“… should there be a section 91(14) ban on the father’s residence applications? I have to say that I think there should be if the father is not prepared to calm down and take a more sensible and conciliatory attitude towards the mother, which I have to say I very much doubt whether he will. I am not going to make it. That is a very serious warning shot.”
“Your Honour, can I ask that this is heard….? If you are going to hear this as a conciliation attempt then you cannot hear the hearing”
“That is absolutely fine with me. I will not hear the hearing. I am trying to deal with this now.”
“During the hearing the father accused (sic.) me of attempting to conciliate and suggested that I should therefore recuse myself”
“This is the contact and this arises out of the hearing on 13th May as extended in 20th June. This is not the hearing, this is the prelude to the hearing and I am sitting here and I am carrying on with it.”
“… unless [the father] can give the Court sufficient assurances that he will accept that the best placement for [E] is with her mother, that he is able to commit to bringing this four year long litigatory (sic.) process to an end and that he can commit to contact that the Court should terminate all direct contact between [E] and her father. In the event that [the father] seeks to continue or renew the litigation the Court should make a section 91(14) order for as long a period as possible.”
“The father's behaviour during the short period of my involvement has been in my judgement unreasonable. He was extremely argumentative during the hearing in May as I am sure the tape would show. At the end of the hearing I am aware there was a difficulty between the father and the Guardian which certainly involved raised voices as I received an e-mail from another solicitor who had witnessed what occurred which I attach to this judgment. He then embarked on a tirade to the [contact centre A] and was very argumentative and in my view unreasonable in his communications with the other parties in the case. He said he would pay towards an Independent Social worker but then set to impose all sorts of conditions to this. I am afraid he is and has been in the past a person who is inconsistent and he does not mind what he says or to whom if they are not acting in the way he thinks they should. I have come to the conclusion that I am not doing anyone any favours if I allow the contact to continue. The mother is showing signs of stress and there is likely to be disagreement continuing between herself and the father and E is likely to get caught up in the cross fire. In my judgement a person who seriously wanted future contact to his four year old daughter would not sabotage a contact centre which may have assisted him and was more accessible to the mother for delivery of E simply because he had an alternative which he preferred when as he well knew the mother found the journey to the other quite onerous. A reading of the correspondence/e-mails is absolutely necessary if the reader is to understand my reasoning in its entirety. I predict that even if the sessions at [contact centre B] go smoothly there will be constant issues and it will be difficult if not impossible to implement contact in the community such is the irrationality of the father's behaviour. I have reluctantly come to the conclusion that I should accede to the mother's application supported by the Guardian and conclude that the father should not have contact to E.”
“I am asked by the Guardian (sic. – actually it was the mother’s application) to put a 91(14) restriction on the father's further applications. This was first suggested by Judge Compston … and adjourned by His Honour Judge Altman…. The Guardian suggests the father has been warned of this and this final behaviour tip the balance in favour of making it. The Guardian says it should be for as long as possible. The Guardian's Solicitor says it should be for 5 years. It seems to me that the submission the father will only do things if they are when and how he wants them is made out in this case and the mother should not be expected to be subjected to this either through the Courts or otherwise for the foreseeable future. I believe I can take into account the fact that the parties are still in litigation and have not been out of litigation except for the first four months of [E]’s short life and there is not any prospect of normal contact – outside the contact centre – being established. Moreover, while the father holds any notion he will achieve residence of the child the mother would be anxious and it would not be in the interests of the child for this to be the case. I have come to the conclusion that there should be a ban undersection 91(14) of the Children Act 1989 and the father should not be able to apply to the Court unless the Court gave him leave on an ex parte application to the Court for further residence or contact before [E] attains the age of 10, that is before December 2019. At that time she may or may not wish to see him and may or not be able to contribute to such decisions.”
“Any deliberation about the future direction of contact between [the father] and [E] needs to balance the benefits to [E] of a positive relationship with both of her parents with the impact on [E] of the continued conflict between her mother and father. The court will need to consider the impact of these proceedings on [E] and the implications for her if contact proceeds or is suspended indefinitely.”
“[E] would benefit from having an on-going relationship with her father. Her sense of self and her identity would be enhanced by the resumption of contact.”
“… in any difficult or finely balanced case … it is a great help to address each of the factors in the list, along with any others which may be relevant, so as to ensure that no particular feature of the case is given more weight than it should properly bear.”
“On disposing of any application for an order under this Act, the court may (whether or not it makes any other order in response to the application) order that no application for an order under this Act of any specified kind may be made with respect to the child concerned by any person named in the order without leave of the court.”