“The various proceedings at Willesden County Court, settled by mediation, did indeed deal with a financial settlement. As outlined in that mediation agreement, and incorporated by Court Order dated14 July 2005 , successful completion would be based on all aspects of that agreement. Your client is choosing to contest that agreement. In the circumstances that your client is contesting the financial settlement as an inseparable part of that agreement, it cannot be possible to consider contact between [J] and your client at this time.”
“March 2006 – due to the constant threats made by Mrs Cameron and her subsequent dishonouring of the agreement in [the proceedings under the Act of 1975]I decided that contact between her and my son would clearly not be in his best interests. Those threats, if carried out, would have seriously undermined my ability to raise [J] and would have had an effect on his general well-being. [The grandmother’s] actions and threats were inconsistent with her considering my son’s best interests.”
“Meanwhile I think I should grant a stay on the order, in fact no contact has been taking place so I am told, and rather than have further proceedings for penal notices and goodness knows what, it is better to impose a stay in the hope that the appeal can be heard quite shortly.”
“In my view a judge in family cases has a much broader discretion … to conduct the case as is most appropriate for the issues involved and the evidence available … There is a spectrum of procedure for family cases from the ex parte application on minimal evidence to the full and detailed investigations on oral evidence which may be prolonged. Where on that spectrum a judge decides a particular application should be placed is a matter for his discretion. Applications for residence orders or for committal to the care of a local authority or revocation of a care order are likely to be decided on full oral evidence, but not invariably. Such is not the case on contact applications which may be and are heard sometimes with and sometimes without oral evidence or with a limited amount of oral evidence.”