“So far as living in Brazil is concerned they will be in familiar surroundings speaking a language they are comfortable with and in close contact with grandparents and other relations. According to H, they will enjoy better weather. They will, however, miss their father. Against that, the effect of a return to her homeland and proximity to her parents and relatives for the mother has to be considered. On the balance of probabilities it is likely that the mother will be much happier in Brazil. Whether she will recover from depression technically is a medical question, which the absence of an expert witness prevents me from answering, but on any sensible view she will be happier and more relaxed. This on the evidence of [the CAFCASS officer] is likely to make her more relaxed and more fun for her children, so there would be a considerable benefit for them.”
“The dilemma here is that a move to Brazil will enhance the children’s life with their mother, who has been the main carer, but reduce the amount of direct contact with the father, with whom they have a strong bond. I agree with [the CAFCASS officer] that this case is finely balanced but I think the result I conclude is that the welfare of these children is best served by them remaining in the care of their mother, who has been their main carer throughout their lives, and moving with her back to her roots in Brazil where her increased happiness will be reflected upon them. If at the end of the financial dispute between the parties the mother has funds to provide the pot with£20,000 to finance travel for contact she must do so. The mother has offered to bring the children to England or Portugal twice a year. I do not propose to order that. I do not regard such lengthy travel twice a year as in the best interests of children of this age. The journey takes about one and a half days and normally involves three aeroplanes. I shall order one such journey per year. Of course the parties will be at liberty to agree more contact if they wish. I do not consider it appropriate to order it. As I understand it, the mother is happy to arrange contact in [Brazil] three or four times a year. I shall limit the order to three times a year. Again, the parties are at liberty to agree more. The order should ensure that the children should be able to have contact with their father at least four times and for extended periods.”
“Unless it can be realistically achieved, the prospective loss of face to face contact has arguably received insufficient weight in the balance.”