“This mother needs to understand the Court is anxious to see contact resumed. These findings made by the Court do not represent a bar to contact. I will be looking to the mother to give the children permission to enjoy the benefit from that and I do not wish to see further damage to these children.”
“…the position of the [guardian] is as that of the Learned Judge, that the findings are not a bar to contact. It is accepted the re-introduction of contact will need to be carefully managed but that this can be achieved and that direct contact should commence immediately. Further delay in facilitating contact would only serve to cause further entrenchment. Furthermore, Mr Parr [the] Psychologist, in his assessment will be required to observe contact.”
“This then is the full background against which I have to determine father’s application for a residence order. It turns on whether I can, on the balance of probabilities, safely place reliance on mother’s change of position and on her promises to ensure in the future that the children’s needs for a full and loving relationship with father and his family are met such as will repair some of the harm done and prevent any further emotional harm in the future.”