I must not consider any issues that are likely to be prepared for the final hearing which carries with it the risk of a premature determination of the case. That is why I have solely focused on the 10 days the mother spent with the foster mother. The threshold for removal is very high – there must be an immediate risk of really serious harm. The authorities for that are well-known. 24. Re L (Care Proceedings: Removal of Child)2008 1 FLR 575 and Re L-A (Care: Chronic Neglect)2010 1 FLR 80 ) amongst others. I must bear in mind the fact that removal is going to be deeply traumatic for the child, because the evidence in this case is quite clear that Andy does find contentment in his mother's arms, that the mother is attentive to his needs, and if she cannot soothe him when he is crying will try lots of other things until he has settled, and also that the way the mother loves and adores Andy is shown by the way she cuddles him, kisses him, talks to him softly, and the sense of pride when he reaches a milestone, and I take that from page 105 of parenting assessment. An earlier position statement/ skeleton argument on behalf of the mother referred to the authority that removal will not be justified where harm is not immediate and not of the gravest sort. 25. There are, on the evidence before me, a number of ways in which that threshold is passed. The starting point is my finding… that the mother has deliberately sabotaged this placement. That has a number of consequences. The first is that should anybody be found to offer her a further placement she’ll undoubtedly do the same again. She knew what she was doing. We’ll all be back here in a matter of days. So that’s not a realistic option. That means that the court is in fact back to precisely the situation that faced the judge on 11 October: either discharge the interim care order so she’s free to return to the father, or to direct removal. 26. There can be absolutely no doubt that to put Andy at risk of contact with the father is placing him at an imminent risk of really serious harm. The past history of the relationship between the parents established that beyond any reasonable doubt. That means the Court, in its primary function of looking after Andy's welfare, has only one option which is removal. 27. Secondly, as the Guardian stated when asked for her attitude should the court conclude that what has gone on here was a deliberate sabotage then she would support removal and would accept that the test would be met, would demonstrate a lack of prioritisation between the welfare of her son and her own emotional needs, and, as I’ve already stated, would contribute to the likelihood of future placements breaking down. 28. Third, there is the impact on Andy's emotional well-being if the mother was to sabotage a further placement as it seems highly likely if not inevitable she will. She won't listen to other people. She said so herself, and there is a pattern where people give her advice about potential danger to Andy, for example over the boiling water while holding him, or leaving him on the bed unattended which she simply will not listen to. Her reaction to being given advice, namely shouting and screaming, carries a further clear risk of causing Andy really serious harm. It follows that I am satisfied that the very high bar in this case is in fact crossed. 29. I don’t think I have mentioned so far that I do bear in mind, of course, that this is a case brought by the local authority, and I have to be satisfied to the balance of probabilities, and that is the test that I have applied. 30. The mother has demonstrated an ability to fail to prioritise Andy's needs, and that set against the history of her relationship with the father, means that the Court has no option but to order removal. 31. I have considered the mother and Andy's Article 8 rights, and I’m satisfied that such an order is proportionate, it reflects the position I have found, that Andy's safety demands immediate separation. That, accordingly, is my judgment.”