“Right well I’m going to leave it to your counsel and [the children’s solicitor] to see how best to construct my thoughts to give you an element of discretion. If you want me to reflect that in the order, if you do not I will not, but I’m signalling to you thatt I’m putting this into your hands to back your judgment… I will give you the framework that you wish, but I want you to use your judgment to keep it afloat knowing that I’m backing your judgment. I am going to not make any order for the therapeutic commitment of the father. If he wants to engage in it that seems to me to be entirely a matter for him. He is far more likely to do it constructively if he is doing it for himself, than to please a judge as part of a court process that will be lipservice, it will not be genuine, nobody ever engages in this kind of therapy … for any other reason than they want to … I am also going to make a 91(14) order to prevent the case coming back before the court without a permission application by the party who wants to bring it back … That permission application is reserved to me, I am afraid.”
“I am just blocking the court process because it is ratcheting up the emotional anti … Take away the court from it and let us just see if that calms things down a bit.”
“I do however recall key features of this case, which eventually resolved by agreement (and as such did not require a judgment)”
“The recording in my earlier order, which the father has produced, suggest to me now that the father was ambivalent in accepting Dr Craig’s conclusions but perhaps trying, pragmatically, to comply with them in order to find a route to a more relaxed contact regime … Today the father has produced a document prepared by a Ms Elaine Swift who is described as a consultant counselling psychologist … Dr Craig had considered that it was necessary for there to be a full course of cognitive analytical therapy in which the father would be required fully to engage. This arose from the extent of what Dr Craig considered to be the father’s significant emotional dysregulation. It is important to record that Dr Craig’s conclusions were not challenged i.e. they were accepted. Ms Swift … plainly disagrees with Dr Craig’s analysis. I am bound to say that if she had seen the father in this court room this morning she may have had cause to re-evaluate her opinion. Ms Swift not only failed to set out her experience, she also fails to advance any coherent reasoning or to engage, at all, with the fact of the case. Her short document is heavy with the father’s self-report. I am not clear what, if any, documents she has seen. In short, she provides no evidential basis which justifies re-opening the litigation at this stage.”
“As the case law demonstrates, in particular Re P[1999] EWCA Civ 1323 , orders under this provision are made cautiously and with great procedural care. The underpinning objective here was to provide the mother and in consequence the children with a period of respite from the intense and corrosive litigation. Conflict is invariably inimical to the welfare of children. I make it perfectly clear to the father that everybody would be delighted if he were to identify and commit to the intensive therapeutic programme that Dr Craig has identified. There are no shortcuts nor will there be any success until there is genuine engagement. I hope the father will receive this message: there is a very big prize for him at the end which should serve to motivate him. Even greater will be the benefit to the children of expanding their relationship with their father. Accordingly I dismiss the father’s application.”
“50. … Given the significant implications of this statutory intrusion into a party’s ordinary ability to access justice, it is imperative that the court is satisfied that the parties affected: (1) Are fully aware that the court is seised of an application, and is considering making such an order. (2) Understand the meaning and effect of such an order. (3) Have full knowledge of the evidential basis on which such an order is sought. (4) Have a proper opportunity to make representations in relation to the making of such an order; this may of course mean adjourning the application for it to be made in writing and on notice. 51. These fundamental requirements obtain whether the parties are legally represented or not. It is, we suggest, even more critical that these requirements are observed when the party affected is unrepresented.”