“It is fair to say that his evidence was at its weakest over his commitment to T once the strict restraining order has been put in place. On any view he was not proactive and his explanation of the difficulties in his way was not really adequate, viewing it from T’s perspective. There was a sense however of resignation in him to M’s negative view of him. One has to ask oneself just when he would have put his head above the parapet in T’s life had the appellant not made her application. In all possibility that would have been when the mother had died which would have left him, at best as a dim memory in T’s life.”
“Those (contact) records display to an impartial reader a child who is struggling to come to terms with the resurrection of her relationship with her father. They also display understandably a father who is having to learn again what makes T tick. ”
“have already created irreparable damage in the relationship between himself and the appellants in which case there is a real possibility that if T remains with the Appellants, any future contact he may have with T would not be of the quality or frequency that would allow a real bond to built between father and daughter.”
“There is a real danger that if a special guardianship order is made in respect of the appellants then the father will lose contact with his daughter, it is for this reason only that a special guardianship order is not recommended in this case.”
“It is clear to me that she has built up a warm close and supportive relationship with T and has managed the difficulty of being caught up in the midst of essentially a parental dispute in a sensitive level-headed way. Critically, the judge found that, as far as SJH was concerned, he “detected patience and lack of resentment against the father.”
“The argument in favour of the status quo therefore is not strong enough to displace the proposition that the father as a capable parent should assume T’s care upon her mother’s death.”
“We conclude, therefore, that the welfare of each child in the family should continue to be the paramount consideration whenever their custody or upbringing is in question between private individuals. The welfare test itself is well able to encompass any special contribution which natural parents can make to the emotional needs of their child, in particular to his sense of identity and self-esteem, as well as the added commitment which knowledge of their parenthood may bring. We have already said that the indications are that the priority given to the welfare of the child needs to be strengthened rather than undermined. We could not contemplate making any recommendation which might have the effect of weakening the protection given to children under the present law.”
“I am of the opinion that the fact of parenthood is to be regarded as an important and significant factor in considering which proposals better advance the welfare of the child. Such fact does not, however, establish a presumption in favour of the natural parent, nor generate a preferential position in favour of the natural parent from which the Court commences its decision-making process… Each case should be determined upon an examination of its own merits and of the individuals there involved”
“44. The fact that CG is the natural mother of these children in every sense of that term, whilst raising no presumption in her favour, is undoubtedly an important and significant factor in determining what will be best for them now and in the future.”
“It is highly regrettable that the relevant case law was not drawn to the attention of the judge by counsel then instructed”
“In common with all other factors bearing on what is in the best interest of the child, it must be examined for its potential to fulfil that aim.”